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06-27-2013, 02:22 PM
Reasons:
1. Pharmaceuticals - kids are just doped up. I was just in France and little kids were acting crazy. Kids in America are drooling and walking around like Zombies. Anyone else notice this? Are foreign kids not doped up?
2. P0rn - when I was a kid it was easier to get weed than a p0rno mag.
3. Video Games - guys my age outgrew these by junior high school or before. Now adults play them. Never understood this.
4. Food - This sh*t is all chemical'd up. Even Coke in foreign countries tastes healthy compared to our food.
5. Fantasy Football - "Fantasy Football"? Are you f*cking kidding me? What happened to "Real Football"? Even real football is something that should be outgrown. I don't think it is healthy to idolize 24 year olds when you are 35 years old.
6. Online dating - Even if one is successful, I don't think they can really look at themselves in the mirror and be proud of it. If they can, then they have bigger problems.
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That being said, where I am, guys approach but I see more guy and girl groups.
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06-27-2013, 02:25 PM
Most people I know 'meet' prospective partners via facebook.
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06-27-2013, 02:47 PM
Online dating is the worst. I have used it but I am slowly turning the corner. The best part of an interaction is the approach and I am approaching a freaking computer.
When I daygame even if I don't get two or three numbers( I ALWAYS GET AT LEAST ON NUMBER) I feel much better about myself than when I get a bang from online "game".
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06-27-2013, 03:02 PM
Quote: (06-26-2013 09:41 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:
Beta males find strength in numbers, and the herd only moves as fast as the slowest member. In these groups, the weakest link is discouraging others from leaving the circle. They talk you out of approaching. There's nothing wrong with going out with the boys now and again not worry about women, but if you want success with opposite sex, run solo.
But in general, I see guys not approaching as much, and that's never been a lot anyways. When I bang a chick and meet her friends, there's always one in the group that complains about not being able to find a boyfriend. So we go out, and I'm surrounded by 4-6 girls, with tables of dudes all around, and NO guy comes to the table. And none of these girls are unattractive or acting like cunts. In fact, some are begging for a guy to come up and talk.
It's gotten so bad chicks now have to go on the initiative, which is a masculine trait. Women are forced to become manly because of the lack of manliness in men.
Experienced this last night (well, an even worse version). Went out solo, sat at the choking point of the bar and a group of 4 girls (probably 2 7s and 2 7.5s), dressed up stand next to me. I start chatting with one. she is responsive, but I can tell she is interested in her friends (one was apparently visiting from another state).
15 mins later, group of 4 dudes come in and stand on the other side of me. Was I out of my mind to expect some kind of interaction (there wasn't one)? Maybe, but I at least wanted one of the guys to get pissed at me for taking prime real estate with a "hey man, can we get on the other side of you?" so they could talk to the girls. Of course that didn't happen as the guys yucked it up and then one of their girl "friends" came by who they all proceeded to devote all of their attention to.
I asked the girl at one point, "would you rather be approached (while in a group), by a guy who is alone or a group of equal numbers?" She was like, "I mean, one cool guy if the group is a bunch of dorks" as she looked over at the guys.
Did not bang but one of the dorks bought me a shot.
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06-27-2013, 03:18 PM
Quote: (06-27-2013 02:43 PM)texaschili Wrote:
Quote: (06-27-2013 02:09 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:
Quote: (06-27-2013 01:19 PM)texaschili Wrote:
Women have to do more approaching in Boston because there is an over-supply of single women in that city.
http://trends.truliablog.com/2013/02/loo...ht-places/
It's why I'm moving there.
There's a reason those women are single. Think about it.
Washington DC is there and most of the guys here say that the quality of women there are horrible.
I don't agree with that thinking. Because there is more opportunity in Boston doesn't mean the opportunity must be bad. Look at Rock Springs, WY or Gillette, WY. There are fewer single women there which is what you *don't* want.
The guys that complain DC chicks are no good haven't encountered economically disadvantaged white trash rocky mountain women.
Furthermore, there isn't parity between Boston and Denver for example. There are women who exist in Boston whose counterpart doesn't exist in Denver.
I live in NY. So your saying that the quality of women where you live is so low that even a feminist, fugly, think they are 8's when they are 6's infested state like DC will be an upgrade? By all means then do what you need to do.
If the hottest women in your area look like this:
It's time to move.
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06-27-2013, 03:48 PM
G, as for foreign people being drugged up, almost everytime I run into a person who is obv rolling balls in Sobe, its a French dude lol
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06-27-2013, 04:03 PM
Quote: (06-25-2013 11:14 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:
What area are you in?
I have noticed this when I was Germany - it seemed that men were there to hang out with their groups. I think my group of friends got surprised when I'd leave the group to scan the crowd.
For a long time I have noticed this phenomenon with girls.
I'm sure that a lot of african,turkish/kurds are banging your blond girls isn't? Lol They're much more aggresive than the German natives
that's an aspect I noticed there
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06-27-2013, 04:55 PM
I sometimes ask friends if they want to go out and game girls together but they always make a silly excuse. I guess porn is the reason.
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06-27-2013, 09:41 PM
Another point is that just about every venue is too loud -- blaring, feckless, stupid pop music, maybe 10 decibels too loud.
If you want to approach a girl, you will have to do so while a) there is extremely loud music playing b) she is in a group, and the group is already yelling at each other to be heard over the music.
Most venues have awful physical logistics for approaches. Maybe 1 in 4 bars are amenable to actual conversation.
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06-30-2013, 10:31 PM
Honestly, most guys have just been put through the gauntlet too much. Too much flaking, getting screwed over, having a girl act like she's different only to be exactly the same as the last one, getting absolutely chewed out by a girl's friends when you approach her in a group (and they wonder why guys don't approach). I understand that they may not be into the guy that's approaching them, but the rejections could be a lot less harsh and not involve their friends (which makes the rejection feel 'Public').
And then there's women's expectations. Here's my point: I live in a military area (Virginia's Tidewater area, for the better half of a decade now), which equals a lot of fit guys with pretty good pay (consistent at least), and women here saying that guys suck here. They think that a more major city would be better for them. And let's say for arguments sake they're right, that the guys would be 'better' in a place like NYC. What they don't get is that while the guys in NYC might be somewhat better than here, the girls (i.e. there competition) are 20x better than here, both in quality and quantity (of course, quantity affects quality). So I don't know where they think this Eden of Cock exists, because for all intents and purposes, they're in it, and they're still not satisfied.
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07-01-2013, 04:36 AM
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07-01-2013, 10:21 AM
simple answer. guys don't want to deal with the bitchiness of american women. that's the simplest and straightest answer right there.
like mechanico said, going to clubs/bars in the US is a big waste of time ( i'll rather read a book than go to a bar/club here in the US). there's no need to go off trying to explain some random things when the answer is clearly so obvious.
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07-01-2013, 10:34 AM
Guys, with all the bashing of American women on here I have to say. In my experience I have met some very nice women here in the US. Granted, they are neurotic and self-absorbed but that's just the culture in general. But have they attacked or treated me badly, no. Now, I have to say, I do screen heavily and I am very good at detecting crazy women. American women cannot compete with EU or SA women when it comes to femininity and sexuality but many try their best with what they have been taught. A Brasilian girl is taught from birth how to be sexual - an American how to be independent and educated. American women will never be like their EU or SA counterparts. They can't be, because we are all a product of our culture and American culture doesn't teach them how.
The point is: even if you say that only 10% of the women are worth dating that still leaves a huge market of millions of women out there. And unless, you are planning on leaving the country I would suggest you spend your energy figuring out how to find these women than complaining about the other 90%
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07-01-2013, 10:38 AM
I never said anything about bars I said clubs. If there's security it's a controlled environment. It's like trying to smoke weed in front of the cops.
Doorman = avoid
cover= avoid
Bouncer = avoid
Table/bottle service = avoid