Quote: (05-01-2013 04:54 PM)soup Wrote:
Hit the next button. You got to know when to hold em and know when to fold 'em. Just keep hitting up the game from stage 1.
My motto for 2013 is
"No Drama"
I don't understand why people have so many so-called "crazy chicks" on here.
Let me give one pointer to avoid all of this...
Managing Expectations
(you need to manage girls' expectation of you)
1) From the start, make it clear that you are in no position to be in a relationship.
2) Explain that you think she is a cool girl and will be her friend regardless whether or not she chooses to go to be with you. Either way you will not act differently toward her.
(the above applies to guys who genuinely want to enjoy being around their women so it probably wont apply to most guys on this forum)
3) Again, make it clear that she will not have exclusive access of you
Managing expectations is a huge part of avoiding disappointment.
This includes:
-Managing expectations of
yourself
-Managing your expectations of
others
-Managing
other's expectations of you (applies to this post)
This has allowed me to keep a steady flow of happy girls throughout my life. The only caveat is that you have to actually enjoy spending time with the girls. That being said, you can pick and choose from this post and use what you will to your advantage.