Quote: (11-08-2013 07:36 AM)Mind Trip Wrote:
I was thinking about this topic and I really don't get how someone can even think about paying THREE THOUSAND DOLLARS to "learn game", actually I don't even understand how "pickuping girls" is SO important for some people.
As other guys stated, with 3.000 dollars you could do so much more for yourself, and that is not even counting the money to fly and stay in London for a while.
I've been reading this forum for a while and some ideas are interesting and I try to apply what I find useful, but my motivation in life is FAR from being banging most chicks as possible.
My advice, if I'm in a position to give any, is that everyone should be content and learn to live by yourselves and love yourselves, go for the things that are really important ( apart from "pussy" ), develop your mind, develop your body, turn yourself in a virtuous person with a lot of good qualities, in other words, do what really matters, if you can bang some chicks on the way is fine, if you find someone that you really love is even better, I've been hearing a lot that all girls are not worthy etc, but I've been thinking and I guess we should be doing this for ourselves, we should perfect ourselves and if someone can recognise that give value, perfect, if it doesn't happen, their loss, we did the right thing to do.
Anyway, this is my second post so I guess what I want to say is that I don't like "game", I like to be myself and for sure I'm not the one who fucks more girls in this planet, but I can say I'm a really happy person and for sure I have a lot to improve, but never for the others or for a silly motivation like fucking more girls, but improving in things that matter like becoming a more fulfilled human being, this way all the rest comes by itself, that's my experience in life.
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MindTrip:
You are coming out blasting and seeming to be overly judgmental of guys in this forum, and maybe you should tell us a little bit more about yourself before you start to denigrate others in broad and general ways.
Guys in this forum share a lot of information about themselves b/c they are generally of the belief that they are talking with guys of similar motivations, interests and testosterone drives. ... but we cannot talk with broad strokes, either, b/c even though many guys on this forum share interest in banging and gaming girls, guys on this forum also vary considerably in terms of age, life experiences and life expectations.
Guys in this forum have a lot of motivations besides banging girls, so I would NOT be so hasty as to make a broad generalization to define all guys here and to suggest that you are above such fray.
Some guys chose to bang early in life and often, and other guys chose to pursue careers and to bang and game less frequently. Some guys do NOT realize their potential for game until later in life, and other guys never explore such options. Here, we discuss and consider a lot of variety in views, and frequently, guys disagree.
If you, personally, are missing some motivation and/or incentive to game and/or bang girls, then you may want to consider yourself as well.
Like you said, since you have only posted twice, we do NOT have much information about you (your age, your life experiences, etc). Your post comes off as overly judgmental without really adding much value to suggest how your "advice" to us would be applicable to the lives of guys in this forum - unless you are trying to persuade us all to become girls or girl-like?