[bojangles]

(12-11-2013 12:43 PM)Spider Wrote:  

Krauser has a good post on long-game.

I believe he'll occasionally fb message a girl he hasn't banged yet, but met and received good vibes from, slowly building enough comfort so that when she returns she is ready to bang.

Most of us lack the patience to put in that kind of effort, especially with a girl who isn't 100% returning.

Ultimately, as long as you're gaming and trying to bang other girls, it's ok to hit her up once or twice, or maybe wait for her to message you next.

Keep it low investment, focus on your options at home, and don't expect anything.

I do this, but inevitably I get the bang on the next meet.

[Rutting Elephant]

(12-17-2013 09:51 AM)LeBeau Wrote:  

The biggest problem with this thread, has nothing to do with the girl's attitude actually.

It's that the OP is asking more experienced guys to take time to help him out with his situation, while his dismissive responses would suggest one of these in his future:

This reminds me of a similar thread, but on the opposite side of the spectrum, i.e., a dude going full asshole game a la CH, asking where he went wrong then rudely rejecting every suggestion.
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-29670.html

[Mind Trip]

I'm in a "similar" situation but I'm doing the opposite of the OP. First difference is that I already banged the girl, we had a nice time in a paradise island but she had to go back to her country. One month after and no messages from me she tells me that she got a summer job in the country an she is coming, I tell her that I would love to see her again etc and none of is says nothing else. A couple of days ago she msg me saying she's in the country and want to see me, unfortunately I'm traveling around so i tell her I will be back in the first week of jan. And that I will try to survive until there. I will not msg again but my idea is to call her around the 28th to wish a happy new year and setup the plan for when I come back. I don't know if it will work but I really like this girl, i thought about her like a million times ( no kidding ) but I don't want to ruin everything being need, but also don't want ruin being too cold ( if that's even possible )

Our last messages:
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Hi! I am back in .....! I arrived one week ago but started directly to work. I am in a luxuous hotel in ..., in the north of ..... It really wild and out of tourists. It s nice and we are close to ......
Whatever, if you want to visit this area, it's beautifull and if you are around, i'll be glad to see you again; and.... maybe again!
How are you? Maybe you're not in .... anymore!
Give me some news.
Eu quero te ver ?
Bisous

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Oi lindinha, I'm out of ..... for a bit but I will be back in the first week of Jan. I didn't see the ..... sea yet so I guess that would be the perfect excuse. I will be more than happy to see you again, I will try to survive until there ok?

Nos vemos.
Beijão !

Thoughts? Wish me lucky

[Comte De St. Germain]

@Mind Trip
Good luck on that, but remember keep your options open and focus on more than one girl. One-itis is bad for you and will fuck you over eventually.

[eradicator]

Right, when I said, "don't message the chick while she is gone", I should also emphasize that you should be concentrating on women that live in your town that are more attainable.