I met up with TheDude3737 last night in L.A.
It was a low energy night for me but while we were talking I noticed several things throughout the night.
While standing at the bar having our first drink, I noticed a girl that was on a date with a guy look up and make eye contact with me. I stared back at her and made her look away as she smiled.
TheDude had opened a couple girls before I got there and they had kind of blown him off, but as we were leaving they were watching us leave.
The second place was a wine and beer joint. Several girls and groups of girls were making it a point to walk past us, or stand beside us and have drinks. Granted few were up to par. We both agree that a 6 white girl is just not very motivating.
Thedude opened and Indian girl who was standing next to a couple of her friends and I observed how her face lit up. After letting them speak for a bit I walked over and joined the conversation. Her friends were absolutely unbangable but it was good to get the vibe going.
They decided to go and the Indian girl wanted us to tell her to stay. She visibly got upset when we didn't. She had a cute body and we both agreed we would bang her.
The next place we went, is where we should have been all along. A lot of talant but heavily fortified in social circles. Even with my low energy that was affecting thedude we still opened and got attention from a lot of girls.
In all cases we could have changed the outcome simply be being more assertive. Most of these girls were dying for someone to just approach them and take over.
Girls have zero social skills. Other than making themselves seen and using body language to try and get attention, they rely on the guy to take control.
This is nothing new but it really struck me how juvenile these girls are. It's like a middle school dance were the girls are hoping the guy will come over and ask them to slow dance.
The Indian girl was upset because she didn't realize we both found her attractive, I watched her actually storm out of the bar.
The last set of girls were surrounded by their little orbiters but it was obvious to me that they were dying to talk to us but were afraid to be seen going outside the circle.
I think that defines L.A. it's about breaking through the social circle.
It's basic stuff but in this city in particular, you have to always lead. Girls try to play it aloof here because the guys are reflecting that. Everyone is paralyzed out of fear and that's why they rely so heavily on social circles to hook up. With my low energy it took me towards the end of the night to really see what was happening.
It was a low energy night for me but while we were talking I noticed several things throughout the night.
While standing at the bar having our first drink, I noticed a girl that was on a date with a guy look up and make eye contact with me. I stared back at her and made her look away as she smiled.
TheDude had opened a couple girls before I got there and they had kind of blown him off, but as we were leaving they were watching us leave.
The second place was a wine and beer joint. Several girls and groups of girls were making it a point to walk past us, or stand beside us and have drinks. Granted few were up to par. We both agree that a 6 white girl is just not very motivating.
Thedude opened and Indian girl who was standing next to a couple of her friends and I observed how her face lit up. After letting them speak for a bit I walked over and joined the conversation. Her friends were absolutely unbangable but it was good to get the vibe going.
They decided to go and the Indian girl wanted us to tell her to stay. She visibly got upset when we didn't. She had a cute body and we both agreed we would bang her.
The next place we went, is where we should have been all along. A lot of talant but heavily fortified in social circles. Even with my low energy that was affecting thedude we still opened and got attention from a lot of girls.
In all cases we could have changed the outcome simply be being more assertive. Most of these girls were dying for someone to just approach them and take over.
Girls have zero social skills. Other than making themselves seen and using body language to try and get attention, they rely on the guy to take control.
This is nothing new but it really struck me how juvenile these girls are. It's like a middle school dance were the girls are hoping the guy will come over and ask them to slow dance.
The Indian girl was upset because she didn't realize we both found her attractive, I watched her actually storm out of the bar.
The last set of girls were surrounded by their little orbiters but it was obvious to me that they were dying to talk to us but were afraid to be seen going outside the circle.
I think that defines L.A. it's about breaking through the social circle.
It's basic stuff but in this city in particular, you have to always lead. Girls try to play it aloof here because the guys are reflecting that. Everyone is paralyzed out of fear and that's why they rely so heavily on social circles to hook up. With my low energy it took me towards the end of the night to really see what was happening.