Quote: (06-04-2013 07:21 PM)Baobab Wrote:
Yes, I can confirm the fact America has really bad quality of women. I never thought about it and I think I can be objective. I lived all my life in Russia and only moved to the US 2 years ago to go to school.
My impression from being in a big American university for 2 years.
1. Girls are not happy when they meet a new guy. In Russia, if you have a class together and talk to a girl next to you, she is happy you made the effort to meet her, she will be friendly and show it. In the US, most of them are busy looking at their stupid Iphones in pink cases and they wanna go back to texting as soon as you two are done talking.
2. I might be wrong but the girls have the upper hand in interactions. or at least try to. They are more likely to cancel a meeting, be late, etc. This is just wrong and I felt bad. One time a girl cancelled the date 10 mins before the arranged time. I told her she doesn't have any manners and she should've let me know earlier. She deleted me from friends on FB and avoids me whenever possible. I don't care, but several of my Russian girl friends said they would apologize and make up for it when I told the whole story.
3. Girls in my university (around 25 000 students, public, South) are way below what you would see in the same size university in Russia. Not only sweatpants, no make up and bad clothing in general, but I think genetically Russian women are just beautiful. I only realized it after I moved abroad, it's not just a stereotype. Russian girls are beautiful. Sorry, everybody else, haha.
4. American girls are hard to talk to about anything meaningful. Whatever you talk about, there are very few subjects they are interested in. I recently went out with some Russian girls who live in New York. I was shocked at how interested they were and how easy it is to keep the conversation going. The same with Colombians, unless they have been here long enough to be brainwashed and become Americanized.
5. In American culture, especially college age people, there is constant competition. In poorer countries people boast with their money, jobs are cars. Honestly, in the US people are modest about their money but all the competition is about who has the coolest life. This is what Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and all this other crap is for. People have to tell everybody else about the slightest fun thing they do to increase their status.
I always felt like girls tried to estimate me - how many friends I have, what parties I go to, etc, etc. I was always thinking - "Who the hell are you to judge my life? It's probably way more fun than yours, and yet, you are trying to give me an estimate? Go to hell".
I can go forever. I am leaving this country, partly because I can't deal with American girls anymore. They are ugly, boring and superficial. Every slight interaction with Russian or Latino girls still shows me how bad it is in the US. I am going to Colombia in 10 days. The only place I love here in New York, because it has the most foreigners.
My condolences to all American guys.
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Foreign women have what the French call joie de vivre. When they enjoy something, they really enjoy it. If you're funny, they'll belly-laugh. If the music's great, they'll really get into it. What they don't do it snub your jokes and say "hardy har-har." America's Puritanical strain has filtered down through the ages in a way that's resulted in American women believing it's some sort of sin to laugh.
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Foreign women often have great voices. Here in the mid-Atlantic, radio stations run ads for a chain of convenience stores called Royal Farms. They feature an annoying woman's voice with a flat, nasal drone.
It's got to be the unsexiest voice I've ever heard...and it's a very typical American woman's voice, sad to say. The foreign women I know don't sound like someone is holding their nose when they speak -- they have throaty, real voices that drip with sex. If you're going to hear a voice day-in-day-out it needs to be pleasant.
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Foreign women are cool with nudity. I'll never forget a female exchange student from Germany I knew in college, Sylvie, who would often hang in her dorm room topless. Until her uptight, feminist, lacrosse-playing roommate complained to the RA and Sylvie was forced to cover herself. I don't need to say anymore here -- let that serve as an allegory.
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Foreign women don't act like everything is a battle. Foreign women will debate you, then have a drink with you -- just like guys will. With American women, if you disagree you insult their "honor," then they act liek you're supposed to crawl back to them. No thanks. They behave like children, but expect the respect of adults.
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Foreign women, from what I've seen, don't get hysterical over sex. They don't act like it's a "sin." They don't have obsessions with "rape culture." They don't see it as a thing to barter. They seems way more comfortable with their sexuality. They can walk in heels like women, not like ducks.
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Foreign women have better walks. American women scurry. Foreign women sashay. I HATE when women scurry.