[gamepadawan]

(05-30-2013 02:07 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

Does the higher your notch count go up, send off an instinct with girls to want to sleep with you easier?

It seems similar to when one is on a hot streak and every girl looks at you and you're 'in the zone' but more subtle and more consistent.

It seems that the more it goes up, the more girls open me, or give me 'the eyes'. It's like they can sense the experience and by default that cuts through alot of their shit-tests and games.

Can any of you players who have very high notch counts, shed some light as to if this theory may be true, OR is it just that with the more experience one has with women the easier it is to get laid?
(Kind of like the 10,000 Hour Rule to Mastery)

probably not, you're more than likely just better with women, after you read about game suddenly you start seeing more women as obtainable

[RCron]

(05-30-2013 06:16 PM)soup Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 05:34 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 05:27 PM)soup Wrote:  

Girls don't fall in love with you. They fall in love with your game. But, it isn't yours.

You can't own game. My game is a summation of all the info from this message board and my experiences.

And they can't hate you either.

When a girl calls you a creep, she's just saying that you have bad game.

None of this stuff is personal. Game is impersonal.

What are you? You are an iteration of a genetic line. You are just a wave. You are here now and will go, just like a wave.

Alpha is a quality. In my experience, it can come and go.

Not sure if I fully understand what you mean here, sure you've learned game, but from your writing it sounds like you don't have any real personality or authentic self. Am I misunderstanding you, or are you such a chameleon that you constantly change your game (identity/personality) depending on the girl you are with. Do any girls get to know the real you?

I agree that when a girl rejects you or calls you a "creep" or however you want to phrase it, she's mostly rejecting your "bad game" as opposed to your personality. However, some people just don't mesh, I'm sure a lot of girls probably wouldn't "get me" or dig my interests or personality, but I wouldn't necessarily chalk that up to "bad game", maybe more just that we aren't very compatible.

I've had to deconstruct myself and rebuild so that I can have more freedom with women.

I definitely have a baseline way of being that you could call my personality. But girls don't like this. That's why I learned game. I'm pretty sure a lot of guys feel this way.

When I say that she isn't falling in love with me, I mean that. She's falling in love with the game that I've cultivated. Maybe one day I will become that game; I won't have to remind myself to adjust my body language in a certain way to attract girls, I won't have to lower my voice, I won't need to think about all that kind of stuff. I'd just be doing it.

The beta part of me will be long dead- just a memory of a past life. It's like Darth Vader. He's more machine than human.

I'm not the stone cold terminator of game 24/7 yet.

Maybe the game is actually freeing my authentic self. Maybe most of my life was a lie.

My beta side hates the game. It see's it as artifice, a necessary evil in today's world.

My alpha side loves the game. It loves the adventure and excitement, and the thrill of the chase.

My beta side wants to be in love with a woman.

Alpha laughs at love. He knows that falling a in love with a woman is like falling in love with a dog. He imagines a dog walking around in heels, doing the dishes, picking up the kids, and he laughs.

Beta wants to feel a genuine connection with a woman. Wants to look in her eyes and know that when she looks back at him, she's feeling the same thing and that she's in love with him.

Alpha looks into a woman's eyes and sees nature. He sees the jungle. He see's the world of cutthroat competition and selfishness. He doesn't expect anything from her. He knows that when she says she loves him, she potentially loves all guys that are almost identical to him. He knows that there are a lot of players just like him that could elicit the same response from her easily.

I don't think any girls would really care to know the real me. Maybe I'm there is no real me. I'm a bundle of intentions. I'll do what I need to do to get what I want.

There were guys in the past just like me, and there will be guys in the future just like me. There might be a sliver of bonafide individuality in me somewhere- something that sets me apart from everything else in creation, but I'm not sure that the thing has any value in scheme of things.

[xsplat]

There are ways taught to learn confidence and to display the body language of abundance, but I'm of the school of thought that it's much easier to work on the external life structure than the internal method acting.

For instance I have a live in. That is good for abundance, but bad for logistics. So I got a 2nd apartment, and put a 2nd girl in it. That is great for confidence and abundance, but doesn't much help with logistics. So I'm getting a 3rd apartment, and will also try to get any third girls interested in the number two girl.

In this way I don't have to try to remember the last time I got laid, or try to remind myself how easy it is to meet and fuck pretty young girls. They are right there, in my life. On any given hour on any given day it will only be a matter of hours before some young pretty girl came on my dick yelling "I love you Daddy".

Setting up real externalities is one way to go. That is the way that appeals best to me.

Other externalities include the support networks of business, male friends, living spaces, and so on. These support networks are external, and will show up naturally in body language and actions and speech. Much easier than trying to create the body language and speech first, and then trying to create the externalities out of that.

[xsplat]

(05-30-2013 03:45 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

I think women sniff out guys that are:

-Physically attractive and muscular
-clearly well funded
-famous
-"in state". Confident, funny, laughing, creating positive frames, dancing, send out attractive energy.

Ya, and these are external architectures that are being built and relied on. For me, being gregarious and wanting to dance in public and sing and tell jokes is closely tied in to the support architecture in my life. I know some idealists want to keep it all in the head - our reactions are our choices, and we can react even to negative situations positively. That's not my long real life experience. I'm happier and share it more when the structure of my life supports it.

Good friends
Good money
Good environment
Good health and fitness
Good girlfriends who love you

These things make for good frame.

[xsplat]

(05-30-2013 05:27 PM)soup Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 04:55 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

It seems from the responses to be possibly a 50/50: Experience + Pre-Selection Female Instinct

I believe most guys should not be too selective, until they hit 100 notches and then start elevating quality, but if you're pounding dimes from day one then cool, more power to you.

Realistically though, you will not get to 100 notches without some 5's and 6's sprinkled in from my experience and observing this in big notch players.

Doesn't mean to go for the water buffalo wildebeastes, but the kind of cute average girl next door types, or as I like to call them: Practice Girls.

It's age old game question: Does quantity build towards quality?

If you want to just have an orgasm, you can save a lot of time and effort and use your hand.

Woe is me because from where I am now, it seems like there's always going to be a chase involved in life. I rarely have moments were I feel zen or at peace or whatever.

I get addicted to the chase and hope that I will eventually get what I want.

The true alpha doesn't need anything, right? Well, then he has no motivation to do anything. This is a problem for guys who are building towards alpha.

And what about love? It's kind of a disease isn't it?

I like to get off banging girls, but I don't feel any kind of ownership over my accomplishments in the game.

"You don't love me, you just love my doggy style"

This is truth.

Girls don't fall in love with you. They fall in love with your game. But, it isn't yours.

You can't own game. My game is a summation of all the info from this message board and my experiences.

And they can't hate you either.

When a girl calls you a creep, she's just saying that you have bad game.

None of this stuff is personal. Game is impersonal.

What are you? You are an iteration of a genetic line. You are just a wave. You are here now and will go, just like a wave.

Alpha is a quality. In my experience, it can come and go.

So is what you are saying that you feel there is a disconnect between your game and your true self? And that you'd prefer women to love your true self?

Perhaps you can alter your game to have more congruence with the rest of you, so that you feel they do love your true self.

[xsplat]

(05-30-2013 06:23 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

^^^He knows that when she says she loves him, she potentially loves all guys that are almost identical to him. He knows that there are a lot of players just like him that could elicit the same response from her easily.

Well fucking said. Powerful.

Yes, that was poetic, along with much else of that post.

One solution I’ve found is to just get off on the energy of love itself, in a timeless now moment. Enjoy that spark between the eyes NOW. Enjoy that electricity between the tongues NOW. Get out of the narrative. Or even invent new narratives! Role play! She’s the watermelon vending girl and you are flirting and negotiating the price for her melon. Or she’s a nurse. Or schoolgirl. The fact that you could be anyone in these role play games brings out even more sexual charge – the very anonymity of it is an extra sexual spice.

But that role play feels very personal in the moment. It brings the two of you closer in a fun intimate moment. That makes the girl love you more and bond to you more.

You don’t have to be unique to get the girl uniquely bonded to you – FOR NOW. For a time. For a while.

Girls come and go, we know that. But when they are with you, they can really, really be with you. Totally there. That’s as intimate as possible.

The narrative is not reality. It’s just a story – you can play with the narrative. The REAL thing is the electricity between your eyes. Focus on and revel in the real things. You can create real intimacy and loving bonds in the moment very quickly NOW. People are built for that.

But don’t make it fake. Invest yourself into it too. It will be both more effective and more enjoyable if you actually love the girl.

The fact that love is temporary has nothing to do with it. You’re a man. You can handle it. You can feel her love and love her without the support of a narrative of you being a unique special permanent connection.

[xsplat]

(05-30-2013 06:52 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:  

As a player, it is best for girls to never know the "real" you. The "real" you will more than likely cause you to be ridicule, destroy your ego when you see the reactions of people.

If you want girls to know the real you then approach them by saying " Hi, I Doulos and I am a player who has fucked countless women and will continue to do so even if you provide me with more sex than humanly possible because this is the way I was destined to live either because of genetics or the environment I grew up in, but either way I will still make sure I provide the basic needs you are looking for in a male the only thing is that I want fuck other girls on the side. Do you still like me?

Huh? My girls know the real me. I've explained it closely to the way you did. Lot's of guys are up front like that.

I mean, I don't blurt it out before "where is the pet store", but it comes up eventually.

[Player_1337]

(05-30-2013 02:51 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

It gets to the point where a girl is on your bed and asks, "You've done this before, haven't you?"

I've heard that line from girls verbatim.

[Christian McQueen]

My favorite line a girl said was this in bed:

Her: "Am I the best you've ever had?"

Me: "Sweetheart after you've been with as many girls as I have, there's no 'bests'; just the ones you remember and the ones you don't."

Light cig.

[tiggaling]

One thing I've noticed/talked to other guys about. If you have *really* good sex with a girl, like stuff she just can't get from your regular penis, amazing orgasms etc. I reckon for about three days other females sniff/see it on you. You could say it is pheromones or whatever you want, but I reckon it is a psychic thing, the six sense of girls, they can smell a quality lay from a mile away, as it is important to them, for so many reasons! And I've always noticed, in that three day window, hotter girls just seem to be more around you, it is like they are syncronistically attracted to you.

This one player on another forum communicated this is primary thing you need for game, give the girl good orgasms and that's a basis for everything else... . We all know girls talk, but I think this is going one step further, as you are dealing with a psychic network here, at least that is how I see it.

[iknowexactly]

dupe

[iknowexactly]

(05-30-2013 08:40 PM)gamepadawan Wrote:  

Does the higher your notch count go up, send off an instinct with girls to want to sleep with you easier?

It seems that the more it goes up, the more girls open me, or give me 'the eyes'.
Can any of you players who have very high notch counts, shed some light as to if this theory may be true, OR is it just that with the more experience one has with women the easier it is to get laid?

I don't have a high notch count, but there is a related phenomenon that may be relevant, which completely baffles me.

When I am reliably having sex with a girl, and later go out to stores or whatever, I feel that I can immediately tell from looking at women which ones are getting laid and which ones aren't.

I can't walk up to every woman in the grocery store and ask, so this is merely an intuition yet I am convinced it is true.
The ones who are getting laid have some kind of glow, seem more relaxed, and the ones that aren't seem nervous and frightened.

As soon as I break up with the woman and am back in the celibate zone, this ability immediately disappears and I only notice who's attractive and who's not, and I can't tell who's fucking.

I am very curious as to:

1) Does any one else experience this?

2) What the hell does it come from?

[xsplat]

(05-31-2013 12:00 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 08:40 PM)gamepadawan Wrote:  

Does the higher your notch count go up, send off an instinct with girls to want to sleep with you easier?

It seems that the more it goes up, the more girls open me, or give me 'the eyes'.
Can any of you players who have very high notch counts, shed some light as to if this theory may be true, OR is it just that with the more experience one has with women the easier it is to get laid?

I don't have a high notch count, but there is a related phenomenon that may be relevant, which completely baffles me.

When I am reliably having sex with a girl, and later go out to stores or whatever, I feel that I can immediately tell from looking at women which ones are getting laid and which ones aren't.

I can't walk up to every woman in the grocery store and ask, so this is merely an intuition yet I am convinced it is true.
The ones who are getting laid have some kind of glow, seem more relaxed, and the ones that aren't seem nervous and frightened.

As soon as I break up with the woman and am back in the celibate zone, this ability immediately disappears and I only notice who's attractive and who's not, and I can't tell who's fucking.

I am very curious as to:

1) Does any one else experience this?

2) What the hell does it come from?

It sounds like you'd be interested in learning and practicing Chi-Kung. You'll get your answer through that.

[godofwar]

the third girl i fucked thought i had fucked 60-70 girls from the way I carried myself.

REALITY: hadn't been laid in a year, living at home in the middle of nowhere unemployed. BUT reading game blogs, all kind of social psychology and history books, lifting like a madman, no drinking, partying. Fucking in the zone. moved to a new city, literally she was the first girl i saw (within 30 mins or less). not a bad either, high 7, low 8.

i was just in the fucking zone. i was hungry as a lion, but with the patience that comes from waiting for a year.

SO yeah, when you carry an aura that says you've been with a lot of women, they will respond.

also, during that time without pussy, i constantly replayed in my head all the 50-60 girls i had made out with, messed around, got bj's from, etc... so maybe that was where I got that aura?

the aura is what it is all about. DO something, anything, that makes you feel that aura. read a lot. think about all the option you've had over your life that you passed up, cuz you were better than that. GET IN THE ZONE.

[xsplat]

(05-30-2013 06:16 PM)soup Wrote:  

He knows that when she says she loves him, she potentially loves all guys that are almost identical to him. He knows that there are a lot of players just like him that could elicit the same response from her easily.

There is a sexual kung-fu you can perform on this emotion. As of now this insight is causing you to feel alienated from women. You can turn that around 180 degrees and have the exact same insight ignite greater passion and intimacy.

When you fuck a girl and have her say "I'm your little bitch", or "I'm your little slut", or even "I'm a little slut", you are playing that part of her that is open to anonymous sex and using it as a pivot point to leverage greater intimacy out of the situation.

You use emotional kung fu, and turn alienation into intimacy.

Role playing situations where you just meet the girl does the same thing. Or role playing threesome situations. Or role playing situations where the girl comes off as naughty in any way. You highlight her nature - her animal nature - and use THAT as a means to generate passion and intimacy and connection.

She will feel closer to you, because you are loving HER, not some idealized fantasy of what you want her to be. You are getting off on who she really is, deep down. That kind of thing creates real bonds.

Kung fu: take the opponents aggressive energy and turn it against them.
Emotional/sexual kung fu: take the barriers to intimacy and use them as the fuel for an even greater, more real intimacy

[Kieran]

Really interesting thread.

My take on it is similar to Giovanny in that I believe it is your behaviour, which is pretty much the result of how you feel internally, that is mostly responsible for the phenomenon. I am well over 100, but still have awful nights if I am not feeling all that great mentally. Whereas if I'm on a roll and am just generally feeling myself, then it seems like girls can sense it, and it's at times like this when girls give me massive eye contact, and that I get things like make outs without even talking.

That said, I do think there is a certain attractive quality that comes with a lot of experience. For me, it's almost like I've developed a kind of seen it all before mentality, and that I almost view them as fungible, with one being pretty much the same as another in their behaviour and how they react to game. I think that this then manifests in that kind of aloof amused mastery that girls seem to love.

[sooooobased]

(05-30-2013 02:28 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

How would you act if you had 5 job offers as good or better than your current job lined up?

Subconsciously, everything about you would change. You body language you change. Your facial expression would change. Your dismissiveness of nonsense would change.

Even if your company didn't know about the job offers, they would sense your change and respond accordingly.

Same with women.

After you've gone through a lot, you know you can do it again. You don't care if any given girl walks away.

Meeting girls becomes very, "Take it or leave you." You don't jump like a trained dog at them. They sense this power.

It's the same with fighting. You can tell who has had the most fights because he makes fewer movements. There's no spaz energy or waste of space.

Some science nerds would try to quantify but drawing pictures of body language poses this, but it's more of a feeling.

Women have evolved for tens of thousands of years to select a mate. It's all in their hindbrain and is hormonal/phermones.

(Just like, as men, we've evolved to respond to threats. Nine out of ten times, the guy who gives you the creeps is actually bad news.)

We find these things esoteric or hard to put into words because society does its best to teach us to live in denial of our instincts.

Women remain very instinctual, however, and their radar to select men who are desired by other women is top notch.

Very well said. I make sure to "listen to my gut" / follow my instincts 99% of the time for the reasons you've laid out. I find when I end up going against them, the situation turns out bad in someway and to varying degrees.

[MikeCF]

(05-30-2013 06:47 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 05:51 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

I'm sure there's some scientists who could run tests on womens' reactions to guys with <100, >100 notch counts and measure their brain waves to see if they get more 'aroused' or intrigued.

Maybe in the future some Scientist/Player will get this ball rolling. Would be fascinating to see the results or evidence of anything, whether neutral or positive/negative.

After 100? Fuck, ain't nobody got time for that.

I noticed a change in women's responses to me after my 10th notch. Player accusations, etc.

I noticed soon, too.

I'm doing some writing on "integration."

The problem is that most guys do not actively integrate their experiences.

If you treat everything as a diffuse experience, it takes longer to catch on.

If you are very cerebral/philosophical and actively examine what you're doing, then you will have breakthroughs much sooner.

Sorta how some fighters are good but they never have breakthroughs because they are not studying tape.

Reflecting on how something went wrong and looking at how other guys do things right (and then modeling those guys) save years of toil.

[soup]

(05-31-2013 11:55 AM)MikeCF Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 06:47 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(05-30-2013 05:51 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

I'm sure there's some scientists who could run tests on womens' reactions to guys with <100, >100 notch counts and measure their brain waves to see if they get more 'aroused' or intrigued.

Maybe in the future some Scientist/Player will get this ball rolling. Would be fascinating to see the results or evidence of anything, whether neutral or positive/negative.

After 100? Fuck, ain't nobody got time for that.

I noticed a change in women's responses to me after my 10th notch. Player accusations, etc.

I noticed soon, too.

I'm doing some writing on "integration."

The problem is that most guys do not actively integrate their experiences.

If you treat everything as a diffuse experience, it takes longer to catch on.

If you are very cerebral/philosophical and actively examine what you're doing, then you will have breakthroughs much sooner.

Sorta how some fighters are good but they never have breakthroughs because they are not studying tape.

Reflecting on how something went wrong and looking at how other guys do things right (and then modeling those guys) save years of toil.

This is why I approach a woman not as an individual, but as an extension or twig of collective force/consciousness that is all women. When I deal with her, I see her as manifestation of an entity that I've already encountered instead of as singular, unique specimen.

It's like El Nino. Each time it's a different storm or whatever, but we view it as an almost living thing.. like a ghost.

It's up to her to prove that she's not only unique, but also compelling/entertaining enough for me to want her around. The truth is that I'm the judge, and I decide whether or not the relationship will continue.

[RCron]

Quote:

It's up to her to prove that she's not only unique, but also compelling/entertaining enough for me to want her around. The truth is that I'm the judge, and I decide whether or not the relationship will continue.

Really interesting perspective Soup. I'm going into my third year of game after being divorced and I'm already seeing "new" women who come into my rotation as simply being different actresses playing the characters of women I used to see. It's to the point now where I'll meet one and think "she's the new Tasha or Sally from last year..."

[little wing]

In close knit communities, reputation can often do more for you than looks or game.

[MikeCF]

(05-31-2013 12:08 PM)soup Wrote:  

This is why I approach a woman not as an individual, but as an extension or twig of collective force/consciousness that is all women. When I deal with her, I see her as manifestation of an entity that I've already encountered instead of as singular, unique specimen.

Yep. I don't know my notch count and forget about girls all of the time.

They've all just blended into one giant pussy mosaic.

[Giovonny]

(05-30-2013 09:47 PM)xsplat Wrote:  

I'm of the school of thought that it's much easier to work on the external life structure than the internal method acting.

I think we must work on BOTH, at the same time.

Of the two, I think "external lifes structure" is way more important.

Don't just build your "game", build an attractive and fulfilling LIFE.

When you are living a life full of passion and beauty, your confidence, body language, facial expressions, and mannerisms will reflect this beauty and passion.

You won't have to "fake it til you make it" because you will have already "made it".

Girls will sense this power within you. They will see it in the way you carry yourself. It will be sub-communicated.

(05-30-2013 09:47 PM)xsplat Wrote:  

the support networks of business, male friends, living spaces, and so on. These support networks are external, and will show up naturally in body language and actions and speech. Much easier than trying to create the body language and speech first, and then trying to create the externalities out of that.

I mostly agree.

But, I will say that some people are not in position to create the "external support system" that you describe.

They are young, in college, poor, etc.

They are not yet in position to drive the car they want, buy the house they want, dress in the clothes they want, live the life that they want.

So, what should they do?

Obviously, they need to work hard to improve their life. And, at the same time, they should start to behave with an irrational level of confidence. They should begin to behave as though they are already successful. They must learn and practice how to present themselves to women. They should NOT wait 5 years until they graduate college, get a job, get a house, etc.

They should start to craft a better version of themselves NOW. Both in terms of their "external support network" AND their ability to present themselves in an attractive way.

(05-30-2013 09:51 PM)xsplat Wrote:  

For me, being gregarious and wanting to dance in public and sing and tell jokes is closely tied in to the support architecture in my life.

Me too, I don't act happy because I want girls to think I'm happy. I act happy because I really am happy.

My happiness is a result of my lifestyle and my "support network" of friends, family, location, lifestyle, work, play, hobbies, habits, etc.

It's hard to fake this.

My game is a reflection of my life.

(05-30-2013 09:51 PM)xsplat Wrote:  

I know some idealists want to keep it all in the head

Yes, I see a lot of this.

"Just act more confident", "just be more bold", etc.

This can be tough to do all in your head. It's better when its based in ACTION. Don't just mentally try act to more confident -- Take action that will literally cause your body to experience more confidence. Approach 100 girls, fight at your local boxing gym, become a great dancer, become a great singer, create the lifestyle that you want.

This will cause an organic spike in confidence which will reflect in your vibe.

Temporary spikes of confidence can help also, like alcohol or adrenaline, but it's always better if your confidence is rooted in your life experience, not in how many drinks you had.

(05-30-2013 09:51 PM)xsplat Wrote:  

I'm happier and share it more when the structure of my life supports it.

Yes, your life should support your game.

You can not be a piece of shit who is also charming to women. Years will pass, you will get girls, but, you will remain a piece of shit. Eventually, you will have to deal with this.

(05-30-2013 09:51 PM)xsplat Wrote:  

Good friends
Good money
Good environment
Good health and fitness
Good girlfriends who love you

These things make for good frame.

Well said.

A real frame is stronger than a fake frame.

(05-31-2013 12:56 AM)xsplat Wrote:  

There is a sexual kung-fu

(05-31-2013 12:00 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

The ones who are getting laid have some kind of glow, seem more relaxed, and the ones that aren't seem nervous and frightened.


1) Does any one else experience this?

2) What the hell does it come from?

I have also experienced this. I explain it as a heightened sense of sexual awareness that is the result of having a sexual experience. When we have sex, our sexual radar gets turned on. We are more aware of the sexual cues in our environment. We see almost everything in a more sexual way.

Maybe, it evolutionary?

When our dick got hard, we had to be very aware of our environment to find a mate that was also "in heat"..?

Just a theory..

(05-31-2013 12:07 AM)xsplat Wrote:  

It sounds like you'd be interested in learning and practicing Chi-Kung. You'll get your answer through that.

I would love for you to summarize how Chi-Kung explains how are able to sex who is having sex and who isn't.

Sound very interesting.

Great to hear your thoughts on this Xsplat!

How this all relates to this thread is something like this...

More notches = boost in confidence = girls can see it in your behavior.

And..

An awesome life = boost in confidence = girls can see it in your behavior.

So, I guess the the final answer is..

Make your life awesome and also work on your game.

(05-30-2013 02:11 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Success Breeds Success.

[iknowexactly]

(05-31-2013 11:55 AM)MikeCF Wrote:  

I'm doing some writing on "integration."

The problem is that most guys do not actively integrate their experiences.

If you treat everything as a diffuse experience, it takes longer to catch on.

If you are very cerebral/philosophical and actively examine what you're doing, then you will have breakthroughs much sooner.

Good idea, hope you post more about pulling ideas together.

I remember somewhere someone saying about science, "If you can't measure it , you can't control it."

This was what I am trying to do in a crude way by counting number of times a girl makes eye contact in a cafe, then seeing what their responses to me opening are.

[iknowexactly]

(05-31-2013 01:07 PM)RCron Wrote:  

Quote:

It's up to her to prove that she's not only unique, but also compelling/entertaining enough for me to want her around. The truth is that I'm the judge, and I decide whether or not the relationship will continue.

Really interesting perspective Soup. I'm going into my third year of game after being divorced and I'm already seeing "new" women who come into my rotation as simply being different actresses playing the characters of women I used to see. It's to the point now where I'll meet one and think "she's the new Tasha or Sally from last year..."

Womant. They're as different from each other as ants in an anthill. The hard part is accepting we are almost as uniform.