I think I was constantly negging my regular girl for the past 3 months too much because I have realized she is also negging me a lot now. I decided I didn't like it and told her that she was acting too much masculine and I like when girls are more affectionate and feminine. She got super pissed off and left. About 20 minutes after she left she text me saying this.....
Her: I dont mind just being freidnds.......Say something lol don't act all weird. Goodnight!!! Smile
Me: I don't do the whole friends with girls thing. Goodnight
Her: So you invited me over to oddly tell me its over?
Me: I never said it's over. I was just pointing out that I like when girls are affectionate and feminine and you got mad and left.
Her: lol you called me masculine. Doesn't really make me want to cuddle up next to you and it was embarrassing.
Me: Maybe I didn't say it in the best way but I was saying how I felt.
Her: Which is great but don't be an ass. It is hard for me to show affection when I don't know where I stand. It's been almost three months and nothing has changed so I question where this is going. As for femininity, I really don't know what to tell you.
Me: Come back over
Her: I've already taken my clothes off and contacts out.
That was last night and then today around 12 I told her "Come over later"
She finally text me about 5 hours later (she had been working)
Her: I have to warn you I'm having a rough day.
I think I was probably negging her too much because in the beginning she wasn't like this as much but I have kind of been an ass to her.
Any thoughts on what I should've done differently? At what point do you stop negging a girl has much or did I handle this properly and she just wasn't a quality girl? She was 21 and I think I was only her 5th or 6th sex partner.
Her: I dont mind just being freidnds.......Say something lol don't act all weird. Goodnight!!! Smile
Me: I don't do the whole friends with girls thing. Goodnight
Her: So you invited me over to oddly tell me its over?
Me: I never said it's over. I was just pointing out that I like when girls are affectionate and feminine and you got mad and left.
Her: lol you called me masculine. Doesn't really make me want to cuddle up next to you and it was embarrassing.
Me: Maybe I didn't say it in the best way but I was saying how I felt.
Her: Which is great but don't be an ass. It is hard for me to show affection when I don't know where I stand. It's been almost three months and nothing has changed so I question where this is going. As for femininity, I really don't know what to tell you.
Me: Come back over
Her: I've already taken my clothes off and contacts out.
That was last night and then today around 12 I told her "Come over later"
She finally text me about 5 hours later (she had been working)
Her: I have to warn you I'm having a rough day.
I think I was probably negging her too much because in the beginning she wasn't like this as much but I have kind of been an ass to her.
Any thoughts on what I should've done differently? At what point do you stop negging a girl has much or did I handle this properly and she just wasn't a quality girl? She was 21 and I think I was only her 5th or 6th sex partner.