Quote: (06-30-2013 09:51 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
There are really two different components that go into how you're perceived racially, at least for those that are fairer skinned with straighter hair. There are your looks, and how you were brought up culturally.
A Spanish woman I used to see out in California was a prime example of how your looks are perceived, and how it changes when other factors present themselves. She's a petite blond, with hazel/green eyes. When American women see her, they perceive her to be one of them. But the moment she speaks, they immediately react differently to her, because it becomes apparent that she ISN'T one of them. For this reason, most of her friends aren't Americans, and she largely still considers herself a Spaniard living in America, even though all three of her kids were born here.
Ive had a similar experience Timoteo. I remember a year ago I met up with three friends in college for dinner at a restaurant in Chicago. One girl was Argentinian, another girl was from Spain and one guy was from Mexico but was of European descent. So we are there at the restaurant talking in Spanish when this stupid American girl who was our server comes to our table and says "I know what you guys are talking, is it French?" We looked at her with confusion and said "No, its spanish". She then goes on a temper tantrum and tells us "No, you guys are talking some European language because I know what spanish sounds like", and we just told her "um, well its spanish, sorry". She did gave us a dirty and nasty look like she was offended. We were very shocked.