A handful of guys have been asking me questions about my texting game, so I'm going to break it down here since it's relevant to the original post.
Quote: (12-26-2013 12:56 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:
hey blurred, I read your zero date bangs post.
All good, but the part you're glossing over is the 1-2 weeks of txt game you're running, before getting them in person. That's a lot of game.
My problem is I'm only in a city hardly a week before I'm off the next one.
You mentioned sending them pictures of Miley Cyrus. Could you break down your txt game a little more? I suspect you're creating a lot of interest and entertainment via your txts. Would love to know more about your routines.
The 1-2 weeks of txt game is personal preference. I prefer to put a bunch of girls in the pipeline, giving me the opportunity to pull the trigger whenever a free night opens up. Sometimes I pull same day using the exact same routines, it all depends on my schedule.
Overall though, I think waiting a few days in between the initial texts and suggestion to meet up works in my favor, as it makes her feel like she's known me longer than she has.
Breakdown of the Miley Cyrus Routine:
2pm Day 1
Me: Hey Katie this is Blurred, how are you?
Her: Good just working. You?
Me: Good. I've been trying to figure out how I feel about this: (send funny pic of Miley Cyrus)
Her: lol wtf!? What are your trying to figure out?
Me: her hair. what do you think about it?
Her: it's different, I'll give her that.
Me: she looks like Skrillex
Her: I like that she isn't ashamed to be herself
Me: maybe if you shaved half your head, you could be famous too
Her: hahah no way, I like my hair too much
At this point I either: A: don't text again for a few days, or B: keep texting and go for the same day meetup.
If I choose path "A", I'll reopen her in a few days with a basic statement ("it's a great night for margaritas") or I'll just direct ask her what she's up to later. Then I pickup with the routine below.
If I choose path "B", I'll just continue with the routine below:
Me: so what are you up to later, maybe we can make out or something
Her: hahah but what if you are an axe murderer
Me: I was just thinking the same thing. What if you are a cat hoarder
Her: I hate cats
Me: my friend owns over 10 cats
Her: I could never take that kind of guy seriously
Me: He's alright. But anyway what part of town do you live in
Her: near ABC, you?
Me: I'm over by XYZ. Come by at 9:30 for a drink
Her: (any number of things can happen from here...see my other posts for how to handle a negative reply at this stage.)
So yeah, that's the gist of it. The Miley Cyrus thing is just one example. This routine works with pictures of any odd-looking celebrity, or really any random topic you can think of. Girls like to play and have fun. And so do I. So it works out.
Takeaways:
1. Banter, more than anything, shows her that you are a normal person.
2. Don't ask girls their schedule....they don't have one.
3. Always suggest "making out" with her at some stage. If she doesn't respond favorably or at least neutrally, I don't bother.
4. Accusing girls of being fat or a cat hoarder or whatever is a fun routine, and it gets her to subconsciously qualify herself a little bit.
5. Don't invite girls over before 9 or 10pm. You're letting her know what's up by suggesting the late meet up time.