[Christian McQueen]

@OP:

Sounds like she's BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder).

Search the threads regarding it.

Dude, you can't see it now, but you'll get through this. Walk away, never look back, man up, hit the gym, make money, and go fuck 10 new girls.

Stop 'loving' a girl and start loving yourself. Love yourself enough to not put up with her bullshit. Next.

[Samseau]

This chick is garbage. Way more effort than it's worth. Since you're only in it for the sex, I suggest trying to manipulate her purely for one more fuck.

See if she comes back to you crying again, then you just put the moves on her when's emotional and she'll probably get really horny. Might get one more fuck outta this psycho.

[Veloce]

That chick is toxic. You might not see it, but she is. Delete her number, cut off all contact. Do not have any hopes for anything with her in the future. Don't imagine this as advice coming from a stranger over the internet. Imagine this advice coming from you, a year into the future, talking to the younger you.

Girls that are really in love with you don't say shit like that. They don't act like that. I know it's hard to see girls cry and it's essentially emotional blackmail, but you gotta be an ice cold assassin for once and just put the bitch down. Tell her to go have fun with her ex.

Seriously, cut off all contact. Your future self will be happier.

[DVY]

This girl is one who will stab herself in the arm. Call the police and tell them you beat her. One lesson I've learned is when you see crazy, its TIME TO GO. Really. There is no cure for crazy.

RUN not walk away from this girl. Count your blessing that you got away lucky.

Edit- Sadly, I think all of our advice will be ignored. OP will post in a few months about some other retarded situation hes in.

[BarkChompson]

Getting fucked over hurts like a bitch, because it throws your weakness in your face.

Use this traumatic event to change completely. Take your momentum with the "fuck it she's a bitch" attitude and talk to new girls.

[aphelion]

To quote the great Dave Chappelle, skip to 3:37:

[AneroidOcean]

(06-10-2013 12:54 AM)Arcais Wrote:  

I'm out of trouble and have a good job now. I don't have tons of money but I'm on my way to a good career. I work for a local union.

Good, keep improving yourself. The hurt you feel sucks. I'm not going to tell you to go fuck 10 girls like the rest of these guys, but you better KEEP FUCKING BUSY. Do not sit alone and think about this (because you're going to think about it by default), you need to get out and do shit. Anything. Get in the gym, be productive, go outside. Take anything you have of hers, take any cards, any pictures, any mementos and put them in a box. Burn the box. Seriously. Burn it.

(06-10-2013 12:54 AM)Arcais Wrote:  

I'm hoping to get back together with her if she isn't using me as a shoulder to cry on everyday. She said all the men just "leave" her in her life, like her dad, myself, the other guy from New Jersey.

I just don't want to be her emotional tampon.

So flush her! Flush her like the bloody mess that she is.

You know, see the part in BOLD up above? ALL those men are better off without her. You are not her savior. She does not want to be saved.

You know how you got away from possible jail time and doing stupid shit instead of getting on the way to a good job? You know how you look back and not that long ago you were fucking up and you can't believe how stupid you were being?

THAT is how you're going to look back on this day. Take a step forward so you don't have to look back and regret another minute of pining over this girl.

[Blaze Frazier]

(06-09-2013 07:29 PM)esperar Wrote:  

Trying to please women has never worked for me. Trying to please a woman is like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it. Don't even bother.

Directions unclear: Dick stuck in bucket.