Quote: (02-26-2013 11:05 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:
Quote: (02-26-2013 12:15 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (02-26-2013 11:39 AM)WestCoast Wrote:
Quote: (02-26-2013 10:59 AM)theIVth Wrote:
I think the average to above average guy that didnt start out at the bottom of the totem pole: the guy who could always get some female attention, always had girls flirting with him, was reasonably popular, played sports, well rounded etc, gets tired of chasing women after a while.
If you've been dealing with girls since you were around 13 or 14- kissing them, fingering them, smashing them, running trains on them, getting drunk with them, partying with them, vibing with them, getting dissed by them, getting rumors started about you by them, smashing their best friend or sister etc, you can only progress in life to eventually finding one that you want to settle down with at some point. Shit gets old after a while. Cause like I said, most guys are not smashing straight dimes every night. A true 8 or 9 coming around that wants to fuck with you is rare for the average man. Dealing with average to cute chicks gets stale after so many years.
Im 29 and Ive dealt with all kinds of women in all kinds of scenarios and relationships. Eventually your interests turns to other things like wanting to start a business or get into real estate or start messing with the stock market or whatever. Stuff that requires dedication and focus and time. Chasing women, going out 3 to 4 nights a week, constantly pressuring yourself to holler at every decent looking chick you see, always having to be on every time you leave the house gets tiring after a while. Ive been doing that since I was like 15.
I guess you just mature after a while and your able to say "ive been there and done that."
I don't know how all that experience would make you want to settle down? If anything it makes you realize settling down is a complete and utter waste of time. Sleeping with girls with boyfriends, girls that are married, seeing your top wingman sleep with a girl on her engagement day while you're banging her friend in the house, seeing all your older buddies get cheated on and seeing them cheat on their wives? Not sure how that makes sense.
Another overlooked point is getting good at cold approaching makes your social skills improve substantially, you can game your boss/office to get promotions. It's significantly harder to convince a stranger to trust you than a direct reference so when you game your office and also have a rec to back you it's like shooting fish in a barrel.
With that said I agree that your major focus in life should not be chasing tail, but that last leap of faith is tough...
Everyone has their own sliding scale of 1 sight versus two sevens or whatever the hell, but settle down? That's like shoving all your hard work down the toilet in a 50/50 bet where there is only downside. No thanks to that one, I'd rather risk being "old and bitter" since that's the argument all my loser colleagues use when they hit 35 and look 47 down $500K in assets from a divorce... Or two.
As the saying goes, "who do you trust?"... "Who do I trust... Me that's fucking who" is the only answer.
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Chasing women, going out 3 to 4 nights a week
But here is the thing, some of us actually enjoy seducing women.
Exactly. Some dudes play golf. I game women. It's as legitimate a hobby as hitting a ball into a hole. To each their own.
Yeah, this sh*t is the funnest sh*t in the world.
What else is there to do at night but throw on a Custom Suit, order a cocktail, stick a grit in your mouth and spit Game?
If someone can tell me about a more fun activity, I am all ears.