[MiXX]

(10-17-2010 11:07 PM)Brandon E Wrote:  

Her assumed lover at this point says, "My face right in between her tits." So now I'm not sure if this girl is a dyke, which would suck, or bysexual, which would be a huge plus. Guess I'm gonna have to do a little more investigating.

Dude, this is where you should OUT Alpha'd that dyke lover she had next to her and replied "great, I just happen to have a picture of my tongue (snap a picture of your tongue and mms it right there); place it where it brings you the most pleasure, call me later and let me know how it works out" Say this in Portuguese so the dyke is lost in the conversation, and only the beautiful one shares your humor.

then..walk away...gracefully.

You are the Alpha male, and letting a dyke roast you in your face like that deserve and even bigger roast in return from you! She knows you want her girl, and how educated can the beautiful one be when she is banging fat dykes?

This girl was probably testing you!

Guys, don't be afraid of calling women out on their shit, even if you think you are risking a bang - trust me you are not.

[rudebwoy]

(10-08-2010 11:25 AM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

(10-07-2010 10:33 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

(09-29-2010 03:18 AM)clr Wrote:  

the way most white people think is there are good black and there are niggars(damn hate even typing the word), just like there are good white and there are white trash crackers(if you will).

There are also Latinos (like me) and ignorant SPICS (if you will) who give latinos a bad rep.

I think every race has its educated and lower uneducated class.

Mixx

So, when approaching the educated black woman, take it slow and cautious. She might be the hottest fuck on two feet, as those women can be, and when she's smart its a dangerously attractive combination. But you might also be dealing with her weird upbringing if her extended family is ghetto. You have to wait to see how she treats other people, and to see what her family is like. Those will likely be your only clues as to who your are really dealing with. She might be very cunning in terms of being out for herself. Or she might be as 'normal' as a woman can be. You have to wait to see.

But I assume you just want to bang her. In that case, play up your job and sophistication level, as that will validate her own image of herself, which is likely in dire need of constant attention and nurturing. The traditional romance/dinner (not first date of course)/ short vacation stuff will work wonders with her. You can have her wanting to marry you if you treat her right. Much different than the average hot white girl, in many ways. But if you wanted long term, I wouldn't set her expectations high with that treatment. So it really depends on what you would want from her. Long term, treat her regularly and see what type of personality emerges. If you just want to bang, give her the treatment.

The caveat is if she had a truly upper/middle class upbringing. Find out what daddy does for a living and what type of high school she went to. If daddy is wealthy, she grew up in a wealthy suburb or went to private school, you have to treat her like every other spoiled over-priveldged girl that you would meet. A little shitty. At least in some subtle ways. Turn down the romancing a notch and turn up the directness. Otherwise, what I said before probably applies.

Good advice man! I think some guys are trying to paint the picture that black girls are easy. Most nice looking black girls will think highly off themselves thus be hard to get into bed. No girl is easier than a white girl period.

Mixx - she already was trying to speak spanish to you, game done. I would use a line like "I would like you to come to Barcelona" even if you are not from there. Just to seal the deal, if you have not already.

[MiXX]

(01-01-2011 05:06 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

I would use a line like "I would like you to come to Barcelona" even if you are not from there.

ha! that's exactly what I do..LMAO!! works every time.

[rudebwoy]

Mixx - i was going to say buy the movie Vicky Cristina and use the guy as your role model lol.

[MiXX]

(01-01-2011 05:22 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Mixx - i was going to say buy the movie Vicky Cristina and use the guy as your role model lol.

Humm.. Have not seen that movie. I just put it on my Netflix queue.

[docsedated]

(01-01-2011 05:25 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(01-01-2011 05:22 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Mixx - i was going to say buy the movie Vicky Cristina and use the guy as your role model lol.

Humm.. Have not seen that movie. I just put it on my Netflix queue.

Hi Mixx, I second the recommendation for this movie Vicky ,Cristina Barcelona for U and every player on this forum..........................

I saw the movie 2 yrs ago and about 3 months ago downloaded again to watch Javier Bardem's (Juan antonio Gonzalo) body languange, delivery everything...

I am including link to the clip that is my all time favorite

THIS MY FRIENDS.........

Love it, If I can mimick this and say to girls, "I would like to take you to Miami for the weekend, we'll eat good food, drink wine, make love....." I think half of them will cream.........

[MiXX]

LOl - Javier Bardem is an incredible actor. Another one of his incredible masterpieces of acting is called "Goya's Ghost" - granted, nothing to do with pick-up, but an incredible movie nonetheless.

Thanks for sharing.

Mixx

[FretDancer]

Yeah Javier Bardem is awesome. Funny thing is, I've always seen him starring as a player in every movie I've seen of him.

[playa_with_a_passport]

(01-01-2011 05:06 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

No girl is easier than a white girl period.

I don't think they are easy per se, otherwise there wouldn't be a need for the PUA industrial complex which for the most part concentrates single handily on Gaming White women. Posters in this forum are the exception to the rule, most guys out there in the field can't even consistently close the deal with the "sure thing" Chubby White chick at the club.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

I would't deny a weekend in Oviedo either.

[deebow]

That shit was funny as hell. I'm going to try that sometime soon.

Regarding all of the comments here:

As a black man, I've dated almost exclusively black women (except within the last 3 years). They are much harder to get at if you are a black man. The stereotypes that we have to jump over are tremendous. Roosh, you couldn't be more correct here. Although, I've had the most success with them, I've also noticed that the bitch shields are higher than hoover damn if you are a brotha. It's our reputation that in some cases has been substantiated by some of us and in other cases is overhyped in the media. I just accept it. I'm not mad. I like every flavor of the rainbow anyway. Mixx, do your thang!!!

[Moma]

Black women are difficult to get to a point where some of my friends have just given up and go exclusively for the damsels of the milky variety.
However, black women are sweet and every time I crack 'em, I say a small prayer as I look at that rotund behind (I always go for those wid azz).
I think a non black guy has a good chance of getting in with a black woman because as someone already mentioned, black women usually think a black man is a playa and he has to constantly work with a 'negative' stigma until he can prove otherwise.
A non black guy will be given the benefit of the doubt and seen initially as a nice guy thus providing him with the element of surprise.

Black man to black woman, the black woman only has to hear your phone ring or it buzz with a text message and her initial response or thought will be..
"Is that your girlfriend/wife/booty call..etc?"

[rudebwoy]

Moma & Deebow - well said and 100% correct.

I met her a nice sista on NYE, she was 40 years old and in great shape. I honestly thought she was 28 or around there, however within a few minutes she had already stated she had given up on black men.

[Moma]

(01-03-2011 08:09 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Moma & Deebow - well said and 100% correct.

I met her a nice sista on NYE, she was 40 years old and in great shape. I honestly thought she was 28 or around there, however within a few minutes she had already stated she had given up on black men.

Sistas often say that shyt to test your mettle and see how much hunt you got. Did you break through for the eventual penetration? As I become seasoned, I start to see which statements by sistas are final and which ones are just defense mechanism.

To quote a great comedian, the reason sistas put up with black men and will continue is because they are most attracted to black men. With the exception of a few white stunners and latin sprinkles, by and large, sistas are mainly attracted to black men.
This is why they get so mad when they see black men waxing Betsy Annes left right and centre.
If sistas had the equal attraction to non black men that black men do to non sistas, sistas wouldn't give a shyt. It's just jealousy.

The bottom line is, women don't go for men for rational reasons. They are attracted to men for primal reasons.

Women always say..oh I won't sleep with this guy because you don't know what he's got (diseases) blah blah. But that's not why they hold back.
Women hold back from just jumping any guy's bones (even if they are attracted to him) for this main reason:

They are scared that he will fcuk her and not call her again.

To provide an example to the forementioned, after I had my NYD penetration, my participant called me repeatedly the day after. I was actually busy doing some house work, rah rah..and missed the calls. When I finally looked at my phone an hour later, I saw several texts and missed phone calls.

Basically, she had buyers remorse after the act (she lay quietly in the bed in thought after we had done the flamingo) and I know she was fearing the worst (to her) which was that she may have been relegated to a pump and dump.

If you can convince the woman that she is special, you've got her. Even if it's a line of crock (which it often is), people believe what they want to believe.

I've given to slight gassing recently (gassing = telling a woman she is beautiful, special and she is a queen/princess and all that shyt) and I feel that slight gas carries some weight. Once I apply the gas, I turn it off because continuous gassing does a PUA no good at all.

[rudebwoy]

Moma - good post man. Well I facebooked her and no reply, so I will leave it alone. She has a Msc or some crap like that but who cares, she is fit - not a classic beauty but cute. I having been craving a sista for awhile now, I feel the need to bang my roots.

This other girl I am working - I think is suffering from that "will he call me the next day" disease and actually playing hard to get. I let my weak buddy fill her up with gassing, funny thing is he compliments her and she looks at me for a reaction.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Most of black women are attracted to black men.

Not really. I had few black men. no more than 3.

I'm attracted to people. hahahah

[Moma]

(01-06-2011 09:29 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Most of black women are attracted to black men.

Not really. I had few black men. no more than 3.

I'm attracted to people. hahahah

Disclaimer: Please observe the word 'most'.

For example, most people do not like being attacked by crocodiles and lions.

*Chuckles*

[InternationalSwagger]

(01-06-2011 09:29 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Most of black women are attracted to black men.

Not really. I had few black men. no more than 3.

I'm attracted to people. hahahah

You are from Brasil...a totally different history and perspective when it comes to this conversation. We are talking about American/Caribbean Black Women here for the most part.

[Moma]

(01-06-2011 03:03 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

(01-06-2011 09:29 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Most of black women are attracted to black men.

Not really. I had few black men. no more than 3.

I'm attracted to people. hahahah

Your from Brasil...a totally different history and perspective when it comes to this conversation. We are talking about English speaking North-American/Caribbean Island Black Women here for the most part.

Damnn, are u saying black women from Brasil aren't really feeling black men??? *Jots a personal reminder in notepad*

[InternationalSwagger]

I wouldnt say so...but they don't have AS strong of an attachment/loyalty as American Black Women do to their male counterparts. Brasil has a very complex history when It comes to this and I can't even begin to break it down on this forum right now...But it's evident when a girl as dark as Ms Chocolate says she isnt Black that should tell you all you need to know (No disrespect but just had to give an example).

Let me give you a story one of my homegirls told me when I was riding with them on a long road trip to some waterfalls between Goiana and Brasilia. I was flipping through pictures and noticed that all of her Aunts (8 of them) had kids with white men. She told me her Grandmother was very dark & always told them and ingrained in their psyche not to marry or have children with Black men. This same mentality still goes on today in Brasil. When you have that self-hate taught to you as a young kid and told to you repeatedly It becomes ingrained in your psyche that carries over generation to generation It's a self-hate that most Brasilians of African descent are just beginning to break. When you mix that with the supposed "open" "no racism" society of Brasil you get the melting pot that Brasil is plain and simple. The remnants of colonialism...

I'm sure Ms. Chocolate could verify this as well...You can still pull tons of what US considers "Black" or "Mixed" as a Black man in Brasil no problem plenty to be had especially If you're a foreigner and speak decent portuguese to step to them.

[Moma]

(01-06-2011 03:17 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

I wouldnt say so...but they don't have AS strong of an attachment/loyalty as American Black Women do to their male counterparts. Brasil has a very complex history when It comes to this and I can't even begin to break it down on this forum right now...But it's evident when a girl as dark as Ms Chocolate says she isnt Black that should tell you all you need to know (No disrespect but just had to give an example).

Let me give you a story one of my homegirls told me when I was riding with them on a long road trip to some waterfalls between Goiana and Brasilia. I was flipping through pictures and noticed that all of her Aunts (8 of them) had kids with white men. She told me her Grandmother was very dark always told them and ingrained in their heads not to marry or have children with Black men. This same mentality still goes on today. When you have that told to you over and over and It's ingrained in your psyche that carries over and over generation to generation It's a self-hate that most Brasilians of African descent are just beginning to break. When you mix that with the supposed "open" "no racism" society of Brasil you get the melting pot that Brasil is plain and simple. The remnants of colonialism...

I'm sure Ms. Chocolate could verify this as well...You can still pull tons of what US considers "Black" women in Brasil plenty to be had.

The poor lady. Self hate is a terrible thang.

You say Ms. Chocolate is dark. You got pix?

[InternationalSwagger]

She posted a pic of herself on another thread buried somewhere on this forum.

[Badstuber]

(01-06-2011 03:38 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

She posted a pic of herself on another thread buried somewhere on this forum.

Here:

[InternationalSwagger]

Good work Badstuber that's the one I was looking for. This could easily be a picture of a girl named LaQuisha from Birmingham, Alabama and no one would blink twice...I'm just saying

[Moma]

(01-06-2011 04:14 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

Good work Badstuber that's the one I was looking for. This could easily be a picture of a girl named LaQuisha from Birmingham, Alabama and no one would blink twice...I'm just saying

Yes, she definitely looks black. She could be Tanya from Jamaica, Suzette from Trinidad and Tobago or Diane from St Vincent and the Grenadines.

I see your point.