One of my best friends has recently come back from travelling. He went through South America, Oz, New Zealand and Asia over 18 months. He's always been a player since the first time I met him.
I told him yesterday about my discovering game, and he said he'd heard of it but taken no interest in it. In fact, he laughed, as another of our mutual friends had mentioned the book 'The Game' to him years ago, and he was surprised I was only just bringing it up now.
Myself and my other mate (there was a couple of us having a curry) proceeded to explain some fundamentals to him, and we deduced that the things we were discussing were things he does naturally.
I mentioned that it has to be said that chatting a girl up in the street is impressive by any standard, and he retorted that he does this on a regular basis and that it isn't really a big deal.
His point - stop giving a fuck, and just do it. That was his main point. We mentioned DHVing as the primary point in game, and it appears that he did this primarily by, yep, not giving a fuck and putting this across.
Anyway, my point in starting this thread was to see what, if there is one, is the main point you see as being vital in 'game'.
Mine is, stop caring and just doing. Stop caring how a girl will react in the approach. It's basic, I know, but it will be helpful to newbies and is a fundamental aspect to naturals.
They just don't place value on women, and see it as a trivial matter.
I told him yesterday about my discovering game, and he said he'd heard of it but taken no interest in it. In fact, he laughed, as another of our mutual friends had mentioned the book 'The Game' to him years ago, and he was surprised I was only just bringing it up now.
Myself and my other mate (there was a couple of us having a curry) proceeded to explain some fundamentals to him, and we deduced that the things we were discussing were things he does naturally.
I mentioned that it has to be said that chatting a girl up in the street is impressive by any standard, and he retorted that he does this on a regular basis and that it isn't really a big deal.
His point - stop giving a fuck, and just do it. That was his main point. We mentioned DHVing as the primary point in game, and it appears that he did this primarily by, yep, not giving a fuck and putting this across.
Anyway, my point in starting this thread was to see what, if there is one, is the main point you see as being vital in 'game'.
Mine is, stop caring and just doing. Stop caring how a girl will react in the approach. It's basic, I know, but it will be helpful to newbies and is a fundamental aspect to naturals.
They just don't place value on women, and see it as a trivial matter.
Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit upon his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats. - H L Mencken