Quote: (03-15-2013 08:16 AM)WestCoast Wrote:
Nice, you should really do a post on your life story.
First I'd have to spend a lot of time just explaining my view of the world so people could see things the way I do.
First things first you have to take care to cover your ass and make sure you are safe from lawsuits and women....helps if you live in a no fault divorce state that has no alimony like I did....nothing can protect you from child support so make sure you don't have children unless you really want them.
After you have all of your bases covered you take all the money you make and spend it anyway you see fit... to make your life as enjoyable as possible.....drugs.....drinking....gambling...or women or anything think else you can think up.....you spend all of your disposable income...every last cent ....and then you don't feel sorry about the way you spent your money or the way you lived your life.
That is what your family and friends are for. jajaja
And believe me there are plenty of people that feel sorry for me because I don't have a wife and children at the age of 50....they look at the trail of broken marriages and dead end relationships and think of all the pain and expense I must have endured over my life.
And try as I might there aren't too many that I have actually been able to convince.... that isn't the way I see myself or my life.
I have never been able to make a connection between how I behaved in a relationship and how it eventually turned out in the end....so I just stopped thinking about relationships in those terms and just enjoyed them until they played out.....trying to force a particular outcome is pointless as far as I can see...unless you are the type that is so committed that you would spend the rest of your life in an unhappy relationship just to prove a point. Not to mention she also has to be up for that kind of misery to make it work. jajaja
I realize I'm probably not what anybody would describe as long term relationship material....I think to much for that.
Nothing worst than getting up in the morning and doing that last minute self assessment before you get out of bed looking over at your lovely girlfriend or wife and asking yourself is their anywhere else in the world... I'd rather be......and the answer comes back "YES".
I know it's over right then and there....the only thing I don't know is how it will eventually go down and how the hell I will make it out of there with my all my clothes.
I don't know if it is the guilt trip of leaving some chick that really believes she is really and truly in love you with or what....but it is one of the worst feelings for me. I guess it is because I know I was the weak link.
Might sound strange but I would much rather get dumped by some super fine bitch and take that punch in the gut than dealing with some chick that is just balling her eyes out over you because you just up and left.