Quote: (10-25-2013 07:47 PM)scorpion Wrote:
I was talking about upper betas and lower alphas, guys who should normally be dating their female counterparts, who are women in the 6-8 range lookswise.
Basically, there are a lot more guys who would be objectively rated 6-8 (in terms of looks, social skills, career, etc...) than there are girls. I believe this shortage, when combined with female hypergamy, explains why so many guys are dating down.
I am just trying to point out the other side of the equation. There are a lot of guys out there who could be attractive men (6-8 range). Instead of working on improving themselves, they sit at home, eat McDonald's, play videogames all day, and watch porn.
Also, the main reason why a guy in the U.S. would date down is that he doesn't approach girls.
I am friends with a fair amount of good looking guys, none of them know how to approach girls outside of their social circle.
Here's an example:
I know a guy. He's 6'3", fairly good looking, and has an Adonis-type body. He has had sex with some pretty hot girls, but for the longest time his fuck buddy was this chick who is a 5.5.
Why? There were not any hot girls in his immediate social circle.
Maybe I see things differently because I live in a college town. There are
a lot of hot girls around here. This is to the point where there are more attractive girls around than there are attractive men. The only reason why an attractive guy would not be dating one of them is because he is not approaching any of them.
Quote: (10-26-2013 12:12 AM)Vitriol Wrote:
This is such bullshit. Americunts are so dysfunctional they think you're "creepy" or "awkward" even if you do all of those things but don't look like Tom Brady. Many of them are impossible to please and you're just playing into their frame and buying into the bullshit "no one is good enough for me" excuse.
We're obviously the ones who have a problem and cows who merely show up to a bar or a nightclub have a right to demand all of this out of men.
I realize that what I said sounds like hippy-dippy BS, but I am just trying to be positive.
Instead of looking at the dark clouds, why not try and find the silver lining?
A lot of guys may not have the lives they want to have, but you can always improve yourself.