[gamepadawan]

who cares bro, they're just saying that because they're sad about being pumped and dumped

[augen sehen]

(05-01-2013 05:58 PM)LibertarianBootyHunter Wrote:  

Seems like I've successfully flipped the frame back in my favor.

But i still need to find out if she meant it as an insult or whether it is the truth. Being a boring fuck is not acceptable as an aspiring playa.

Happy I could help.

Fuck her once more, and if you make her come, stop worrying about it.

[GenJx]

fuck her once more and tell her you cant feel anything midstroke. then suddenly stop and say "this isnt working" while getting up and leaving

[XXL]

2 things..

1. true lack of chemistry. this is brutal cause in that case nothing clicks and the intimacy is actually shitty

2. the girl enjoyed it but once dumped her ass like a stinky thrash she rationalized and told you anything to feel better about herself. it's same for example with looks like when you have a belly and she likes you she loves your cute belly as well but once something goes bad she tells you're fat loser. what she thinks is associated to what she feels, always.

[Travelsick]

Yep, generously adding malicious deeds to your past is clearly one of the most successful strategies to live a content and regret-free life.

Alternatively you could just be gracious, and simply say "be that as it may, I for one really enjoyed my time with you and I wish all happiness in future, take care of yourself XYZ".

[Brenden]

(05-02-2013 08:31 AM)Travelsick Wrote:  

Yep, generously adding malicious deeds to your past is clearly one of the most successful strategies to live a content and regret-free life.

Alternatively you could just be gracious, and simply say "be that as it may, I for one really enjoyed my time with you and I wish all happiness in future, take care of yourself XYZ".

Meh. I basically view women as children, and as the saying goes, "spare the rod, spoil the child." Women need to get treated like shit when they act like that or they'll keep doing it.

[Travelsick]

... so you view yourself as an educator of some sort? I'm quite curious how you can feel attracted to a child-like being, but let's not go there.

But it does sound like you might be working your way towards a reputation of some sort?

I think this might be a question of culture right here. Where I'm from we don't engage in any conflict if there is no gain in doing so.

Didn't we suppose though that the reason women say such thing is to rile you up? By maintaining good grace you demonstrate clearly you're unshaken and unaffected. Saying something hurtful in return is not giving the rod, it's just engaging in childlike retaliation, you might as well liken it to spitting or pulling of hair.

[MrXY]

OP, back to the original point-if only one girl has ever told you this I wouldn't worry that much about it-everyone has an off night

But if more than one girl has said this to you, I would consider that there is probably some truth to it. When girls are angry at you, they will attack you at what they see as a weak point

I don't subscribe to the "fuck girls as badly as you want , it's just a notch who cares about them" school of thought. Fucking a girl well is much better not only for them, but for you. It's more intensely enjoyable and the girl is much more likely to come back for more if you want her back, even weeks or months later

I would analyze what you're doing and see if you can improve. Read some of the thread here about fucking, especially about being dominant and somewhat rough; when a girl thinks a guy has fucked her good, that's often a big part of it.

[tenderman100]

(05-02-2013 12:46 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

OP, back to the original point-if only one girl has ever told you this I wouldn't worry that much about it-everyone has an off night

But if more than one girl has said this to you, I would consider that there is probably some truth to it. When girls are angry at you, they will attack you at what they see as a weak point

I don't subscribe to the "fuck girls as badly as you want , it's just a notch who cares about them" school of thought. Fucking a girl well is much better not only for them, but for you. It's more intensely enjoyable and the girl is much more likely to come back for more if you want her back, even weeks or months later

I would analyze what you're doing and see if you can improve. Read some of the thread here about fucking, especially about being dominant and somewhat rough; when a girl thinks a guy has fucked her good, that's often a big part of it.

Hey, I am 61...one of my married babes came over Saturday night for a girls night out. I had a bottle of wine the night before, and some after dinner Irish whiskey, and was pretty hung over Saturday. Needless to say the equipment was not working optimally Saturday.

However, babe understood -- she knows I fucked her good before, so she was tolerant. However, made her cum through other forms of stimulation, and did get it in there for a reasonable amount of time, but not for as much as I, or she, like.

It happens.

[MrXY]

In my experience, the FIRST time you fuck them sets the tone for the whole sexual relationship.

If you took charge and fucked the hell out of them that first time, you get a lot of credit and she will overlook an off night here and there later

My goal now is to be really aggressive and controlling that first time and to push it as far as they'll let me, which is much farther than most guys would imagine with a girl who barely knows you

[Brenden]

(05-02-2013 09:45 AM)Travelsick Wrote:  

... so you view yourself as an educator of some sort? I'm quite curious how you can feel attracted to a child-like being, but let's not go there.

But it does sound like you might be working your way towards a reputation of some sort?

What? I think you're taking me too literally.

(05-02-2013 09:45 AM)Travelsick Wrote:  

I think this might be a question of culture right here. Where I'm from we don't engage in any conflict if there is no gain in doing so.

Didn't we suppose though that the reason women say such thing is to rile you up? By maintaining good grace you demonstrate clearly you're unshaken and unaffected. Saying something hurtful in return is not giving the rod, it's just engaging in childlike retaliation, you might as well liken it to spitting or pulling of hair.

If you'll notice the popular response of "yeah, I never felt like I had a connection with you" isn't outright mean or hurtful. The point of this, imo, is to not give them the satisfaction of them thinking they hurt you or that bad sex would've even been your fault.

Only an utter cunt would say something like that anyway. The "gain", if there is one, is that maybe if fewer bitches get away with this shit feeling good about it then it will happen less.

[Fitzgerald]

(05-01-2013 04:12 PM)presidentcarter Wrote:  

(05-01-2013 03:48 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Just tell her it's because she has biggest vagina you've ever seen. Done.

"It's hard to perform well when you're throwing a toothpick down a hallway."

"Even a 747 looks small when you're landing it
In the Grand Canyon"

[Hotwheels]

I once had a pissed off bitch try and tell people I was small.

"Oh? Is that why she was begging me to not punch a hole in her cervix?"

[Sourcecode]

When I fuck girls they tell me..
"

"

But then they get extremely attached.
Some of them wont even brag to their friends cause I flirt with their friends and they get scared I might fuck one of them.

So I make constant dick jokes and find excuses to pull my pants down

long story short..Youre doing something wrong.
No girl has ever told me that my dick game was bad. Not even my sister

[Samseau]

(05-03-2013 02:52 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

When I fuck girls they tell me...

No girl has ever told me that my dick game was bad. Not even my sister

[Screwston]

(05-03-2013 02:52 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

No girl has ever told me that my dick game was bad. Not even my sister

[Timoteo]

Just tell her, "Hey, I GOT MINE!"

[BarkChompson]

Just got this text:

I wanted to let you know also that I had a great time on our date, but I'm not sure I see things going anywhere romantically. Still think you're great though!

Do I just agree with her, change subject, go for hang out and bang? If she cares enough about me to not want to hurt my feelings, I can turn that into fucking pretty easily, right? Or worst comes to worst use it as a way to sneak into college social circle/community.

[BarkChompson]

Oh also "dropping a flashlight down a mineshaft"

[MrXY]

(05-07-2013 09:42 AM)BarkChompson Wrote:  

Just got this text:

I wanted to let you know also that I had a great time on our date, but I'm not sure I see things going anywhere romantically. Still think you're great though!

Do I just agree with her, change subject, go for hang out and bang? If she cares enough about me to not want to hurt my feelings, I can turn that into fucking pretty easily, right? Or worst comes to worst use it as a way to sneak into college social circle/community.

Is she hot? If so, I would friendzone her and use her for social proof and social circle connections

If she's just ok, I would go for the hail mary bang sometime

[Virtus]

(05-03-2013 02:52 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

No girl has ever told me that my dick game was bad. Not even my sister

Your sister wouldn't tell anyone their D game is bad. she loves it!! besides, how can she tell anyone if she's deaf/mute?

[Screwston]

(05-01-2013 04:40 PM)augen sehen Wrote:  

I see no reason to get worked up about the size of your dick. If you start, then the only logical end is a penis enlargement operation.

That said, I'd say "yeah, I never felt like I had a connection with you."

That oughta get her hamster going. Don't trade hackneyed insult for insult. Go for the emotional jugular.

Thanks Augen. This is simple yet so good because no girl wants to think that you were just using her like a cum bucket without any feelings at all. I think it's great to use when a girl gives you the small dick line, the you suck in bed line or as a last tactic when the girl is trying to break it off with you or just talk shit about you. Maybe give her that line and cut connection off for a few days or weeks.

[Christian McQueen]

And once again a forum question can be solved with Spin Plates. If you had 3-4 other girls hitting you up you wouldn't give a flying fuck about her.

As far as you questioning your skills in the sack try to rate yourself by the following 2 criteria:

1. How long do you last? Are you a 5 minute chump? That's numero uno with girls. Gotta last to do the task bro.

2. If you KNOW you last and you KNOW you have an average dick (for explanation purposes, dunno and don't tell me lol), then she's either a size queen and been fucking Mandingo on the side or she's being a cunt.

Only you know.

[VincentVinturi]

If several women have told you this, maybe it's true that your lovemaking could be better..?

Since those relationships are already over, why not text the girls in earnest and ask them specifically what you could've done better?

Women can pretty candid about this sort of thing.

Another poster also mentioned expectation management. So vital.

I've never never never had a woman express bitterness towards me when I've managed all expectations properly from the outset.

It's only when women feel cheated and conned that they resort to calling you names and hitting you below the belt. Otherwise, they feel lucky to have had you in their lives if even for a short while.

Although caveat: if a woman is crazy about you, she'll say and do cray shit to keep you in her life, even though she knows full well that all this behavior accomplishes is to push you away...

[Samseau]

(05-10-2013 10:34 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  

If several women have told you this, maybe it's true that your lovemaking could be better..?

Since those relationships are already over, why not text the girls in earnest and ask them specifically what you could've done better?

Women can pretty candid about this sort of thing.

Another poster also mentioned expectation management. So vital.

I've never never never had a woman express bitterness towards me when I've managed all expectations properly from the outset.

It's only when women feel cheated and conned that they resort to calling you names and hitting you below the belt. Otherwise, they feel lucky to have had you in their lives if even for a short while.

Although caveat: if a woman is crazy about you, she'll say and do cray shit to keep you in her life, even though she knows full well that all this behavior accomplishes is to push you away...

Why care what they think?