Woman's baser impulse = "Ooh, he looks handsome, he's got tattoos and just got out of prison. I want to have sex with him. I better fire up my hamster to justify this because I know it's a bad idea in so many ways."
Restraining patriarchy = dad and older brother get shotguns and tell lowlife scum to clear out and not to let them catch him around their daughter/sister again, give girl a lecture and forbid her from hanging around men unless they approve them first.
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Men's baser impulse = I think my position seems weak. I am going to send some soldiers to steal land from my neighbor. If I don't strengthen myself, I will be an easy target for invasion myself. Besides, that land used to belong to my grandfather so technically it ought to be mine.
Men's baser impulse = he insulted me and stole some land with his soldiers, I think I will do the same because if I don't he will just do it more. Let's go to war.
In neither of these cases does the hamster come into play. Both are rational decisions made with logic, the conclusion being that a war is the lesser of two evils, undertaken to avert perceived greater calamity. Both men could very well be acting in good faith.
Any wrong decision requires a certain amount of rationalization *if the one making it knows it is wrong.* In the case of the men, they act in good faith because their decisions are arrived at with logic. If they're wrong it's typically because they were misinformed about facts or taught wrong principles of action. The woman, on the other hand, knows perfectly well that association with lowlifes is going to be bad for her reputation, bodily health, and mental health, but she is caught up in the moment with emotion and acts on this, not her rational thoughts, and subsequently employs a hamster to try to make her rational thoughts accord better with hr emotions.
Restraining patriarchy = dad and older brother get shotguns and tell lowlife scum to clear out and not to let them catch him around their daughter/sister again, give girl a lecture and forbid her from hanging around men unless they approve them first.
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Men's baser impulse = I think my position seems weak. I am going to send some soldiers to steal land from my neighbor. If I don't strengthen myself, I will be an easy target for invasion myself. Besides, that land used to belong to my grandfather so technically it ought to be mine.
Men's baser impulse = he insulted me and stole some land with his soldiers, I think I will do the same because if I don't he will just do it more. Let's go to war.
In neither of these cases does the hamster come into play. Both are rational decisions made with logic, the conclusion being that a war is the lesser of two evils, undertaken to avert perceived greater calamity. Both men could very well be acting in good faith.
Any wrong decision requires a certain amount of rationalization *if the one making it knows it is wrong.* In the case of the men, they act in good faith because their decisions are arrived at with logic. If they're wrong it's typically because they were misinformed about facts or taught wrong principles of action. The woman, on the other hand, knows perfectly well that association with lowlifes is going to be bad for her reputation, bodily health, and mental health, but she is caught up in the moment with emotion and acts on this, not her rational thoughts, and subsequently employs a hamster to try to make her rational thoughts accord better with hr emotions.