Hey all,
I just haven't been able to get the hang of being in a relationship with a girl. Everything I do is wrong and pushes the girl away further. Today my girlfriend broke up with me and I have come to ask for advice on how to keep a girl around.
A little backstory:
Her and I have been dating off and on for a year now and have been in a loyal relationship. When we were together last year we were cheating on each other and broke up for a few months. We just recently got back together in April and things were going great until just today. She told me she loved me and I loved her very much. Today I caught her talking to her ex boyfriend who lives on the other side of the country who she cheated on me with. I got the feeling that she was going to see him next month when she goes to vacation in Dominican Republic (where they met while her and I were together). I got upset and left her house without saying much of a word to her and drove off. She told me we could have worked things out and that I should have manned up and talked with her about it because it was nothing. But now she says that I blew it with her and we could have been together if I didn't leave the house and actually talked with her.
She said she wasn't going to get with him (He doesn't love her and isn't going to go back to her because she cheated on him). I got upset and suspected something was off so I just left. Then she said the most horrible things about me and told me never to call me again all because I didn't "Man up" and talk with her about it. So I blew the relationship. I've been chasing this girl a year and really love her but she told me I was a coward for leaving instead of talking things out with her and her telling me that talking to him was no threat to me because she loves me and has been sleeping with me for the past couple months, we spend everyday together.
She basically told me I fucked things up because she loves me and I just walked out at the slightest notion that she was talking to another guy.
So I'm really upset and feel like shit. She told me to never talk to her again or she will call the police.
TLDR: Girlfriend broke up with me, I'm upset and feel like dying.
I just haven't been able to get the hang of being in a relationship with a girl. Everything I do is wrong and pushes the girl away further. Today my girlfriend broke up with me and I have come to ask for advice on how to keep a girl around.
A little backstory:
Her and I have been dating off and on for a year now and have been in a loyal relationship. When we were together last year we were cheating on each other and broke up for a few months. We just recently got back together in April and things were going great until just today. She told me she loved me and I loved her very much. Today I caught her talking to her ex boyfriend who lives on the other side of the country who she cheated on me with. I got the feeling that she was going to see him next month when she goes to vacation in Dominican Republic (where they met while her and I were together). I got upset and left her house without saying much of a word to her and drove off. She told me we could have worked things out and that I should have manned up and talked with her about it because it was nothing. But now she says that I blew it with her and we could have been together if I didn't leave the house and actually talked with her.
She said she wasn't going to get with him (He doesn't love her and isn't going to go back to her because she cheated on him). I got upset and suspected something was off so I just left. Then she said the most horrible things about me and told me never to call me again all because I didn't "Man up" and talk with her about it. So I blew the relationship. I've been chasing this girl a year and really love her but she told me I was a coward for leaving instead of talking things out with her and her telling me that talking to him was no threat to me because she loves me and has been sleeping with me for the past couple months, we spend everyday together.
She basically told me I fucked things up because she loves me and I just walked out at the slightest notion that she was talking to another guy.
So I'm really upset and feel like shit. She told me to never talk to her again or she will call the police.
TLDR: Girlfriend broke up with me, I'm upset and feel like dying.