[Benoit]

Nothing we haven't seen before,
IT HAPPENED TO ME: Creepy Dudes Made Me Stop Fatshion Blogging

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I posted photos of my outfits from behind as well as from the front and side. I thought it was important to show these photos because I'd read a lot of comments and blog posts from women worrying about cellulite, stretch marks or lumpy backs of thighs and how worrying about these "imperfections" stopped them from wearing certain clothes. I hoped that by showing photos of the backs of my thighs, cellulite and all, in shorts I could show these people that fat women could wear these things and that cellulite and stretch marks weren't the end of the world.

Of course they can wear these things, the point is should they? I say loudly, "NO!"

Quote:

I no longer share photos taken from behind or photos of myself wearing shorts. I still wear them, but I don't take photos because those were the ones that seemed to appear on the porn blogs more often. I started blogging because I wanted to inspire women and now the thing I think about the most when posting outfit photos is "How likely are these photos to turn on some creepy guy and make him desire to tell me about it?"

Point 1: The title is more attention-whoring, since she clearly didn't quit, sadly.
Point 2: Normally we hate on the desperate losers who obsess over busted chicks. The bolded quote has made me wonder if we should actually be supporting them, as they make it so unpleasant for fatties to promote fattitude in public?

Quote:

That's 164 times that I logged on to see that a user had favorited multiple photos of me and clicked on their profile to realize, "Oh, hey, it's another perv who is sexualizing images of me without my consent."

My advice is the same as always - if you don't want chubby-chasers after you, stop being a landwhale.

[Jonathon]

I greatly enjoyed this post. "Stop being a land whale" that made my day.

[haywire]

Hamster comes full circle.

[Virtus]

Feminism in it's current state can only exist as a self gloryholization tool by the self-absorbed. The days of 2nd/3rd wave are really over. the problem that exists now are the attentionwhoremenists not the equal rights kind. they just pick up the flag and try to compete as to who can wave it harder.

So in order to turn the tide one has to make a pool of dirty water that would reblog/repost/retumbler all the atentionwhoredominists pictures into something that would make them think a bunch of old creepy perverted guys fap thinking about them

[Days of Broken Arrows]

This has nothing to do with actual sexual harassment.

It has everything to do with this woman trying to get attention by coming out and saying (without actually saying) "Look at meeeee!! Even though I'm a fat whale I still have men who think I'm sexy!!! That's how hottt I am!!!!!"

The messages she gets that are negative are no different than the messages anyone gets in any open sphere on the Internet, men included. This is a pathetic, transparent bid for attention and to up her SMV.

I remember hearing somewhere (Tom Leykis?) that fat women were more likely to file sexual harassment charges. The consensus was that they did this because they used the charges as a way to prove to others they were desirable. Does anyone have a link to that study or convo?

[2Wycked]

(08-01-2013 10:36 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

This has nothing to do with actual sexual harassment.

It has everything to do with this woman trying to get attention by coming out and saying (without actually saying) "Look at meeeee!! Even though I'm a fat whale I still have men who think I'm sexy!!! That's how hottt I am!!!!!"

The messages she gets that are negative are no different than the messages anyone gets in any open sphere on the Internet, men included. This is a pathetic, transparent bid for attention and to up her SMV.

I remember hearing somewhere (Tom Leykis?) that fat women were more likely to file sexual harassment charges. The consensus was that they did this because they used the charges as a way to prove to others they were desirable. Does anyone have a link to that study or convo?

I've read that people with Histrionic Personality Disorder are likely not just to claim harassment but to harass.

[eradicator]

She needs to put on a few more pounds if she wants to be a photo double for lindy west.

[Parlay44]

It's better to be a thin beautiful and perceivably unattainable women than to be a fetish. Successful high value men chase the former for wives. Low value basement dwelling men chase the latter for sex.

[germanico]

"These ridiculous tatoos distract the attention from the fact that I have nothing going on for myself."

I have a cure for ttention whoring: stop paying attention. Eventually, one day, I hope, they will finally realize that nobody gives a fuck.

[germanico]

Quote:

I no longer share photos taken from behind or photos of myself wearing shorts. I still wear them, but I don't take photos because those were the ones that seemed to appear on the porn blogs more often. I started blogging because I wanted to inspire women and now the thing I think about the most when posting outfit photos is "How likely are these photos to turn on some creepy guy and make him desire to tell me about it?"

So let me get this. She posts pictures of herself showing her cellulite skin so people learn that its ok for a fat woman to show skin, but she actually gets creeped out when a guy likes her cellulite skin so much he masturbates to it?


"- but, I tought you wanted men to like you for what you are...?
- Of course. But only hunky handsome hot guys!"

[A War You Cannot Win]

(08-01-2013 11:25 AM)germanico Wrote:  

Quote:

I no longer share photos taken from behind or photos of myself wearing shorts. I still wear them, but I don't take photos because those were the ones that seemed to appear on the porn blogs more often. I started blogging because I wanted to inspire women and now the thing I think about the most when posting outfit photos is "How likely are these photos to turn on some creepy guy and make him desire to tell me about it?"

So let me get this. She posts pictures of herself showing her cellulite skin so people learn that its ok for a fat woman to show skin, but she actually gets creeped out when a guy likes her cellulite skin so much he masturbates to it?


"- but, I tought you wanted men to like you for what you are...?
- Of course. But only hunky handsome hot guys!"

The delusion of the western hamster. I'm overweight, into radical fringe politics and social movements with a grating personality but instead of shacking up with a fellow dreg I know I deserve Ryan Reynolds!

[el mechanico]

I LOVE how fat girls get the same tats that look good on hot girls like they're going to compensate for all the fat or something

[j r]

Imagine if people who do real things with their lives had the same attitude.

Imagine if Charles Lindbergh canceled his flight across the Atlantic because someone sent him a nasty telegram. Imagine if Henry Ford closed his factory because people weren't being supportive enough.

As people have pointed out, the whole Internet feminist culture is about privileging attention over actual achievement. Without other people to do the work, these broads would have nothing.

[Kid Strangelove]

aah, XoJane...

at least Jezabel TRIES to be idealistically feminist on occasion - talking about global and political issues that concern women. Because for real, as much as we shit on feminism everywhere, there is something wrong when a Taliban motherfucker throws acid at a girls face trying to prevent her from going to school - that is atrocious and that demands our attention, and Jezebel at LEAST talks about that sometimes

XoJane is literally "fat bloggers", "eating disorders", "privilege checkers", "raaaaaaaaaaape culture " and everything else bad

[GoldenCock]

Damn, thats the 1st time I saw a cow wearing a pink camping tent.

[samsamsam]

(08-01-2013 10:47 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  




She needs to put on a few more pounds if she wants to be a photo double for lindy west.

She should take advice from this chick on how to add pounds.
   

[alphabeta]

Why the hell did I click on this thread? Revolting.

[MrXY]

Posts pic to prove that a fat girl can be sexually attractive

Claims to be victimized when a few men find her sexually attractive

[Architekt]

I don't get it. Shouldn't she be thrilled that anyone at all finds her attractive..?

[Blaster]

(08-02-2013 01:11 AM)Architekt Wrote:  

I don't get it. Shouldn't she be thrilled that anyone at all finds her attractive..?

She is.

We need a google translate for girlcode and hamsterspeak.