Quote: (05-12-2013 03:42 PM)Nascimento Wrote:
I like the logic of not going for numbers, specifically for night game.
But how about daygame? If I depend on girls asking me for numbers when I approach them during the day, I might get a number every 100 approaches.
I'm no day game expert, but I'd say for day game if possible insta-date and push the interaction as far as possible but 9/10 times you're probably going to need to get the number and set things up for a later time.
I like Nomad's post and feel where he's coming from, an issue that a lot of us have are flakey numbers that don't come through. I like the idea of non-attachment with no emotional/mental investment, but it can get under a guys' skin sometimes when dealing with so much flaking.
It is really important to push the interaction as far as possible when doing night game, try to get the SNL and if you can't get them home, then settle for the number. Also pulling and banging them same night will really decrease the chances of them flaking the next time you hit them up.
The greater the connection and attraction you develop the greater the chances she'll be down to get together. In the past I would go for the number every time, but now I see that with some girls it's just a waste of time, because they might give me their number, but her interest level isn't high enough and it's more than likely she'll flake.
Also if the connection and attraction level isn't high enough also goes both ways, a lot of time I get a number from a girl who's a 6 that I'd be down to fuck that night when I'm drunk at the bar, but 2-3 days later when I think of following Roosh's text message model, I've already lost interest in them and don't really feel a strong enough desire to pursue, and thus never hit them up.
Now the goal is get as far as I can with a woman I'm interested in and fuck her that same night, if I can't do that, and I've made a solid connection and developed a good mutual attraction, then I will get her number if I feel she is interested enough in me, and I'm interested enough in her.
Also to touch on emotional investment, I've come along way and often times I genuinely don't care if she replies to me or not, but there are other times where I meet a fine chick that I am stoked on, and when she doesn't reply on some level I get a little bit let down, which brings my vibe down. It's lame, I know, but hey that's me being honest, life can be full of disappointments.