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Santa Barbara Approach Diary

Santa Barbara Approach Diary

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No bang from approach in awhile. Got 3 bangs off CouchSurfing and 1 off OKC in 2015 so far...

Gotten lazy and content. I deleted all my online dating stuff.

I am going to start doing what is the hardest thing I will ever try to do. No more 6s under any circumstances.

If I approach thinking she is 7+ and turns out not to be I am bailing.

Time to push my game to the next level even if it means way less bangs. I can't look back fondly at 6s they all meld together.

My last approach was in the grocery parking lot got a low 7 blonde petite cart girl's number she's probably 19 I guess. We'll see what happens.

I need alot more of these types of approaches.

I want to want to game if that makes sense. My dick wants 6s, heart isn't in it and it is a waste.

Some stripper hoe that is a 7+ rejected my kiss awhile back she's texting me to hang... I blocked her. Can't be with time wasters and potential STD candidates.

I need to learn to say No more often and guard my time.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
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The SB devil is back! Keep it up. I should re-read your thread for motivation again.
I've been displaying some disappointing daygame lately.

Feel you regarding 6s. Opened a chick at a local bar last night.

- she came alone. - check
- she came with her laptop - check
- she ordered a bottle of wine - check
- she ordered dinner by herself - check

Talked to her for 10 min and realized it's most likely a sure thing. Bounced cause I really wanted to opn this 2set of 8s who were caged in in the middle or an 8set. Didn't get a chance and went home alone. Moral victories?

Good to see an update
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Tuesday: met up with a girl from tinder at a winery. She was hotter than her pictures. After our tasting, she said she was hungry. I gave her some BS about having to take care of my dog but I could cook at my house. She came to my place and stayed till 1:00 am. We made out, cuddled and built comfort.

Saturday: went to her house. Gave/ received oral sex and slept naked.

Sunday: Went out for breakfast. She told me she wasn't gonna wear panties. Fingered her on the way there. More fingering on the way back. I pulled over and we gave each other super hot oral, then I dropped her off.

Met another girl for our second date at the beach. We walked, had a great talk and made out. The make out was passionate. This built lots of comfort so I should be able to escalate to sex on date 3. She's super cool, sexy and has fake boobs which I love.

At 530 I went to meet an Ok Cupid Girl at a winery. I was tired and not too excited about this one. She showed up really late but communicated along the way so I waited. Turned out she was waaaay hotter than her pictures with a perfect body and very large fake boobs. We had a great time and the conversation flowed really well. She opened up to me about a lot of things and her dog liked me. Should be relatively easy to escalate. Not bad for a girl I was not looking forward to meeting.
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Quote: (03-08-2015 11:25 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

She got very uncomfortable and proceeded to tell me that she's a ________ stripper.

I enjoyed reading your post but you might want to be a little more careful about how much indentifiable personal detail you post about the girls that you are meeting, for your own safety and security as well as theirs.
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Quote: (03-08-2015 11:52 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:  

Quote: (03-08-2015 11:25 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

She got very uncomfortable and proceeded to tell me that she's a ________ stripper.

I enjoyed reading your post but you might want to be a little more careful about how much indentifiable personal detail you post about the girls that you are meeting, for your own safety and security as well as theirs.

Thanks. I just edited my post.
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484 in.

Broke my online streak of being a fucking keyboard monkey.

Last Saturday night I went out for the first time in a long time. No drinking. Just a few Red Bulls. I thought I'd be rusty. Keep harping on wanting only 7+ and I need to stick to it.

I hit on a high 7 / low 8 Latina chick which I usually do horribly with as I was rusty I didn't go past the open even though it opened warm. (Most proud of this approach than anything else that occurred this night.)

A mid 7 22yo birthday girl smiled and was very flirty saying hi on the street as my friends passed hers. Sometimes I hate going with groups as being spontaneous is tough. We were set on going to this one venue and they were going the opposite way.

I really am antisocial at heart (2000 posts on an internet forum enough proof lol?) I love going out alone and just going wherever I please. When I go out with friends I constantly want to ditch them.

My friend and I are at the second venue just posting by one of the bars. These two chicks a 22yo high 6 and a 21 mid 6 are all in cut off tops and booty shorts showing skin. I'll call the high 6 white chick, the mid 6 mix asian chick.

White chick is eyeing my boy hard. I push him over to her and say don't be faggot go so hello right now. He has a habit of waiting too long and wanting way too many IOI's I like to be the tree panther than jumps at anytime I don't care about blow outs.

So we all say our hellos. My buddy and white chick are making out hard after 5 minutes. Mix Asian chick is way into me as well. We end up getting a round then hitting the dance floor. These chicks were extremely DTF. They gave off strong vibes of wanting to partner swap or 4some. They were grabbing us together to sandwhich and feel up both chicks.

These chicks were so easy I was paranoid of STDs etc... I wasn't down for the group stuff, my buddy was. Something about hard-on in the same room and hearing a guy's sexual grunts is just gay. I think even to do a 4some swap thing with a buddy the chicks would have to be hard 8s and I would need to be really drunk even then....

Anyways I say to my chick, wanna go after party at my place? It's a block away.

She's completely down. They need to say some good byes to the staff. Obvious party hoes.

We get back and after party I am an idiot by wanting to isolate my chick in the back with a cig. I tell her you can climb on the roof it's fun. Terrible move I do it on autopilot when I show any new person my place. They want to go on the roof and are way too drunk. They end up getting their feet and knees cut up on the roof.

On the roof though I start fingering my chick and my buddy makes out with his. My bitch and I are sitting behind him and his bitch. My bitch wants to show off to my buddy I am fingering her. They said stuff earlier like they share everything together. I was trying to stop from laughing uncontrollably as this chick was being so nuts. We get the bitches down like firefighters getting large drunken cats out of trees airlifting them down with our masculine strength. Haha.... ahhh man I am gonna get in trouble one day when a chick breaks her leg getting off my roof.

So down to business I isolate again with another cigarette later.... and go to work on my chick in my room.... when we start there is a scrap at the back door... I locked it. It is my buddies chick trying to use the bathroom.. my place has a weird layout... I thought it was my other buddy drunk trying to get in my place would fuck up the vibe. I swoop my bedroom door shut that leads to the back door. Go back to work.

This chick is a freak. She was asking for blow earlier. She was telling me to use her any way I want. Made me bleed from scratching. Grabbed my head so hard I wanted to press assault charges. I was hot at first.

Went down hill when she rode on top and said... "sorry I have gained a little weight, it has been since I knew I have cancer" .... uhhhhh.....

She had this fake corny porn actress type voice. She was just a mess. I fucked for a bit couldn't keep my boner.

She was an ex cheerleader gymnast and showed me some pretty amazing stretches though before the end of the night. If she shut up it woulda been a great bang.

This is my problem.

Santa Barbara if you have game.... is just so easy to get young 21-23yo cute-hottish chicks. If you have logistics... these chicks with their eyes said take us home and fuck us before we said hi.

How do you turn that down? It is like the WYB thread. These chicks are ZERO work and they are college age chicks that want to be railed.

I was dead sober when meeting these chicks so obviously no beer goggles definitely sexy enough....

I know if I turned down these absolute young college layups I could get higher quality... it is tough to turn down especially with a buddy that is just into have a crazy night.

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Had another approach in a parking lot. 27yo (and looks 27) 7.0 flat.... a bit old for me. She passed my car and smiled on the way to hers said hi... she walked 40 more feet I grunt out "hey" she turns and says hi.

I simply say "you single"? She waits a half beat and says yes. I say lets go get a drink right now. She can't but wants to meet up another time. We chat I touch her a little bit. Lots in common.

She is 27yo though and a 7.0. Not gonna text here. Here is I get borderline near to the standards I really seek and just fall short. It is a temptation from the Devil!

I really want a 18-23yo 7.5+ honestly less good looking or older... just why? Fuck... haha. Starting to think more about $ and hobbies.

Thanks to RVF....

YOU MOTHERFUCKERS HAVE PRICED ME OUT OF THE MARKET for pleasure from a huge portion of American chicks!!! Hey you solve one problem you get others! All my buddies here tell me I have first world problems.

6 bangs in 2015 so far. Sadly I believe only one was a solid 7+ so far. The rest were mid to strong 6s and usually pretty young (this is where I need to get off the junky phase of young mid-high 6s.... young chicks just have that tight body, skin, and energy no 25 yo has!). Need to step up my game. Lay ups are no longer enticing even though they make great stories.

This group did however include my Russian and Korean(first set of fake tits bang) flags... still not sure if it was worth it lol.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Quote: (03-09-2015 01:43 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

484 in.

Honestly, you are just getting started.

After your first 1000 approaches.

The insights, realizations, and breakthroughs become even more mind blowing!

Your best days are ahead of you.

Soon, your will approaches will become:

- more efficient
- more targeted towards the type of girl you want.
- healthier (less booze, drugs, late nights, etc)
- more honest, authentic, and congruent
- more rewarding and entertaining for you
- etc.

Quote: (03-09-2015 01:43 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I really want a 18-23yo 7.5+

You already know what i'm going to say..

If you want an 18-23yo 7.5+, you must approach more 18-23yo 7.5+'s

Right now, your mind is growing tired of the 6s and 7s, but, your dick is still attracted to them.

Soon, your dick will also get tired of them and you will crave higher quality.

When masturbation, hobbies, work, etc. become more attractive then sex with a 6, then, you will have graduated to the realm of only approaching beautiful women. It's really a higher level of game and one that is more rewarding.

It took me years to go from 6s to 7s to 7.5s to 8s. Probably at least a year or two before I had earned the ability to bang hotter women.

Continue to aim higher!
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Thanks for the words of encouragement Gio you're my number 1 inspiration especially for you advocating a healthy balanced lifestyle with exercise, joints, homemade tacos, and hot young girls, which flies in the face of much of the late night alcohol drugs(coke, X) and depravity man guys live on this board and in real life.

I need to follow what my spirit wants more than my dick.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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This is the first picture (please let me know if you guys think there is any privacy risk the way I posted the image I am ignorant in this arena) I've ever shared so things are going to be more vague than usual. I know it is a crappy picture too.

If you stand 10 ft away from your laptop or minimize, it will look a good amount clearer. No idea how that works lol.

Couchsurfer bang.

Second hottest girl I've ever banged, I'd rate her a 7.5, lots of guys I think would rate her in the very high 7s maybe low 8s if you love natural bright blondes with a very Swedish look.

She was pretty friendly off the bat. I think my profile has some social proof in the photos. I really should have taken a good photo with her to put on my profile, or in my other dating apps.

Met her in public we drive near my place. I help her park (beta).

We immediately go out to a place to get her food. On the way she is very scared of a motorcycle revving at an intersection we cross and I make lots of fun of her for it later, she punches me on the arm and says "you're making fun of me?!" - Here is when I knew I was getting laid.

She says she is a big beer drinker and really doesn't like hard liquor. This depresses me. She does however taste my drink and wants me to try her food. Good signs. She always seemed happy and carefree. She was on vacation afterall.

I try to keep things very in the moment especially with these vacation girls. I try to only talk about how their trip is going what they are doing next, the fun adventures they've had or plan to have to stay in the fun mood.

She is just very excited to be in town and is looking for a good time which is great.

On the way to venue 2 we stop to let her get frozen yogurt (beta). She couldn't stop raving about frozen yogurt in America. She says when she visits here she always gains some weight. Thanks America!

At venue 2 I suggest we have tequila sunrises as I haven't drank one in 7 years. We both hate tequila, but said fuck it since it'd be fun.

We play a few games of pool after and she is a serious competitor, she keeps knocking back beers, I knock back vodka sodas. After 3 games (I wanted to leave after 2, she wanted to play more which means she almost had too much fun).

I do some light escalation with my hand on her lower back to lean in and hear her better, but nothing drastic. With CS girls I prefer not to escalate in public because it is a given they are coming back with me.

On the way back we grab a 6 pick and pack of smokes since she is a beer drinker and likes a cig (Beta) when she drinks.

Once back we play the drinking card game that is so money. It is like War, but after each round the loser drinks. You can also play with as many people as you want just everyone has less cards. On any duplicate matches you can slap the table to steal the pile. Very interesting game. Lots of drinking.

She downs almost 2 more beers in under an hour due to this game. First cig break on my back porch I go straight for the makeout after the cig is done. Push her against the wall and put her hand down my pants. No resistance at first. Then she pushes me off. I play it cool like its no big deal.

Her: "wow that is so fast, in X we don't move that fast we get to know each other first"

Me: "..." *looking at her all innocent while still have I want to fuck you in my eyes

Her: "in America I guess it is different you have sex first then get to know each other"

Me: "yeah in America it is like that, you just see something and you go for it"
(This built on the Americans are risk takers her country are more careful conversation we had earlier)

We go back in to finish cards she still seems warm but wasn't up for more escalation on the porch. My gut told me a bit more comfort, don't rush it. She is on the Yes side just needs a little more soft pushing. We play more cards, she reveals she had an American boyfriend that said to her that Americans have sex first get to know each other later...

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Game recognized.

I knew I was in at this point.

I escalate again on the couch and she grabs my cock on her own. It was time to lead her to the bedroom. Her there was some resistance but not to sex, but how fast I was going. I am used to porn style sex with many of these American hoes. This chick had to tell me to take it extremely slow and be romantic.

It was a bit different for me in a pleasant way.

She finally went to the bathroom to get ready for sex...

She did come back and surprise me by bringing her own lube and 3 condoms...

Strange because she got pretty wet, but seemed extremely paranoid about me fingering too hard or fucking too hard.

When we had sex it was very lovey dovey for the first 10 minutes... she gave tremendous head. She said she was in a very long relationship. I think relationship girls give the best head through practice and listening to the guy. Sluts can give crazy head like deep throating but it is many times sloppy. Sluts are about performing for validation instead of pleasing.

Well when she was on top I was telling myself ok enough with the lovey dove stuff. I grab her throat, push her entire upper body up and down as I fuck her, spank her hard, and finger her ass at the same time (yeah I'm depraved). She cums pretty hard.

These chicks can tell you whatever you want, they love it rough though at some point.

At the end I was going doggy I was trying to dirty talk, I think she was sore at that point though. I said something retarded like "you about to cum?" -- she said very practically "I already came" LOL. After that I just finished.

Next morning more great head and some fucking, but she was really sore which surprised me for how naturally wet she got...

Very warm, friendly, practical cool girl, still though some signs she would make a very bad LTR. Hates cooking, hates cleaning, has cats, corporate job, has CouchSurfed before to single guy's places.... brought lube and condoms, but wants Disney sex, cums hard from rough sex... you tell me.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Fuck yes dude congrats on this ! Shows how good your game is !

From reading your posts it definitely seems like you have your game together and the quality is going up man !

The love making vs hard fucking reminded me of this clip:




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Well as usual in DT SB if I hit on a mid 20s girls in my neighborhood or on State St. they are cold and bitchy no exception yesterday. She was a 25yo 7.5 with a small dog. I opened about the dog looking like a mini-Lassie and how it probably roughed up all the cats in the neighborhood being a tough guy. Not good enough! I pretty much am at the point of not bothering unless they give me a heavy IOI just not worth it. It's not me, it's them. (Tourists are the exception.)

Today on campus there were the most amount of in shape guys I have ever seen LOL, I couldn't believe it. I am getting in pretty good shape myself, but I think Roosh's prediction of every guy super jacked just to get a high 6 is coming true! I actually think it hurt the vibe of campus like an unspoken sausagefest of good looking, very in shape guys.

There were 2 solid 7s I was going to approach, got botched by their friend or they ducked in a class before I could reach them.

Got out of line to go hit on a girl 20yo high 6. We made eye contact, her eye contact wasn't that solid, I need to break the rust off though. Chased her out, she had dyed hair, said I noticed her in the store wanted to say hi and I dug her hair. Warm blow out, had to go to class excuse never stopped walking. The Game will always push you back if you don't push forward.

Even though now I have done way more day approaches than night, in night game I have developed a large calm about me even when I approach sober at night.

Day game I still get a nervous rush every time it is nice, still challenging. I wonder when the excitement will wear off like in night game?

I haven't had any cute girls request for CouchSurfing which is like autopilot Zero Date Bang Recipe. This is good though my online accounts are off, I am forced to hunt.

I'd really like to get to 1,000 approaches ASAP to see how much more insight I have.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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488 in.

Huge pussy outs on the 2 girls I really wanted to approach a low 8 and a 7.5.

Went indirect on a blonde 6.8 20yo asking directions lots of warm eye contact coulda kept it going I am rusty.

6.5 21yo Asian very fit little body had a puppy. I commented on the dog as I walked past very warm response, but I got a clear look at her somewhat plain face.

I need to break the habit of approaching sub 7 girls to be fair though they both looked like 7s at a distance.

I also fear aging out of the 18-22yo bracket and still ponder if banging every 6.5+ one that young is worth it...

The 7.5 CouchSurfer bang resnonated with me far more than any bang since last summer. The other 7 I banged recently was also much more pleasurable to my ego.

My dick, ego, and spirit are all in a threeway deathmatch.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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489 in.

Whelp just did the opposite of puss out and went full creep mode. Creepin'd be proud. Saw a 20yo Latina low 7 get into her car infront of me as I parked at the grocery store. I always strike out with Latina Americans.

Went up to her window knocked told just saw her as I parked, went direct told her she was cute and we should hang out, BF excuse - seemed real. She wasn't as freaked out as I thought. It is an underground lot with decent lighting and people milling about with grocery carts.

Here I come 1000.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Trav that's ambition bro. The car approach is super bold, but you don't know what you're going to get unless you for it. Mirin' your tenacity homie.
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Quote: (03-13-2015 03:27 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I wonder when the excitement will wear off like in night game?

Like anything, the excitement will wear off when the novelty of it is gone.

Basically, when you get so accustomed to it that your brain stops giving off high levels of endorphins, dopamine, etc

Quote: (03-13-2015 03:27 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I'd really like to get to 1,000 approaches ASAP to see how much more insight I have.

Don't rush it.

Give every approach your full attention.

It's not about quantity of approaches.

It's about quality of approaches.

500 focused, attentive approaches are more educational than 1000 rushed and unfocused approaches.

Quote: (03-13-2015 09:32 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Huge puss outs on the 2 girls I really wanted to approach a low 8 and a 7.5.

Those are the most important approaches.

The ones that scare you.

Approach out of your comfort zone.

Approach hotter women.

Approaching one hundred 8s is more educational than approaching two hundred 6s!

Quote: (03-13-2015 03:27 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I also fear aging out of the 18-22yo bracket and still ponder if banging every 6.5+ one that young is worth it...

It is worth it until you get completely sick and tired of it.

Quote: (03-13-2015 03:27 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

My dick, ego, and spirit are all in a three way death match.

Your "spirit' is the most important of these 3 things.

Quote: (03-13-2015 09:53 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Went up to her window

Oh fuck! You knocked on the window of her car?!?!?

That's pretty ballsy!

I don't do that because where I live, she might call the cops or pepper spray me!

Quote: (03-13-2015 03:27 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Here I come 1000.

Again, no rush. Quality over quantity!
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Quote: (03-19-2015 04:23 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Oh fuck! You knocked on the window of her car?!?!?

That's pretty ballsy!

I don't do that because where I live, she might call the cops or pepper spray me!

One of my advantages/disadvantages is when girls get a first impression of me they think I am extremely nice. I think this disarms them in these situations.

When I go for the blitzkrieg makeout many of them say they didn't expect that literally right after the kiss in surprise. Usually the makeout is good enough whatever incongruence I have of coming off as nice then very aggressive is overlooked.

Some have said after sex they like that I have the nice guy thing that knows how to escalate and fuck. I really think I am just a good listener and am attentive. I still challenge them constantly, I think I am good at bending the stick without it breaking though.

I often wonder after I have gotten a day time number going direct then gone on a date what these girls are thinking after I got their number. They must dig the nice/polite vibe mixed with the assertive direct nature. I make good eye contact, my body language is very open and relaxed like I am talking to them in an empty hallway of a small house party. Relaxed.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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I just realized with wonderment:

Day Game:

Approach - Number Close - Text/Phone Game - Date - Close

Text/Phone game for me before I joined the forum and did exclusively online game was pretty decent. It has now atrophied starting in 2012...

Girls used to pick up the phone or return messages promptly before 2012. Even waiting a day to text back was considered very rare.

I stopped calling because less and less girls picked up. They also would text back instead right after the missed call. So I said fuck it and text 99% of the time now.

My text game also atrophied because girls in 2012 would actually banter in text. Soon they took longer and longer to respond as their attention got divided into more apps and cocks. So I finally broke down and followed Roosh's text for logistics only plan. It worked.

Now this game has atrophied because from Day or Night game (lol a Night game phone number is worth less than Monopoly $, with little exception) it has been proven text and phone game is the least important part. In Online game - comfort is pre-establish on the messages before you get the number - I would say it is almost the most important because if you get a girl on a date from online most are very DTF.

All I am saying is my text and phone game has gotten so rusty a lightbulb went off in my head that I could actually call a chick if something in text needed clarifying. I think I need to brush up on this game... yet I still think from day game how she felt during the approach means alot more if she will meet you than:

- how long you wait to text
- how far in the future from now you attempt to plan the date
- if you call vs. text
- if you go strictly logistics texts or if you mix in some humor (always been a big risk pre-bang for me)

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Tried to up my comfort game between number close and meeting a day gay chick yesterday. I was trying to set up logistics and her work schedule is crazy so I texted her:

"lets talk i'll give you a call in 10min"

She was at a friends and texted back she would text me when she left and was free. She did text me so I called. She didn't pick up, but texted back:

"Just text me [Image: biggrin.gif]"

So I text her more about logistics, still need to text her again later...

I think I will do some comfort texting over the weekend.

Lightbulb moment that I have completely abandoned comfort texting due to my frustration with girls' response times and I need to get over it and just endure because I think it is costing me dates and bangs.

I read about BlurredSevens, kaotic and others from online game texting girls back and forth for even a few weeks (more rare but happens) building comfort.

That sounds like a huge migraine because it is the single part of game I really don't enjoy at all and see it as work. It is crucial if I want to push my game to the next level to get over this and do that.

CouchSurfing has also attributed to my text game decline because I haven't bothered with Tinder/OKC where you need to actively use text game. CouchSurfing is the equivalent of passive online pussy game, Tinder/OKC is active.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Quote: (03-20-2015 12:25 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Lightbulb moment that I have completely abandoned comfort texting due to my frustration with girls' response times and I need to get over it and just endure because I think it is costing me dates and bangs.

I read about BlurredSevens, kaotic and others from online game texting girls back and forth for even a few weeks (more rare but happens) building comfort.

That sounds like a huge migraine because it is the single part of game I really don't enjoy at all and see it as work.
It is crucial if I want to push my game to the next level to get over this and do that.

CouchSurfing has also attributed to my text game decline because I haven't bothered with Tinder/OKC where you need to actively use text game. CouchSurfing is the equivalent of passive online pussy game, Tinder/OKC is active.

I feel you Trav, sometimes it could be a pain the in the ass, sometimes it could be outright hilarious. I take advantage of what a girl says and I'll turn it sexual, or I'll punk them on something in a teasing way.

Thing is I'm not waiting at my phone to text them, I'll send a wave of texts during lunch or when I'm off work, I'll bounce a few texts for one day and that's it.

This is necessary for online game, however, this can very much be applied to regular day/night approach game. Either way you gotta keep yourself fresh in her mind or make a hell of an impact before or during texts.

Make it light and funny and you'll enjoy it, I always tease like the little sister I never had, they eat it up.
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Santa Barbara Approach Diary

Quote: (03-09-2015 01:43 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Had another approach in a parking lot. 27yo (and looks 27) 7.0 flat.... a bit old for me. She passed my car and smiled on the way to hers said hi... she walked 40 more feet I grunt out "hey" she turns and says hi.

I simply say "you single"? She waits a half beat and says yes. I say lets go get a drink right now. She can't but wants to meet up another time. We chat I touch her a little bit. Lots in common.

She is 27yo though and a 7.0. Not gonna text here. Here is I get borderline near to the standards I really seek and just fall short. It is a temptation from the Devil!

This is the chick I banged her:

Bang pic.

I gave in an texted her knowing the bang would be easy from her body language during the approach a month prior. I shouldn't go for lay ups, but I have to admit it was fun because my execution was flawless.

After I met her in person her face wasn't as good with her hair down. I think is because she does nothing to really style her hair. It was up when I met her. She is the environmental/green type. No tatts, but also no make up. Good body. She is probably more in the 6 zone based on her face depending on guys tastes could be a low or a high 6 I really don't even know. She is one of those chicks that if she put on some make-up (any makeup) and wore more feminine clothes to show offer her body, and did more to sexily style her hair (that was long and wavy and very nice). She was a blank color book outline that could kick ass if she tried a bit. The base is there. I think she was wearing a little make up with hair up when I met her and for whatever reason I could see the 7+ potential more... most American chicks just don't utilize potential I really need to get out of here haha.

Anyways key points:

I have been more busy and focused lately therefore my texts to her probably came off as aloof. She texted she would be able to meet and I said ok let's meet at X at Y time and she never responded a few days ago. I thought she may flake. Day of the date she texts 3 hours before asking if it still on which is great a sign that she is worried I may cancel. I text back 1 hour before the date it is on.

I show up to the date 10 min late. She shows up on time and texts me she is there. Also good to show up later and leave her hanging.

We play pool I teach her to shoot better, impress her with my game. She stands very very close to me invading my personal space in what is an open venue with plenty of space. This is about as aggressive as you will get from a girl in a well lit venue when she is sober.

We go to venue 2 I have barely done any kino we get whiskeys. She says she was in Antartica for months for an environmental mission. Some guys would give her kudos and act very interested. I just came out and told her if someone went to Antarctica for 2 months I'd think they are crazy (she went much longer) - so she must be batshit insane.

This worked well, she was constantly trying to prove her worth to me.

We finish our drinks I have barely kino'd. She is crossing her legs towards me.

2 hotter younger chicks post up at the bar to order drinks right next to me in front of my bar stool standing and leaning all sexy up against the bar. I don't hide that I am checking them out while my date is talking to me. She notices, and is a bit miffed and keeps talking. This is good. I know the 2 chicks got a kick out of stealing my attention away. I enjoyed the view. It worked for both me and them.

So now I ask her if she likes card games. She is down and of course my place is 2 blocks away, she doesn't even have to re-park her car (I do not mention I live so close to the bars before the date it is always a surprise - it just kind of happened that I live so close! Wow!).

We play a drinking game I have mentioned several times on the board. It is extremely fast paced and you are sipping at your drink constantly with music playing in the background.

We smoke my weed vape pen too which she has never tried. I win the game and go for the makeout. She can't wait to go at it and no LMR, take her by the hand to the bedroom.

And voila.

It was almost boring as it was so easy. I knew I shouldn't have texted her, but seeing my formula evolve and improve to what I consider perfection over the course of 20 months of refining is very gratifying.

I can see more and more clearly how more $ can upgrade your pad to a better city, better place, better clothes, etc... and you can just pump up the quality.

This experience has been like starting a small gigolo business that offers a service. There is pride in seeing the well oiled machine and knowing I can duplicate it with different twists in any city that has lots of hot chicks and a central area to meet them out at within 3 blocks of my pad.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Santa Barbara Approach Diary

Its awesome seeing your day game pay off bro. I'd much rather talk than text, but girls are so awkward about it these days. Its easier to hook a girl over the phone than through a msg that she could easily misinterpret or is lost amongst a bunch of other options.

Online game is sort of a convenience when you're busy and want to pipeline. Its pretty sweet seeing persistence pay off. Keep at it brah.
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Hey everyone,

I am a point now I am working on something new on top of a full time career gig. I am actively trying to work against gaming to put more time into it. I find myself on the forum to try to troll a bit and living through others' travel experiences and find it a distraction as I am not in a place right now to add any new value to the forum, so I have become just part of the peanut gallery.

I hope to come back in after quite a few months with more value and for the long term as this forum has given me so much. Posting this isn't to attention whore, it is just to force myself stay focused on taking action to push to that next level and keeps my personal integrity to follow my word and go and take a real shot instead of trying to troll around on here as a distraction.

Please PM me if you need anything in the meantime.

Travesty

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Santa Barbara Approach Diary

Quote: (04-09-2015 06:42 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Quote: (03-09-2015 01:43 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Had another approach in a parking lot. 27yo (and looks 27) 7.0 flat.... a bit old for me. She passed my car and smiled on the way to hers said hi... she walked 40 more feet I grunt out "hey" she turns and says hi.

I simply say "you single"? She waits a half beat and says yes. I say lets go get a drink right now. She can't but wants to meet up another time. We chat I touch her a little bit. Lots in common.

She is 27yo though and a 7.0. Not gonna text here. Here is I get borderline near to the standards I really seek and just fall short. It is a temptation from the Devil!

This is the chick I banged her:

Bang pic.

I gave in an texted her knowing the bang would be easy from her body language during the approach a month prior. I shouldn't go for lay ups, but I have to admit it was fun because my execution was flawless.

After I met her in person her face wasn't as good with her hair down. I think is because she does nothing to really style her hair. It was up when I met her. She is the environmental/green type. No tatts, but also no make up. Good body. She is probably more in the 6 zone based on her face depending on guys tastes could be a low or a high 6 I really don't even know. She is one of those chicks that if she put on some make-up (any makeup) and wore more feminine clothes to show offer her body, and did more to sexily style her hair (that was long and wavy and very nice). She was a blank color book outline that could kick ass if she tried a bit. The base is there. I think she was wearing a little make up with hair up when I met her and for whatever reason I could see the 7+ potential more... most American chicks just don't utilize potential I really need to get out of here haha.

Anyways key points:

I have been more busy and focused lately therefore my texts to her probably came off as aloof. She texted she would be able to meet and I said ok let's meet at X at Y time and she never responded a few days ago. I thought she may flake. Day of the date she texts 3 hours before asking if it still on which is great a sign that she is worried I may cancel. I text back 1 hour before the date it is on.

I show up to the date 10 min late. She shows up on time and texts me she is there. Also good to show up later and leave her hanging.

We play pool I teach her to shoot better, impress her with my game. She stands very very close to me invading my personal space in what is an open venue with plenty of space. This is about as aggressive as you will get from a girl in a well lit venue when she is sober.

We go to venue 2 I have barely done any kino we get whiskeys. She says she was in Antartica for months for an environmental mission. Some guys would give her kudos and act very interested. I just came out and told her if someone went to Antarctica for 2 months I'd think they are crazy (she went much longer) - so she must be batshit insane.

This worked well, she was constantly trying to prove her worth to me.

We finish our drinks I have barely kino'd. She is crossing her legs towards me.

2 hotter younger chicks post up at the bar to order drinks right next to me in front of my bar stool standing and leaning all sexy up against the bar. I don't hide that I am checking them out while my date is talking to me. She notices, and is a bit miffed and keeps talking. This is good. I know the 2 chicks got a kick out of stealing my attention away. I enjoyed the view. It worked for both me and them.

So now I ask her if she likes card games. She is down and of course my place is 2 blocks away, she doesn't even have to re-park her car (I do not mention I live so close to the bars before the date it is always a surprise - it just kind of happened that I live so close! Wow!).

We play a drinking game I have mentioned several times on the board. It is extremely fast paced and you are sipping at your drink constantly with music playing in the background.

We smoke my weed vape pen too which she has never tried. I win the game and go for the makeout. She can't wait to go at it and no LMR, take her by the hand to the bedroom.

And voila.

It was almost boring as it was so easy. I knew I shouldn't have texted her, but seeing my formula evolve and improve to what I consider perfection over the course of 20 months of refining is very gratifying.

I can see more and more clearly how more $ can upgrade your pad to a better city, better place, better clothes, etc... and you can just pump up the quality.

This experience has been like starting a small gigolo business that offers a service. There is pride in seeing the well oiled machine and knowing I can duplicate it with different twists in any city that has lots of hot chicks and a central area to meet them out at within 3 blocks of my pad.


if you are banging her, who is taking the photo?
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Nice diary man. I remember Santa Barbara. It's fun and definitely a great place as far as the US is concern. The problem I have with this place was the lack of "top" girls. Generally the main good thing here was the age. Lots of young girls but in the mid-range (6-7.5). It's kinda like playing in the B league really but still good quality.

Curious but how long have you lived here?
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