[Caractacus Potts]

I saw this video posted in the comments at Rational Male the other day. The poster talks about how delightful feminine energy can be.

I really like this. This is the type of girl I want in my life. I would hazard a guess this is the type of girl every man wants...

Young, beautiful, thin, no tattoos or obscene piercings, happy, willing to help, willing to cook and clean, plays an instrument and just possesses that joie de vive that young girls have.

Not to start the pointy elbows arguements, but I cannot find a single thing disagreeable about her. Is this a potential unicorn?

Thoughts?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbA9zjydK9g

Sorry. I don't know how to embed videos directly to the site.

CP

[samsamsam]

(01-11-2016 12:34 AM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbA9zjydK9g

Sorry. I don't know how to embed videos directly to the site.

CP

Just need a sailboat

[rudebwoy]

^^Great video.

Chick is smoking...

[DD2015]

(01-06-2016 06:45 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

About 15% of younger women are really into older guys, for these women your age won't matter at all once she meets you although they might still screen you out before hand. Another 25% of younger women find guys over 30 gross and won't get with you no matter what. The other 60% of women will consider an older guy if he checks the right boxes. It will be very hard to get access to this last group if you use your real age

This is not true AT ALL. 85% of women online are not screening you out based on age. I've got a 50% hit rate just with college girls alone - i.e. they come out & meet me for a drink, and I'm over 40. My results [online & IRL] since I've turned 40 are that significantly more hot, young girls want an adventure with an older guy than have no interest.

Outright lying to girls to try to make them like you is beta. Qualifying yourself to girls you don't even know is even more beta. You know nothing about them & you're already putting the pussy on a high pedestal.

If they have an age limit, they'll put it in their profile. As for the rest, they aren't screening you out based on age, it's because you are not appealing to them. Look within first.

The thirst is real alright, among younger girls looking for older men who have their shit together. Moreso if they can pass a simple shit test by being confident and dominant.

[Robert Plant]

^^^ Wow, 50% of college girls from online go out and meet you for a drink. That is very impressive. Please share what you are doing.

[Dantes]

(01-11-2016 10:30 PM)DD2015 Wrote:  

(01-06-2016 06:45 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

About 15% of younger women are really into older guys, for these women your age won't matter at all once she meets you although they might still screen you out before hand. Another 25% of younger women find guys over 30 gross and won't get with you no matter what. The other 60% of women will consider an older guy if he checks the right boxes. It will be very hard to get access to this last group if you use your real age

This is not true AT ALL. 85% of women online are not screening you out based on age. I've got a 50% hit rate just with college girls alone - i.e. they come out & meet me for a drink, and I'm over 40. My results [online & IRL] since I've turned 40 are that significantly more hot, young girls want an adventure with an older guy than have no interest.

Outright lying to girls to try to make them like you is beta. Qualifying yourself to girls you don't even know is even more beta. You know nothing about them & you're already putting the pussy on a high pedestal.

If they have an age limit, they'll put it in their profile. As for the rest, they aren't screening you out based on age, it's because you are not appealing to them. Look within first.

The thirst is real alright, among younger girls looking for older men who have their shit together. Moreso if they can pass a simple shit test by being confident and dominant.

What site are you using?

[NASA Test Pilot]

Tribal AAR (After Action Report)

So I was out with that tight 18 year-old and was she dressed sexy. We were at the beach bar having a good time. I am letting her talk and talk and talk as I am being observant of her body language in great detail, just keeping my skills sharp, When she flipped her hair and tilted her head, like an animal, I leaned in for a little sniff of the neck and I could smell her lubrication, I kid you not. Oh 18 year-olds, how I had forgotten.

We were slowly making our way off of the dance floor when a group of 5 female swimmers approached. On swimmer touched my left forearm, the other took my right hand and wanted me to go dance with her. I noticed that all of them had theirs toes pointed toward me with eye contact, the one holding my hand had dilated pupils. Interestingly, the girl that I was with took a half a step back and a half of a step directly behind me as if to use me as a shield. The other swimmers were 2 inches taller on average. Although the girl I was with was perhaps a little better looking than the others and a few years younger, the group dynamic was bringing out her insecurities. I was going to take her hand, but I thought, let her be with the insecurity for a while. When I was asked to dance, I recalled something that my grandfather said to me when I was a teenager; ´dance with the girl with whom you walked through the door.´ He was born near the turn of the 20th century almost 115 years ago. The translation today of his gem would be to always go with the sure thing. I told the swimmers that I was leaving, but that I would seem them at practice Monday morning as long as there were no waves to surf. As the swimmers turned away, I took her hand and said lets go for a swim in the ocean. She smiled as she and pulled herself close to me. I was thinking gentlemen, start your engines.
The tightness around my Johnson Space Center was memorable. I could not believe how incredible lubricated she was all night as I prepared for re-entry. Yes, it was good to be me.

All joking aside Gents, I highly recommend that you game a few of these younger women and have at least 1 sexual encounter with an 18-29 year old. It will change you in a very positive way.

I did set up another fun excursion with this tasty treat for next week two days later (see Epilogue), but after I set up one with that swimmer who grabbed my hand and wanted to dance. An important lesson that I learned many decades ago, do not set up the next rendezvous together while you are with them on your current outing. This is a no no. Use the time in between that you spend with one another to create tension for the next time that she will be seeing you. It is a natural attraction builder and the beauty is that you are doing nothing.

Epilogue. Tasty Treat blew up my phone Sunday after we went out Friday night. Normally I would not respond that quickly, but I am not a cold hearted bastard with the inexperienced. I responded to one of her messages late in the afternoon with something short. I am not sure how most guys deal with their phones as it relates to the chicas, but I have a functioning methodology.
My phone is normally off as I am too busy living life and my life comes first! My phone is for me and I use it when it is convenient for me or when I have an emergency. I never respond to girls before 11 AM nor after 7 PM unless it involves something with an outing between the two of us (say during that evening). When I respond to a female, the chit-chat is at a minimum, I am not playing their attention whoring game on the phone nor I am I trying to build attraction over the phone (however, I do not want to lose it over the phone either). The best use of my life is when I am face to face with my toys. For me, it is a matter of my attention and my time.

I respond once to her text messages if she is normal FB or perhaps two times if she has earned more than FB status. The second response (or third for more than FB´s) is always, and I am strict about this, always to set up the next time that we will be hanging out. If there is no meet and greet, then it is radio silence until she contacts me and then I repeat the cycle. If I hear nothing for a week or so after I suggested a fun-filled adventure and I really want to bang her (again), I would send out a greeting with an invitation to go do something. If she does not respond to my second invitation, then I will next her. I use the same type of methodology with a phone call by using a time limit (it can be less) of up to 5 minutes for FB´s and up to 10 minutes if she is more than an FB. More than 10 minutes is a not a good use of my time.

I may provide a third invitation (but this has not happened in over a decade) if she responds a month or two later because I really want to bang the fickle tart. At this point I simply start the cycle again with one response and then set up our next play date on that first message or perhaps the second message.

Again, use the time in between seeing one another or talking to one another or texting one another to create tension. I do not text messages before the date. I gain nothing, it feeds her attention monster and no attraction is being built. It is worth repeating, this is a natural attraction builder and the beauty is that you are doing nothing, except what you want to be doing living your life. It does not get better than that so Do Not screw it up by calling them or texting them, let them wonder. One or two messages then set up a time to get together for drinks or whatever it is that YOU want to do. It gives them something in which to look forward. This is a golden nugget.

To drive that last point home, when I set up adventures with a woman, it is always doing what I want to do and she is tagging along. I do not do what they want…fuck ém. They can do what they want on their own time. I lead, she follows. If she is not there because she flakes or I need to ditch her I am ok to continue on as that is what I want to do anyways. If we are out and about doing whatever it is that we are doing and she wants to make a detour, I am ok with it as long I want to do it as well, otherwise it is NO. If she gets pissed, I just ignore her for a while. If it worsens, I tell her to get her shit together. If she does not get her crap together then I take her home directly or I leave her right then and right there and continue doing what I was doing.

[Dino]

(01-12-2016 03:46 PM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  

Tribal AAR (After Action Report)

So I was out with that tight 18 year-old and was she dressed sexy. We were at the beach bar having a good time. I am letting her talk and talk and talk as I am being observant of her body language in great detail, just keeping my skills sharp, When she flipped her hair and tilted her head, like an animal, I leaned in for a little sniff of the neck and I could smell her lubrication, I kid you not. Oh 18 year-olds, how I had forgotten.

We were slowly making our way off of the dance floor when a group of 5 female swimmers approached. On swimmer touched my left forearm, the other took my right hand and wanted me to go dance with her. I noticed that all of them had theirs toes pointed toward me with eye contact, the one holding my hand had dilated pupils. Interestingly, the girl that I was with took a half a step back and a half of a step directly behind me as if to use me as a shield. The other swimmers were 2 inches taller on average. Although the girl I was with was perhaps a little better looking than the others and a few years younger, the group dynamic was bringing out her insecurities. I was going to take her hand, but I thought, let her be with the insecurity for a while. When I was asked to dance, I recalled something that my grandfather said to me when I was a teenager; ´dance with the girl with whom you walked through the door.´ He was born near the turn of the 20th century almost 115 years ago. The translation today of his gem would be to always go with the sure thing. I told the swimmers that I was leaving, but that I would seem them at practice Monday morning as long as there were no waves to surf. As the swimmers turned away, I took her hand and said lets go for a swim in the ocean. She smiled as she and pulled herself close to me. I was thinking gentlemen, start your engines.
The tightness around my Johnson Space Center was memorable. I could not believe how incredible lubricated she was all night as I prepared for re-entry. Yes, it was good to be me.

All joking aside Gents, I highly recommend that you game a few of these younger women and have at least 1 sexual encounter with an 18-29 year old. It will change you in a very positive way.

I did set up another fun excursion with this tasty treat for next week two days later (see Epilogue), but after I set up one with that swimmer who grabbed my hand and wanted to dance. An important lesson that I learned many decades ago, do not set up the next rendezvous together while you are with them on your current outing. This is a no no. Use the time in between that you spend with one another to create tension for the next time that she will be seeing you. It is a natural attraction builder and the beauty is that you are doing nothing.

Epilogue. Tasty Treat blew up my phone Sunday after we went out Friday night. Normally I would not respond that quickly, but I am not a cold hearted bastard with the inexperienced. I responded to one of her messages late in the afternoon with something short. I am not sure how most guys deal with their phones as it relates to the chicas, but I have a functioning methodology.
My phone is normally off as I am too busy living life and my life comes first! My phone is for me and I use it when it is convenient for me or when I have an emergency. I never respond to girls before 11 AM nor after 7 PM unless it involves something with an outing between the two of us (say during that evening). When I respond to a female, the chit-chat is at a minimum, I am not playing their attention whoring game on the phone nor I am I trying to build attraction over the phone (however, I do not want to lose it over the phone either). The best use of my life is when I am face to face with my toys. For me, it is a matter of my attention and my time.

I respond once to her text messages if she is normal FB or perhaps two times if she has earned more than FB status. The second response (or third for more than FB´s) is always, and I am strict about this, always to set up the next time that we will be hanging out. If there is no meet and greet, then it is radio silence until she contacts me and then I repeat the cycle. If I hear nothing for a week or so after I suggested a fun-filled adventure and I really want to bang her (again), I would send out a greeting with an invitation to go do something. If she does not respond to my second invitation, then I will next her. I use the same type of methodology with a phone call by using a time limit (it can be less) of up to 5 minutes for FB´s and up to 10 minutes if she is more than an FB. More than 10 minutes is a not a good use of my time.

I may provide a third invitation (but this has not happened in over a decade) if she responds a month or two later because I really want to bang the fickle tart. At this point I simply start the cycle again with one response and then set up our next play date on that first message or perhaps the second message.

Again, use the time in between seeing one another or talking to one another or texting one another to create tension. I do not text messages before the date. I gain nothing, it feeds her attention monster and no attraction is being built. It is worth repeating, this is a natural attraction builder and the beauty is that you are doing nothing, except what you want to be doing living your life. It does not get better than that so Do Not screw it up by calling them or texting them, let them wonder. One or two messages then set up a time to get together for drinks or whatever it is that YOU want to do. It gives them something in which to look forward. This is a golden nugget.

To drive that last point home, when I set up adventures with a woman, it is always doing what I want to do and she is tagging along. I do not do what they want…fuck ém. They can do what they want on their own time. I lead, she follows. If she is not there because she flakes or I need to ditch her I am ok to continue on as that is what I want to do anyways. If we are out and about doing whatever it is that we are doing and she wants to make a detour, I am ok with it as long I want to do it as well, otherwise it is NO. If she gets pissed, I just ignore her for a while. If it worsens, I tell her to get her shit together. If she does not get her crap together then I take her home directly or I leave her right then and right there and continue doing what I was doing.

Fishing for rep points there nasa test pilot? I'm sure you can pick up a few on your next secret mission to Pluto. Be sure and tell us how you charmed the space suits off the moon maidens while flying a secret craft to a rendering of the vagina monologues.

Apparently you are a 100% alpha Don Juan made man Cold War era super spy and should have no business with this forum for self improvement because of your bullet proof studliness. I call 100% bullshit on your entire story. You are a fraud also known on the Internet as a troll. Calling your dick the Johnson space center....come on man - or woman.

[ksbms]

(01-12-2016 03:46 PM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  

I was thinking gentlemen, start your engines.
The tightness around my Johnson Space Center was memorable. I could not believe how incredible lubricated she was all night as I prepared for re-entry. Yes, it was good to be me.

50 Shades of Space in the making?

[Dino]

I think they offered him the part in the movie but he was too busy teaching those bitches a lesson.

[NASA Test Pilot]

If others do not see the humor mixed in with game, then I am wasting my time sharing with the tribe. After a full professional life and almost a decade having been in the retired status, with the majority of that floating on the ocean with plenty of time on my hands to reflect, especially at night, I had a desire to contribute to something larger than myself. Rep points have absolutely no bearing on my life. Get real.

[NASA Test Pilot]

UTILITY

Utility is central to me and how I relate to life, especially with women. I want to know, What are you doing to contribute to the betterment of my life (WAYDTCTTBOML)? This is a maxim for me. If you do not contribute to my life, then you will not be a part of my life. With the exception of two females other than my mother and grandmother, the answer is absolutely nothing other than pleasurable company, and the company has been pleasurable about 80% of the time. I have no idea if that is a good number or not, but it I think of myself as selective and I am disappointed in my two grades.

Here is another Red Pill to myself. That means 20% of my pleasurable company were a waste of my life energy, literally nothing but drag. One point three percent of the women I have Known in the biblical sense were a significant lift force and the remaining 78.7% of those women were marginal lift at best. As a test pilot flying this vehicle called FEMALES, my professional opinion would be…This vehicle Sucks, and not in the good way. Do not build more of them, move on to a different variant or a different technology (like robotic women, androids baby). Why the fuck are you trying to fly this brick anyways? I would need a monster set of engines to make this turd fly. The answer is, because I love flying and I want to see if I can fly it. Stupid me, but hey, I like to fly.

In regard to women whom I have not Known, but women who I know (for those having difficulty following the metaphor that is women with whom I am acquainted, but with whom I have not had sex (at least not yet, as I am an optimist)), the lift force is a scintilla above zero. Maybe they purchased a drink for me, or paid me a compliment, or said something that sparked my mind to something greater. Hey, great, thank you, I appreciate that but in the scheme of things it is nada, zero, zilch, zip, the big goose egg.

That is why women do not and have not built civilizations. If someone tells me Amazonians, I say sure and snoopy was a real dog too. The only thing remotely close to an example is the Bonobo monkeys. If you take them away from the environment where they do not have to exert themselves because the food is everywhere and plentiful and there is no competition for this food, they would get decimated and relished to the boneyard of history. Females cannot provide the sufficient lift to build or sustain large masses of people. Sure, there are individual exceptions throughout history, and I tip my hat to them, but the exception often proves the rule.

There was some interesting social research based on reality TV (as this type of research would otherwise be considered highly unethical). They put a group of men on an island and a group of women on another island, all with some basic supplies, and the women could not survive. They were laying in the sun doing nothing consuming their supplies, trying to come to consensus, etc. etc. They would have all died, but the producers decided to put half of the males on the female island and transport half of the females to the male island. The men could not believe that the women had no shelter, etc. etc. The men went to work helping the women build shelter, etc. while the women basically did nothing. The females that went over to the male island started enjoying the fruits of the men´s labor and added practically nothing, sitting around using their social skills to manipulate the men. This was done 3 times, once with a group of Americans, as well as a group of English, and thirdly with a group of Danes. The results were all the same. The men thrived and the women were on the path to extinction. Men, if you need to be beaten over the head with a club this many times, you do not deserve to have your genes extended into the pool.

Ok, now back to me, me, me, me because in the end, it is always about me…Right? What have these women contributed to my utility, to the betterment of my life? It is as if they are like a large rock tied around my neck as I am swimming. Thanks for attaching the rock with some rope bitch, as I can at least use the rope for something else. Honestly, there is something, it is what I learn(ed) about myself, through my own struggles, because of their hypergamous, fickle ways. Thanks, I know that you want me to use the rope to hang myself, but that is not going to happen.

Do not give anything more than minimal attention to these walking abysses. Make them earn everything. I say minimal because sexual pleasure is a good thing in my book, and the hunt is fun.

From this I have developed and practice another one of my favorite Maxims; Fuck me, or Fuck you! Whether you invest one hour, one day, one week, one month with the woman is your call. In general, my experience is that I need between 1-3 sessions with women in their 20´s before I get the goodies; 1-5 sessions with women in their 30´s and 3-7 sessions with women in their 40´s. Talk about diminishing returns. As they lose their looks you need to invest more in order to get some to get some satisfaction. A man using only a fraction of his brain capacity understands that this is not a good thing. It is horrible marginal utility. Another way to look at it is as they become older and the value of the car is declining, you need to invest more in maintenance and it follows that the car is in the garage more often and you are unable to drive (use) it. If you cannot afford a new car, this is what men do. If you can afford a new(er) car gentlemen, get in and drive.

[ManAbout]

(01-12-2016 03:46 PM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  


Dear Penthouse,

So I was out with that tight 18 year-old and was she dressed sexy. We were at the beach bar having a good time. I am letting her talk and talk and talk as I am being observant of her body language in great detail, just keeping my skills sharp, When she flipped her hair and tilted her head, like an animal, I leaned in for a little sniff of the neck and I could smell her lubrication, I kid you not. Oh 18 year-olds, how I had forgotten.

[Malone]

I'm loving in, Test Pilot.

As a guy in his early forties with buddies the same age, I think you do forget.

My buddies are all fucking women in their 30s and up. They've forgotten what 18 year old pussy is like, and there's no way to convey it. And honestly they may not want to hear it anyway.

[Black_Eagle_Six]

Notes from Jr. High and High School. Did anyone keep theirs? It would be fun to see the scans of how the approaches went before sexting became a thing. I have a rack of them. If anyone else is down with it, I'll start. It will go to show how nothing, in any substantial sense, has changed.

[loki]

As some of you know I posted 5 months ago about hooking up with a chick half my age. Well as it turns out we are still going strong, she has fallen head over heals for me and has turned out to be not only very easy to train but very willing to be trained.

I have on so many occasions fallen back on the teachings in roosh's books and forum advice to maintain frame, escalate and continue to ensure her interest in me and its all worked like a charm. IN fact thats exactly what we do when we game them, we charm them.

I highly doubt I will ever date a woman even remotely close to my 40+ years of age because they are all jaded from being pumped and dumped multuiple times.

Its just not fucking worth the hassle when you can be more easily banging the ass off a 20 something year old hottie that has no hang ups. Mine does have some daddy issues because her dad left the home when she was young but thats worked out well for my hand.

Other very positve outcomes from the last 5 months of sexy time every day is i am in my better health because she cooks like a champ and loves to do so ( she also cleans and washes ), i am eating 10x healthier and this is making my weight drop slowly and in a healthy sustainable manner. Shit i almost have a 6 pack again and I am not even training aside from in the bed room.

However its not all 100% positive because for one I have trouble keeping up with her sexual needs some days when she wants to go 5 times and I want to go to sleep after a hard day at work. Also her choice of movies blows chunks as she, like most women, is partial to chick flicks which I cannot stand and refuse to watch. However if thats the worst of it I am happy to live with those flaws as they are minor and tollerable.

Happy days and thanks for helping me have one of my best years to date with life in general and helping me find my mojo.

[serpico]

(01-12-2016 04:00 PM)Dino Wrote:  

(01-12-2016 03:46 PM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  

Tribal AAR (After Action Report)

So I was out with that tight 18 year-old and was she dressed sexy. We were at the beach bar having a good time. I am letting her talk and talk and talk as I am being observant of her body language in great detail, just keeping my skills sharp, When she flipped her hair and tilted her head, like an animal, I leaned in for a little sniff of the neck and I could smell her lubrication, I kid you not. Oh 18 year-olds, how I had forgotten.

We were slowly making our way off of the dance floor when a group of 5 female swimmers approached. On swimmer touched my left forearm, the other took my right hand and wanted me to go dance with her. I noticed that all of them had theirs toes pointed toward me with eye contact, the one holding my hand had dilated pupils. Interestingly, the girl that I was with took a half a step back and a half of a step directly behind me as if to use me as a shield. The other swimmers were 2 inches taller on average. Although the girl I was with was perhaps a little better looking than the others and a few years younger, the group dynamic was bringing out her insecurities. I was going to take her hand, but I thought, let her be with the insecurity for a while. When I was asked to dance, I recalled something that my grandfather said to me when I was a teenager; ´dance with the girl with whom you walked through the door.´ He was born near the turn of the 20th century almost 115 years ago. The translation today of his gem would be to always go with the sure thing. I told the swimmers that I was leaving, but that I would seem them at practice Monday morning as long as there were no waves to surf. As the swimmers turned away, I took her hand and said lets go for a swim in the ocean. She smiled as she and pulled herself close to me. I was thinking gentlemen, start your engines.
The tightness around my Johnson Space Center was memorable. I could not believe how incredible lubricated she was all night as I prepared for re-entry. Yes, it was good to be me.

All joking aside Gents, I highly recommend that you game a few of these younger women and have at least 1 sexual encounter with an 18-29 year old. It will change you in a very positive way.

I did set up another fun excursion with this tasty treat for next week two days later (see Epilogue), but after I set up one with that swimmer who grabbed my hand and wanted to dance. An important lesson that I learned many decades ago, do not set up the next rendezvous together while you are with them on your current outing. This is a no no. Use the time in between that you spend with one another to create tension for the next time that she will be seeing you. It is a natural attraction builder and the beauty is that you are doing nothing.

Epilogue. Tasty Treat blew up my phone Sunday after we went out Friday night. Normally I would not respond that quickly, but I am not a cold hearted bastard with the inexperienced. I responded to one of her messages late in the afternoon with something short. I am not sure how most guys deal with their phones as it relates to the chicas, but I have a functioning methodology.
My phone is normally off as I am too busy living life and my life comes first! My phone is for me and I use it when it is convenient for me or when I have an emergency. I never respond to girls before 11 AM nor after 7 PM unless it involves something with an outing between the two of us (say during that evening). When I respond to a female, the chit-chat is at a minimum, I am not playing their attention whoring game on the phone nor I am I trying to build attraction over the phone (however, I do not want to lose it over the phone either). The best use of my life is when I am face to face with my toys. For me, it is a matter of my attention and my time.

I respond once to her text messages if she is normal FB or perhaps two times if she has earned more than FB status. The second response (or third for more than FB´s) is always, and I am strict about this, always to set up the next time that we will be hanging out. If there is no meet and greet, then it is radio silence until she contacts me and then I repeat the cycle. If I hear nothing for a week or so after I suggested a fun-filled adventure and I really want to bang her (again), I would send out a greeting with an invitation to go do something. If she does not respond to my second invitation, then I will next her. I use the same type of methodology with a phone call by using a time limit (it can be less) of up to 5 minutes for FB´s and up to 10 minutes if she is more than an FB. More than 10 minutes is a not a good use of my time.

I may provide a third invitation (but this has not happened in over a decade) if she responds a month or two later because I really want to bang the fickle tart. At this point I simply start the cycle again with one response and then set up our next play date on that first message or perhaps the second message.

Again, use the time in between seeing one another or talking to one another or texting one another to create tension. I do not text messages before the date. I gain nothing, it feeds her attention monster and no attraction is being built. It is worth repeating, this is a natural attraction builder and the beauty is that you are doing nothing, except what you want to be doing living your life. It does not get better than that so Do Not screw it up by calling them or texting them, let them wonder. One or two messages then set up a time to get together for drinks or whatever it is that YOU want to do. It gives them something in which to look forward. This is a golden nugget.

To drive that last point home, when I set up adventures with a woman, it is always doing what I want to do and she is tagging along. I do not do what they want…fuck ém. They can do what they want on their own time. I lead, she follows. If she is not there because she flakes or I need to ditch her I am ok to continue on as that is what I want to do anyways. If we are out and about doing whatever it is that we are doing and she wants to make a detour, I am ok with it as long I want to do it as well, otherwise it is NO. If she gets pissed, I just ignore her for a while. If it worsens, I tell her to get her shit together. If she does not get her crap together then I take her home directly or I leave her right then and right there and continue doing what I was doing.

Fishing for rep points there nasa test pilot? I'm sure you can pick up a few on your next secret mission to Pluto. Be sure and tell us how you charmed the space suits off the moon maidens while flying a secret craft to a rendering of the vagina monologues.

Apparently you are a 100% alpha Don Juan made man Cold War era super spy and should have no business with this forum for self improvement because of your bullet proof studliness. I call 100% bullshit on your entire story. You are a fraud also known on the Internet as a troll. Calling your dick the Johnson space center....come on man - or woman.

Concur. This dude is trying waaaaaay too hard. Nasa if you're going to troll at least put a little light and shade into your character.

[NASA Test Pilot]

I have transfered two of my credits, but unfortunately I only have two left. Bring down the rain.

[NASA Test Pilot]

FACE TIME

Go out and get punched in the face (GOAGPITF). You heard me, go out and get punched in the face. That was some advice my grandfather gave to you as a boy reaching puberty. My grandfather was a salty old bastard who served Flying in China during the 1930´s. He was my very own John Wayne. When I think of my grandfather today, I remember him with the greatest of fondness and respect. He was an example of what a man should be.

I had been a student of martial arts for some time at this age, but my instruction was in the temple due to my father´s foreign travel. Temple style is very different from most other as it is incorporated into a way of life. My lessons were in the monastery. The basic philosophy was avoid rather than check, check rather than hurt, hurt rather than maim, maim rather than kill. I still practice the art after more than 45 years, but my grandfather was correct and I integrated the two.

I went out and looked for a bully who was picking on someone and proceeded to challenge him. After throwing a number of punches, one of his punches landed squarely in my face and the blood started to flow from my nose. Eventually, I got him on the ground with my chin-na and made him say uncle. If it was not for the discipline that I had already gained, I would have beaten him to a frickín bloody pulp. As I stood up in triumph with my nose bleeding, I felt like I was more than I was before my grandfather gave me that pearl of wisdom. It was a rite of passage.

After getting punched in the face I no longer feared getting hit or fighting with anyone. This was foundational to other aspects of my life as well. To this day when I am walking I will close my grip (even if ever so lightly) when an unknown male is approaching. I am preparing myself unconsciously for that punch in the face. It is not fear, nor paranoia, it is simply being at the ready. It is part of the law of the jungle that most men suppress in our quote civilized world. This reaction is not automatic with all men, if I know the man from past dealings, I am not at this level of readiness as some level of trust has been built between the two of us based on concrete actions.

Perhaps doing something like this now, for a man his 30´s, 40´s or 50´s in today´s pussified and litigious world (PLW), is not your first option. Consider getting involved in martial arts or some contact sport where you will have the opportunity, to get hit in the face. It is a golden opportunity. Hopefully there will be no permanent facial damage, but a broken nose is always a possibility. Learn to defend yourself and take a stand for yourself, physically and otherwise. Getting punched in the face will provide you with a perspective of masculinity that was once normal among men.

[The_CEO]

This is fine but - what does this have to do w/ the 40's + thread? Please post elsewhere (in the Newbie thread or somewhere relevant) if off-topic.

[NASA Test Pilot]

Sometimes we gentrified males need to be punched in the noise and reminded. For those lacking self-esteem and who have not physically been punched in the face, it is a suggestion and it is truly meant in a positive light.

For those with good self-esteem and literally have been punched in the face, read between the lines.

If you are new and over 40, I missed the memo on only being able to post in one location.

[Dino]

(01-16-2016 02:10 PM)NASA Test Pilot Wrote:  

Sometimes we gentrified males need to be punched in the noise and reminded. For those lacking self-esteem and who have not physically been punched in the face, it is a suggestion and it is truly meant in a positive light.

For those with good self-esteem and literally have been punched in the face, read between the lines.

If you are new and over 40, I missed the memo on only being able to post in one location.

Can everyone just agree nasa test pilot is the manliest dude here so he will stop posting this stuff?

[serpico]

NASA whilst you're clearly trolling, you do at least have a semblance of dry humour about your attempted satire. Start a thread instead of pissing in the over 40s lift though, there's a good chap.

[Caractacus Potts]

Got a 23 year old from OKC on her way over. We were supposed to meet up to meet up this afternoon but she texted me she was tired had too much to do, etc. Said we would get together on Monday since we are both off. Said she'd make it up to me.

I got a text a little over an hour ago that said "What if I came over right now?"

She went on to tell me via text that she had drank a bottle of wine by herself. Wanted me to promise to not try anything. I told her I would be a perfect gentleman.

Next she is asking if it is wrong that she wants to call me daddy! lol

To top it off she said that since it has been cold she hasn't shaved her legs...but her leg hair is blonde and very fine and soft and you can hardly see it. Am I okay with that? lol

I am operating in don't fuck it up mode. Since she has been drinking I will be sure to get a follow up text.

Will let you guys know later. Wish me luck.

CP

[Cobra]

(01-16-2016 08:26 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  

Next she is asking if it is wrong that she wants to call me daddy! lol

(01-16-2016 08:26 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  

I am operating in don't fuck it up mode.

You're right. Just literally don't fuck up.