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04-07-2014, 01:56 PM
2 months ago(Tomorow it will be) I met up with a girl from okc. Things went very well and we fucked 3 hours after we first met up. Almost one month in she became my Gf. It's been going great. Lots of sex, fun, and connection. Then. Decided to check my okc today since it's been a while. She has the pic i took of her in a bar as her profile pic, with "Just chilling at place xxxx". She has the teases i gave her and things i've said in her profile, now with casual sex listed as well. Single too.
Redpill knowledge hits me back hard again. She's a real sweety, fragile. It's easy to make her cry. She didn't seem like she had the nerve for cheating or trying too. She text me everyday telling me how she misses me and if i'm coming over. She's currently on a study trip, returing next monday. I'm thinking about going cold on her and keep radio silence. The sex is awesome and plenty. I want that...
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04-07-2014, 02:07 PM
I personally don't like what you're doing. It seems to me that seeing her profile and the things on it has hurt you, and now you're lashing out and trying to hurt her back. It seems like you're letting your emotions rule you.
Figure out what you want. If you want her as your girlfriend, tell her that you won't put up with her having an okc profile listing her as single. Tell her you want exclusivity. Tell her she's sweet and you like her but st the same time she's replaceable and if she doesn't change her ways and be loyal you'll next her.
If on the other hand you just want her as a fuck buddy she's free to do whatever she wants and you don't have any justification to be hurt by it and act like a little bitch.
Red pill is understanding human nature. Why were you on okc? If you're going on there I don't fault her for going on there. Also it's early days, you've known her for 2 months... That's nothing..
My advice would be to tell her what you want and if she doesn't like it next her. You deserve having a loyal girlfriend but she needs to know what type of loyalty and boundaries you want. Definitely don't pout and ignore her, that's such weak woman behaviour.
Best of luck brutha. Keep us updated.
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04-07-2014, 02:29 PM
I find it strange you know exactly the day you met a girl online and how invested you are in her. You fucked her after 3 hours, from online. Sure, your game may be tight but online fuck in 3 hours + okcupid details + casual sex/single = no-no.
Don't think about radio silence. Do it and do it because you aren't interested and moved on. This will just drain your time and emotions. She takes your redeeming qualities for granted and the more attention you give her the deeper you dig your hole.
Get some standards dude I would have dropped her long time ago. I don't trade sex for headaches.
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04-07-2014, 02:50 PM
My 2c ... it doesn't really matter.
Let me put it this way - she's a girl, and if she is young, cute and DTF she can have a mile of dick lining up at her front door any time she wants.
Profile or no profile, it does absolutely nothing to change the underlying SMP reality that she operates in. The instant she spots a shinier dick or gets tired of you, she just goes and picks the next dick in line. Sure, she can take all her dating site profiles down and play little goody two shoes for you if that's what gets your rocks off, but know that she can always put the profile back up again and pick a fresh hungry dick from her inbox under 15 minutes and meet him the same day and bang him in under three hours. This is just how it works.
Her becoming your girlfriend is like you saying "honey you look good in that dress". Take it as a compliment, not as an objective truth. Because the objective truth is that it's a war zone out there and there simply is no such thing as "your girlfriend" anymore.
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04-07-2014, 03:33 PM
Abundancy man, abundancy !!
If she did that with you, what makes she won't do that with any other dick ? You should've expected this.
In one month she became your GF ? That's a no-no for sure ! I have a rotation but the main girl I'm seeing (since Jan) the thought of her being my girl hasn't crossed my mind (it wont for awhile say 6 months, till i really get to know her).
I agree with WD-40, plenty of beta oribters, plenty of dick lined up every which way, she's in demand !
KIKZ is right as well your game may be tight but she's a no no for a relationship.
Drop her cold, or just put her in your rotation. She's a lost cause man !
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04-09-2014, 10:28 PM
Like I preach over and over, do NOT get exclusive/make a girl your girlfriend until AFTER you've casually dated her for at least 6 months and she initiates and works for it, proving herself.
The knowledge is out there to avoid these situations.
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04-10-2014, 12:15 PM
Posts like these are funny. Guys want to learn game and adopt red pill thinking so that they can be better with women and stop being taken for suckers. They get better and then realize what it means. And then they get this longing to go back and undo it all and be innocent again.
It's natural, I guess. But to quote the immortal lines of Mob Deep, "there ain't no such thing as halfway crooks." You're either a out this life or you're not.
Why are you tryin to lock some chick down in under a month? The whole point of this game is options. That's not to say that relationships are off the table, but they ought to be something that she earns. Girls like this know when you want it more than she wants it and they'll eat you alive.
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04-10-2014, 12:25 PM
call her out on it. I tell girls I meet online that if they want anything with me that they will delete their profile. If they argue, I will end it, but they always end up choosing me over the dating website. If you want a loyal girl, you don't want a girl actively checking out a dating website.
That being said, I think you should be dating other girls (while still dating her). You still don't know how much you like this girl and you're wasting chances to meet other girls you may like even more.
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04-12-2014, 04:52 PM
Ok, so a little update on this issue.
It's all good. She put in a relationship on her fb. Even had her mother call her up, asking about it. She's been on a study trip about a week now... Texted me that she had to jack off twice in the shower, because she's so horny right now. Says she misses my funstick and needs fucking + a ton of "I love you texts"
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04-13-2014, 11:06 PM
That's all good man but don't let it make you overlook/ignore the stellar advice these guys are dropping...re read and evaluate- just my opinion but these guys are spot on.
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04-15-2014, 06:33 AM
The knowlege i've gained here has been priceless. The great thing about this relationship is that she's very problem free, and let's me bang her up to 6 times a week. That's awesome...
