Quote: (12-22-2017 02:21 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:
One of the weirdest moments that I had when I been using my default line on Tinder.
My opener is..."Hey, xxx (their name), I checked your thing and you seem alright."
This been working pretty well for everyone except Indian chicks.
By all means, that doesn't mean that I swipe on Indian girls, I rarely do.
However, this girl replies back with, "Sure thanks, but I am pretty sure you are not alright." <- lol...
I usually get "haha, thanks" or "haha, thanks...I guess? lol", "just alright? " from girls who are "normal"...
Indian chicks have 0 game and they just don't have any clue how to move the convo forward...
I'm glad someone pointed this out and I can completely relate to the awkwardness you must have felt.
This social ineptness of Indian girls is exactly why I want to move the fuck out of this country.
In order to make sense of why majority of Indians are boring and dumb. you have to understand something which is often not talked about.
Which is that India is a place where emotional expression is repressed as much as sex.
By emotional expression I mean expressing things that make a smart personality like being witty, having a sense of humor, exhibiting a playful arrogance, etc. Anyone possessing these qualities is usually looked upon as someone who's "trying to show off".
Basically majority of the Indians want everyone else to be as boring and straight-forward as them.
For instance, if you greet someone with a "How are you doing?" (since they won't be able to comprehend "Howdy"), in 90% of the cases you'll get a boring reply like "fine" or "good" and that's it. There be no attempt at using the brain to make the reply a bit creative and witty. So most of the times you'll feel you're having a conversation with a kid.
And that's exactly what Indian women are. Immature kids trapped inside an adult body.
A typical Indian woman grows up in such a protected environment (family) that all hopes of intellectual development (not to be confused with academic achievement) are completely squashed right from the start.
Indian girls are brought up with just one major goal to pursue: MARRIAGE.
Conversations about marriage are the ONLY time I see an Indian girl come alive. It's so hard-wired that it makes having any sort of relationship here almost impossible unless the guy is in for marriage too. The only women I see here who go into dating without the idea of getting married are the ones who usually have just had a divorce and are in a relationship to "escape" from their current "misery". But even there you can be rest assured that she is more motivated towards setting herself up for a second marriage than investing energy in the current relationship.
All this leads to a very unrounded, boring and timid personality. An existence where just the basic child-like pleasures are enough and there is no craving for higher intellectual goals.
A typical Indian women's day goes in the following activities:
1. Going to work, which is basically done as an obligation until marriage.
2. Eating unhealthy "chaat" and oil-filled food at road-side joints. (ever wondered why an Indian dusky woman's skin never looks as shiny as that of a South american one?)
3. Going for over-the-top Bollywood musicals (they pass as films here). Most of these flicks are oriented towards the plot of wedding/marriage/romance, further strengthening her desire to "get settled".
4. Sitting with their moms and screening guys for marriage.
5. Learning the tools of the wedding trade - making the right "chapati", dressing the "appropriate way", etc etc.
They are too lazy to hit the gym or even groom themselves properly.
So as a result of all this, what you get is probably the least desirable, in most cases ugly looking, socially awkward, timid and unadventurous, insufferably boring and emotionally unintelligent three year old dolls who have nothing to do in life but to pass time till they get married.
Yes, there are some good ones but majority of them are smart enough to see how everything works here and are quick to fuck off abroad.