[Cynistar]

How's it going? I've been in Japan for about 6 months now. I work as an ALT in Ibaraki. I've just started going out to bars and clubs in Roppongi. All of your posts have great info and have been helpful. Keep up the good work and hopefully you'll put up some new posts as well.

[WanderingSoul]

Love the Japan stuff.

With Japanese guys, if you kick the crap out of one, what happens?

Here in Thailand if you get into a fight with a Thai dude you will get jumped for sure. Random Thai's who don't know him or you will jump in just because it is a Thai vs a foreigner.

Is it the same in Japan? My friends in Vietnam tell me it isn't the same there at all.


Also, it'd be nice to have this moved to the Travel forum. I think a lot of people would be interested in it there. It's kind of hidden here in the Newbie section. Could definitely help a lot more people out over there.

[ImmoralPsychology]

People in Japan don't fight. I don't recall ever seeing a punch thrown in all my time here, ever. Every blue moon you might catch a couple of guys talking (what they think is) tough, but that's as far as I've ever seen it go.

But here's the tricky thing about that. Because here no one ever fights, they will do things that would normally get them knocked the fuck out in any other country. They'll come out of nowhere and cockblock you for no reason. If there ever is an argument that escalates, they won't back down because they think fights just never happen. And they don't. As a foreigner, the last thing you want to do is hit someone. You'll be up on charges faster than you can blink. If you leave the scene, you're not hard exactly to identify.

[Sargon of Akkad]

(09-05-2013 08:20 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Love the Japan stuff.

With Japanese guys, if you kick the crap out of one, what happens?

Here in Thailand if you get into a fight with a Thai dude you will get jumped for sure. Random Thai's who don't know him or you will jump in just because it is a Thai vs a foreigner.

Is it the same in Japan? My friends in Vietnam tell me it isn't the same there at all.


Also, it'd be nice to have this moved to the Travel forum. I think a lot of people would be interested in it there. It's kind of hidden here in the Newbie section. Could definitely help a lot more people out over there.

From what I've heard, civilian Japanese won't bother you, but if a foreigner gets into a dispute of any kind with a Japanese person, you can bet the police will automatically take the side of the latter, no matter how obvious it is that the Japanese was at fault.

Japan in general is just not a violent society, and in over five months here I haven't seen a single fight in a club at all. Still, it's best not to start any trouble with the locals, as it sounds like the police will not hesitate to nail your ass for any trouble you may cause here.

[RawGod]

(09-06-2013 06:24 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:  

From what I've heard, civilian Japanese won't bother you, but if a foreigner gets into a dispute of any kind with a Japanese person, you can bet the police will automatically take the side of the latter, no matter how obvious it is that the Japanese was at fault.

Japan in general is just not a violent society, and in over five months here I haven't seen a single fight in a club at all. Still, it's best not to start any trouble with the locals, as it sounds like the police will not hesitate to nail your ass for any trouble you may cause here.

Absolutely true from my experience. You probably won't be interfered with if you get into a fight, but you don't want to mess with the police in Japan. Underneath the non-confrontational surface, there is a xenophobia and the police (and press) love to nail gaijin who look like they have committed a crime.

[Beyond Borders]

(08-13-2013 11:59 AM)Skotch Wrote:  

However, the girl that showed up for round 2 was also not who I remembered. This girl had aged 15 years in 4 days. She also smelled a little bit.

Damn - hate it when that happens! Alcohol's a helluva drug...

[Skotch]

(09-06-2013 06:24 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:  

(09-05-2013 08:20 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Love the Japan stuff.

With Japanese guys, if you kick the crap out of one, what happens?

Here in Thailand if you get into a fight with a Thai dude you will get jumped for sure. Random Thai's who don't know him or you will jump in just because it is a Thai vs a foreigner.

Is it the same in Japan? My friends in Vietnam tell me it isn't the same there at all.


Also, it'd be nice to have this moved to the Travel forum. I think a lot of people would be interested in it there. It's kind of hidden here in the Newbie section. Could definitely help a lot more people out over there.

From what I've heard, civilian Japanese won't bother you, but if a foreigner gets into a dispute of any kind with a Japanese person, you can bet the police will automatically take the side of the latter, no matter how obvious it is that the Japanese was at fault.

Japan in general is just not a violent society, and in over five months here I haven't seen a single fight in a club at all. Still, it's best not to start any trouble with the locals, as it sounds like the police will not hesitate to nail your ass for any trouble you may cause here.

Yeah... Fights don't really happen. But I guarantee that if you got in a fight with a Japanese guy, you'd go to jail regardless of who started it or who finished it. I've had several run-ins with the police and they do always side with the Japanese person, even if that person is wrong.

Recently, a buddy and I were just about to enter Pontocho, a famous and very narrow shopping street in Kyoto, when a drunk guy told us "外人どきやがれ” (get the fuck out of the way, foreigners). I used my best condescending father voice and told him "that's not how we talk to people." He called us some racist names and told us to go back to our own country. I told him I wouldn't let him go past us until he spoke to us in polite Japanese.

He called the cops and told them 5 foreigners (again, there were only 2 of us) were surrounding him near the entrance to Pontocho. Foolishly thinking the police would use some common sense and see a racist old drunk was being a dick, I stuck around and waited. When they arrived he told them we had thrown garbage at him and threatened him. Some drunk dudes came over and told the police we hadn't done anything, but they gave the dudes a warning, took their names down, and told them to go home or be arrested for interfering. It was surreal.

After about a half an hour of being harassed about not having our passports (you don't legally have to carry it if you have a foreign resident card, and they're supposed to know this) they told us we could go home if we apologized to the drunkard. By that time, there were probably 10 cops there watching us. We refused. They had the drunk dude separated from us, but it sounded like he was demanding an apology. Having done nothing wrong, we refused. At one point he actually ran over and shoved me. They pulled him away again, but they still demanded we apologize.

After another half hour or so, the captain showed up and told us we absolutely had to apologize. We refused. I told him it was ridiculous that this guy who had called us racist names and told us to leave the country could demand an apology. He said that he was obligated as a police officer to protect only Japanese citizens. I told him that was crazy and wouldn't be acceptable in America or Europe, but he just kept saying "this is Japan," which is a cop-out Japanese people use all the time when you point out how backwards they are.

The officers seemed to tire of our stubbornness and told us they'd let us go if we shook his hand. We agreed. They brought us together and the dude started freaking the fuck out about not getting his apology from the dirty foreigners. Quite surprisingly, the captain actually admonished him for this. I reached out to shake his hand and he yelled "絶対負けな～い！" (I refuse to lose!) and tried to squeeze my hand really hard. I was a good foot taller than him and much bigger, so I just clamped down until the police separated us. They told us to get in a cab and leave.

What was interesting about that incident to me was that they held us for that long when they had nothing they could arrest us for. It's kind of comforting knowing that police actually need to have a good reason to take you in (unlike in The States), but it was just weird. Why was that necessary?




On a game-related note, I've recovered from my little slump a bit. I actually had a big post in the works, but I have a seminar on Sunday. I'll try to put it up after that. Anyway, my harem lost two girls, but I've not suffered a full collapse. I've got some good new prospects as well:

1) A 23-year-old half-Filipina/half-Japanese girl, easily a 9. I actually met her through a friend. She had apparently seen a purikura photo booth picture of me and recognized me on campus. We have a date set up to drink green tea beer in Sanjo, Kyoto later this month.
2) A 21-year-old business student, about a 7.5, with waist-long hair and a thing for tall guys. I met her at Starbucks. I opened her by complimenting the cool Patagonia stickers on her notebook and then teased her about them being the cheapest thing in the store. She wants to come over and watch NFL Gamepass and cook (which means all kindsa porkin').
3) An 18-year-old business student who is an 8 depending on your ass size preference (it's a biggun). I kiss closed the first date, going to set up the next soon.

[Skotch]

I was hoping for some comments after my last post before I posted again, but I've been planning on doing a big one to celebrate the finish of my 300th approach. Since I ended on Monday, I've been going over everything I've learned and reminiscing about each notch. I calculated a bunch of stats, including some silly ones. I also wanted to summarize what I've learned about game in Japan. I think I've been pretty successful. Not gaudy numbers by any means, but far from chumpish. I'd love some feedback. Some of the info I've covered in other posts in this thread and in the "Bang Osaka" thread in the Travel section, but this little summary is as just as much for me as for others. Anyway...



Total Notches: 24
Total Batting Average: .080
Time since starting game: 20 months
Total Approaches: 300
Approaches per day: 0.49
Total Phone Numbers: 109
→Number Close Batting Average: .363
→Number to Notch Conversion Rate: 22%
Total Average Hotness: 7.2
→Hottest: 9.5+ (the highest my scale goes)
→Bustedest: 5 (narrowly passes boner test)
Total Average Age: 24.7
→Oldest: 36
→Youngest: 18
ONS: 4
Most Dates Before a Bang: 6
Longest Time From Meeting to Banging: 13 months
Biggest Harem: 7
→Average Hotness: 8.1
Current Harem: 5
→Average Hotness: 7.8
Condom Slips: 1
Condom Breaks: 0
Times Finished Too Fast: 3
Times Not Finished: 2
Rawdogs: 9
Fearless Rawdogs: 2
Girls That Actually Cared if I Wore a Condom: 2ish
STD Tests: 3
STDs Contracted: trichomoniasis (treated)
Mexican Restaurant Visits: 14
→Mexican Restaurant Conversion Rate: 64%
Girls With SOs: 6
Angry Boyfriend Confrontations: 1
Oneitis Episodes: 2
Stalkers: 1
Free Jewelry Obtained: 4 necklaces, 2 pairs of earrings
Deals Not Sealed Even After Getting to My House: 4
Cheapest Bang: $7.00 beef bowl
Most Women Banged in a 24h period: 3 (1 unique notch)
Longest Drought: 1 month
Number of Unique BJs: 22
Cunnilingus Performed: 0



-Take a sniper rifle, not a shotty. It may just be me, but I find measured approaches based on observational humor or some perceived commonality are far better than direct street game or even indirect openers. I usually only initiate if I have a really good reason. Shitty pickup is just too prevalent over here. You'll be gaming with a huge handicap if you're not really careful or really smooth (I'm not smooth, so I opt for careful....).
-Sustain conversation. Women tend not to take responsibility for the conversation when they're with men. We know this. In Japan, this is combined with a culture that discourages opinion-sharing, joking, or really anything that makes a conversation interesting. If you're not a great conversationalist (which I think I am), I believe you must have some kind of material in your pocket.
-Japanese girls are the flakiest of the flakes. Anti-flake management is absolutely key. Roosh and WestIndianArchie have good posts on the matter.
-Slightly exotic food is magic. It's a good way to hook a girl who might be on the fence about seeing you, and you can have a light meal and get some drinks into her (i.e. a taco and a couple Negro Modelos or a kebab and a few Turkish rakis).
-Cooking is even more magic. It's amazing how soon a girl will come to your house if you can cook her something she's never had before. I recommend quinoa, vodka sauce penne, or lemon scampi (vodka sauce penne is good because you can make cocktails with the leftover booze). For further logistical sneakiness, eat on the bed.
-Text game is huge. In my experience, a mix of Roissy and Roosh text game is best. Gauge interest and maybe set your hook with a non-sequitur text or the like and then follow Roosh's no-nonsense texting method. Avoid "how are you" texts at all costs!
-Clubs are relatively easy to pull from. I've had great success at clubs. With the exception of a few poor nights out, I've pretty much pulled a girl for a ONS or gotten a bunch of great leads every time. I wish I'd partied more in my days working as a teacher. Going to grad school means I just don't have the funds to hit the clubs as often as I'd like. I think I'd have 35-50 notches by now if I'd been hitting the club regularly.
-Deep voices make Japanese girls horny. On 2 separate occasions I've overheard the exact phrase, "you can feel it in your uterus." Having a higher voice won't necessarily hurt you, but beefing it up a bit might help.
-Always sit at the bar or counter. Japanese people are not good at making eye contact. Sitting at the bar will take that pressure off of her and make kino easier for you. Win-win.
-Tickling the ribs is a great way to jump-start kino. This is another one that might be true everywhere, but I donno. I like to tell a girl that I'm really good at massages and then give her a "rib massage." If she's not ticklish, call her a "party-pooper" and then teach her what it means. Another thing I like to do is tell a girl I want to show her a magic trick. I'll concoct some ritual for her to perform that ends in her putting her hands together like she's praying. Then I grab her around both wrists so she can't fight back and tickle her. You'll be inside her (or in a courtroom) in no time.
-Fashion is big. Dress nice. Japanese people expect you to be either super gaudy or super lazy with your dress. Don't fall onto the latter group. If you're not comfortable gaying it up a bit, just dress nice. No basketball shorts, cargo pants, or any of that mess. Make sure your hair looks nice as well.
-Don't be an ossan. Ossan is a rude Japanese term for an older gentleman. Japanese females of all ages hate them with a fiery passion (daddy issues?). This means you should be clean shaven and should avoid any clothing items associated with ossans. This means no button-down shirts with short sleeves, no ill-fitting suits, and no baseball caps over the age of 23. Polos are iffy as well. Don't clear your throat in public, spit, or scratch yourself. This is likely good advice all over the world, but it's especially true here.
-Everything is kimoi. Just as the English-speaking girl wields "creepy" against men, so does the Japanese girl use "kimoi." I think they might even be quicker to whip it out than American women. I was teaching a high school class once and a nerdy kid got called kimoi for dropping a pencil. No joke.
-Tsuntsun plays. This is the Japanese word for an aloof or slightly acid-tongued person. I think teasing is the biggest part of my game. Japanese people are suspicious of those who are too nice anyway, so girls are doubly so. They all say they want a nice guy, but just like girls everywhere else they gravitate towards doucheyness. Be careful about your jokes, though. Sarcasm and dryness are not well understood. You'd be better off directly teasing than trying to be witty in most cases. One of my new favorite things is asking a girl where she's from and then immediately telling her I don't like that place for some ridiculous reason. "Nagoya? Ewwww... Everything has miso on it..." or "Ohhhhh, Mie. I don't think I can be friends with a bumpkin." To use some PUA lingo I don't like, it's like a DHVinstanegDQHB7... or something.
-"Be my boyfriend right now." One of the most common methods of LMR that Japanese girls use is the "I can't have sex unless you agree to be my boyfriend right now" gambit. I've heard from other guys that you can just agree and blow them off later, but I had a Japanese stalker before the program and another during, so I have some misgivings. I have secured all but one bang with girls who've used this treacherous technique, usually at a later time.
-Harems made easy. As you can see from my numbers above, it's easy to maintain a pretty large harem in Japan. Japanese people schedule things way in advance, and are almost incapable of planning things spur of the moment. Their concept of time is just different, I suppose. As such, going several days without contacting a girl or scheduling her for a dinner in two months is totally acceptable (though sometimes this will be used on you). It makes it very easy to date a bunch of girls at once without putting too much effort into juggling. I think this ease of harem building is a huge plus for guys looking to game in Japan. On the other hand, it's a minus if you want a lot of new notches. Some weeks I have so much sex that I just lose interest completely.
-If you can get the kiss, you can get the bang. I believe someone disagreed with me elsewhere on the forum on this at some point, but I think it's absolutely true. I have banged every girl but two that I've kissed in a private place. Out of those two, one gave me a blowjob. My theory is that kissing just gets them ridiculously wet because they're not used to it. Japanese people don't kiss a lot, and in my experience they really don't do it well.
-The sex is what you make of it. I've heard a lot of guys complain that Japanese women are bad in bed. I would agree that they're not the most skilled, but it doesn't mean it isn't a ton of fun to bang them. Japanese women don't tend to move a lot and they make ridiculous noises. However, they cum really easily and the only demand they'll ever make is that you turn off the lights. Other than that you have free reign. Move them into any position you want, slap their ass, put your big toe in their butthole, choke them, pull their hair, cum in their shoes, take them to the shower, whatever. They're also really quick to suck you off and do a pretty good job of it. I have heard that they object to facials, but I haven't really tried too much.
-Strap up. I've said it before and it bears repeating: Wear a condom. Japanese people seem really anti-condom. I tend to be very good about wearing one, but I think you could get away without it with pretty much any girl. I've actually had several tell me to take the rubber off. This may sound great at the time, but all it really means is that they've had a bunch of other raw dicks inside them before.

[Cattle Rustler]

Great work Skotch! Especially with the data analysis. Damn, you've broke it down to a formula. +1 from me.

How are Mexican restaurants in J-pan?

You just inspired me to do my own 100 approach thing.

[Sargon of Akkad]

Nice summary. Very interesting, precise and detailed analysis. Interesting stats, too.

Two points I'd like to bring up though...

"Deep voices make Japanese girls horny"

You'll remember from our meetup, I've got one of the deepest voices most say they have ever encountered. I'm practically Darth-Fucking-Vader. I suspect this is more like icing on the cake for most Japanese women.

"Clubs are relatively easy to pull from."

Comparing this to China and Prague, I really can't confirm this. It seems like this varies with each individual.

Japan really seems like one of those countries where each person will experience different results. One really has no other choice but to come here and find out for himself how things are for him. I think it is true, however, that the efeminate, metrosexual man will have a greater advantage than the Vin Diesels or the 50-Cents (though I can imagine a guy who looks like 50-Cent would do well in Pure).

"Japanese girls are the flakiest of the flakes"

I'm afraid that doesn't quite cut it.

Unfortunately, no one can be told how flakey Japanese women are...You have to see it for yourself.

When describing J-girls, "flake" is merely a word...the reality is infinitely more horrifying.

[CJ_W]

(09-05-2013 08:20 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Love the Japan stuff.

With Japanese guys, if you kick the crap out of one, what happens?

Don't get into a fight in Japan.

yeah sure depending on the severity you'll get put in Japanese jail (which is worse than American jails by far) and after your term is up, if you're visa has expired you'll be deported.

But that's not the main reason why. . .

thing is, you NEVER know who knows who. . .and I'm referencing the organized crime scene. It's ridiculously ingrained in a lot of places you wouldn't think they'd be in, with members being people you wouldn't think would be a member. If you DID happen to fuck with the wrong person, you may end up having dudes with swords knocking at your door, and the subsequent bloodbath being covered up. (There have been rumors of this happening a few years back at a club in Tokyo. . .)

So yeah if you are the kind of person that chooses fighting as a way to show your "alpha" ness, or has to prove something etc etc. . .I'd say stay far away from Japan as possible. That will only get you killed there. There is no need for someone to be "Mr Tough Guy" oh and if you ever DO do something stupid like beat up a Japanese dude. . .


RUN. as fast as you can, get out of town, move to a different city, or even leave the country.

This is because once you're indentified and remembered, you're screwed. . . no they wont jump you RIGHT THEN AND THERE, they'll find you a few hours to a few days later and take care of that situation


It is WAY better to be a nice and cool as you can be with every J-person you meet. . .I have had some really crazy, and unbelievable things happen to me (in a good way) just because I either gave a genuine complement or smile, or thumbs up or whatever

About the cockblocking thing, you just gotta deal with it.

They cock block each other too! I had two Japanese friends that I took to clubs with me a lot back in the day(when I was just starting out as a promoter) out in Tokyo and, not only did they cock block me AFTER I introduced them to OTHER WOMEN that they were too shy to hold a conversation with, they began to cock block EACH OTHER at some point. . .my mind exploded.

This is why you need to get to clubs EARLY . . . .B E F O R E the cockblocking guys show up. Unless you are at a club where its full of girls who like foreigners and pretty much only foreign guys go to that club, you're going to be cockblocked. Usually what I've done was just let her choose, USUALLY, she'll choose to go with the J-dude(they have a distinct way of cock-blocking foreigners, that will make you not even realize its happened until too late)as J dudes pretty much socially pressure the girls to NOT talk with you.

I don't go out anywhere with other J-dudes, unless, they are:

a)bringing their girlfriend with them and I actually need to go out with them that night for some reason(rarely happens) )

or

b) someone "important" enough for me that I need to be there to network/get to know them etc. . . and in situations like that, I do not focus on women at all! This has happened only 4 times and usually with each of those people, they have wives/families etc and are not trying to fuck everything on two legs. . .although in situations like these they will introduce women to you. . .in which case your work is already done.(don't count on this happening regularly though)

So yeah, don't hang out with J-dudes if you're trying to get laid. . .
Sure, I've heard about amazing J-dudes that are great wingmen. . .but Ive heard of that. .. happening one time form a friend of mine, which then later on the same guy turned out to cockblock him later at a different event. So yeah, non cock-blocking J-guys are Loch-Ness monster type rare.
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[Skotch]

@CJ_W. Cockblocking is seriously out of control here...Just last week I discovered a new girl in the research offices at school. Apparently she's been there since the beginning, but I had somehow never bumped into her. At the end of the day, I decided to go down to her little cubicle and see if she wanted to hang out some time. I told my buddy, "I'm gonna go ask so-and-so out." He's kind of a pussy and was amazed that I would even approach a girl that directly.

I went down and sat next to her and just started shooting the shit. Then all of a sudden dude comes in and says, "oh... Skotch... what are you doing in here?" like we hadn't spoken before. I was a little shocked at how dirty that was. I said, "just talking to my new best buddy." He nodded awkwardly and proceeded to stand there like a creeper and listen to us talk (this seems like the go-to cockblock move for Japanese guys). I decided to just ask her out the next day.

Anyways, I found out that she's really popular among the J-dudes in the graduate program because she's quiet and very Japanese. She's got a banging ass from playing soccer, cute without makeup, short pixie-ish hair, and she's seriously smart. I'd give her a solid 8 for looks and a bonus half a point for intelligence. We're going to dinner on Thursday.



@CattleRustler. Mexican restaurants tend to be terrible, but there are a few gems. At one place they had ceviche on the menu, and I got super psyched and ordered two, but it was octopus tentacles in salsa... it was weird as fuck. Other places will use ketchup in lieu of salsa because Japanese people don't handle spicy food well. You gotta really do some research before you take a date there. I lucked out with my last apartment because there happened to be an incredible Mexican place right in the neighborhood.

Which reminds me, I wanted to preach logistics again. I hit a little speedbump, but I've been killing it since, and it's all due to logistics. Tuthmosis was right (although I might have this quote wrong...), an ounce of logistics is worth a pound of pussy. My new date routines are off the fucking chain.

1) Darts and gin → matcha beer and kaiseki (think Japanese tapas) → ice cream cones in the imperial palace gardens → my place.
2) Light Turkish meal → American music bar → stylish wine bar → my place.
3) Irish pub → walk the famous pontocho avenue to a secret playground → craft beer bar overlooking the kamogawa river → my place.



Also, I wanted to ask some advice. I think my game has reached a new level, but I've noticed I'm getting more weird and random text messages from girls. If it's a girl I've already slept with, I'll just blow it off or send a short response, but new girls throw me off. I'll give some examples:

→One girl sent me a picture of a sunset and said, "I'm in Kagoshima!" It was actually a really amazing picture, so I said, "im telling ppl i took that." She said, "Hey, that's mine!" I ignored it, but she never responded to my next text.
→Another girl texted me with, "I'm on the fast track to big muscles!" I responded with, "are you free next week?" We have a date set up.
→Yet another girl just sent me some smileys which I ignored. She stopped responding to me as well.

I've never noticed this behavior before. I'm assuming it has to do with stepping up the quality of girls I'm hanging out with... is it some kind of weird test? It seems like I'm failing... Do they just want attention? Is it a bad sign or a good sign? How would you handle it? Any feedback would be appreciated.

[Clearwaterkid]

Hey I've been a long time member but haven't posted here in a while due to work and traveling all over the world. I didn't want to start a new thread but I'm looking for something little more with this one.

I've been in japan for the last couple months for work and will be here for almost another 2 years. I have limited time to go out and meet girls, but my schedule is starting to clear up and I am going to be hitting the streets soon. I'm looking for more information on how to get the bang with these girls, not just approaching. Japanese girls are really easy to get talking with, plus I have never really had a problem in that department. Can someone provide me with some information more specifically about getting the girl in bed, like do's and don'ts. Differences I should be aware of from American girls? I liked the first post in this thread that went into some detail, but I don't really need all those approaches.

I'm tempted to just use the game that has always worked for me, but a little edge up on things would help. Thanks in advance if anyone can help me out.

[Skotch]

I've actually been thinking about making a thread about the subtleties of game in Japan partially based on my graduate school work. I've received comments before saying this thread should be in the travel or game section instead of hidden over in the newbie forum. I guess I could do that in the next couple days.

In the mean time, there's some good stuff hidden in this thread if you dig a bit.

[Clearwaterkid]

Good to hear man, Yeah I thought it was weird that this thread was in the newbie forum, but whatever. I'll dig a little bit more, but please put up a post when you get a chance. I would love to read it. It's going to be nothing but Asian women for me for a while.

Also I am traveling to Korea in two months for a little bit and possibly Thailand. Have you ever been there or know anything about the women there?

[Screwston]

Someone was telling me about them fixing up Lexus over there and going crazy on the roads because the cops are in slow ass rides with no guns..

[Screwston]

Do girls use drugs? Or is even getting high looked at like heroin? I believe meth is huge out there.

[Laner]

(12-16-2013 10:17 AM)houston Wrote:  

Do girls use drugs? Or is even getting high looked at like heroin? I believe meth is huge out there.

Generally, drugs are a no go. Most people in Japan would never even come across drugs.

However I have partied the night away on some E tabs from time to time, had a night with some high end escorts and a pile of blow, and chilled at my friends farm where she grows weed.

[Comte De St. Germain]

As an incoming college how good is Japan for studying abroad? I'm planning to minor in Japanese and want to have a good feel of the country. Btw brilliant tips on Night Game. This is easily my favorite post on this forum yet.

[Art Pimp]

(09-23-2013 09:54 AM)Skotch Wrote:  

Also, I wanted to ask some advice. I think my game has reached a new level, but I've noticed I'm getting more weird and random text messages from girls. If it's a girl I've already slept with, I'll just blow it off or send a short response, but new girls throw me off. I'll give some examples:

→One girl sent me a picture of a sunset and said, "I'm in Kagoshima!" It was actually a really amazing picture, so I said, "im telling ppl i took that." She said, "Hey, that's mine!" I ignored it, but she never responded to my next text.
→Another girl texted me with, "I'm on the fast track to big muscles!" I responded with, "are you free next week?" We have a date set up.
→Yet another girl just sent me some smileys which I ignored. She stopped responding to me as well.

I've never noticed this behavior before. I'm assuming it has to do with stepping up the quality of girls I'm hanging out with... is it some kind of weird test? It seems like I'm failing... Do they just want attention? Is it a bad sign or a good sign? How would you handle it? Any feedback would be appreciated.

It's probably just due to the fact that you've pulled 109 numbers in the past 20 months. Could be attention whoring or the girls are trying to reactivate a stale hookup/number just like many of us occasionally do. Your digits are in a lot of girls' phones, not really a bad thing.

[BadWolf]

Wow all of this sounds sh1tacular, Vietnam is the next big manufacturing base, you guys should go and pull from there.

[Clearwaterkid]

(12-16-2013 09:29 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  

As an incoming college how good is Japan for studying abroad? I'm planning to minor in Japanese and want to have a good feel of the country. Btw brilliant tips on Night Game. This is easily my favorite post on this forum yet.

I'm not here for school, I'm out here for work, but I can tell you the place is great. If you are into Asian women, what better place? One cool thing to know is that English is taught as a second language over here like Spanish in America so I have been getting around knowing very little Japanese. If you are into the culture and women, you will love it. The women are a lot nicer than American women and I have noticed they spend more time trying to make you happy. Of course that is all relative on where you go. I would stay out of touristy spots like Tokyo or Roppungi If you want a more genuine Japanese experience (more specifically the real Japanese women) I were you. I'm on a smaller island just south of main land and I love it.

And BTW happy endings are a real thing out here in case you are into that sort of thing.

[Comte De St. Germain]

@ClearwaterKid
I'm thinking far ahead on this one, but Japan is definitely the place I want to retire if I get old. The countryside seems so great. Although from what I've seen on this thread expert level game will most likely be needed to do well there. So practice more in the States until I get good. As a man into E. European chicks(not that far to fly to Russia) and Asians it seems great.

[Fortitudinal]

(09-11-2013 11:31 AM)Skotch Wrote:  

I was hoping for some comments after my last post before I posted again, but I've been planning on doing a big one to celebrate the finish of my 300th approach. Since I ended on Monday, I've been going over everything I've learned and reminiscing about each notch. I calculated a bunch of stats, including some silly ones. I also wanted to summarize what I've learned about game in Japan. I think I've been pretty successful. Not gaudy numbers by any means, but far from chumpish. I'd love some feedback. Some of the info I've covered in other posts in this thread and in the "Bang Osaka" thread in the Travel section, but this little summary is as just as much for me as for others. Anyway...

This whole post is FUCKING GOLD.

You are way modest sir. Bravo.

I can only hope to get anywhere close to your stats here.

[Skotch]

I ran into a girl that I slept with back during my 2nd approach study tonight and felt I needed to post. I went to a cafe to meet a client and girl was the waitress. She had dramatically changed her look, but was just as hot as ever. She dyed her hair black and cut it like the Charlize Theron Aeon Flux haircut, but the two inches above her left ear were shaved off. It was like a sassy bobcut meets Skrillex. I hadn't talked to her in a while, but she told me to text her to go out for drinks. At the station, I was daydreaming about how fun it would be to bring her and her sexy new look back into rotation. I hopped on the subway home and pulled up RoK only to find a piece about how ugly girls are with Skrillex 'dos. RoK has finally gone too far!

Since I've nothing else to do, I'll post the story of that approach real quick.

At the time I met her, girl was a gyaru. If you're unfamiliar with the term, gyaru were the super-tanned bimbos of Japan who evolved into highly madeup princesses with bleached hair, fake nails, huge heels, and outrageous fashion (one of my favorites is Rumika, but there are some pretty good examples here too). She was working a catered event I was attending, and I love waitresses. Her body was somewhat hidden by her caterer's jumpsuit, but I could tell she was pretty bomb. Long legs for her height, small pert boobs. Easily a 9 or so.

I made sure she saw me being popular, made some small talk with her a couple of times, and then really opened when I caught her slippin'. I basically accused her of stealing and riffed with her using that. It's one of my most favorite opener/routine/bits (if you're interested, the incident from which that opener was born is on page 2 of this thread). I teased her a bit, dropped some bait about a great little bar I know, and went back to schmoozing the party-goers. Toward the end of the evening, she pulled up to a table near the back of the room with a plate of food. I grabbed a whiskey and joined her. We chatted for a bit, and I closed with this exchange:

Me: ほなぁ、デートはいつするん？ (So, when are we going on a date?)
Her (flustered): 時間があるときに連絡してね。 (Text me when you have time.)
Me: あぁ...あんまり時間ないからな。 (Oh... I don't really have any time.)
Her (laughing): むかつく～！ (You suck!)
Me (handing her a paper napkin ring from the table): 番号書いて。こっそりな。 (Write your number. Be discreet.)

She wrote down the number and put it face down on the table. We talked some more, and I got up to leave. I pretended to forget the number so as not to seem overeager. She picked it up and gave it to me. Looking back this seems like a dangerous gambit. It gave me an idea of her interest, though.



Hopefully we can put her back on rotation. I'm at 3 girls right now and I'm a bit nervous about one of them.

(01-18-2014 03:08 AM)Fortitudinal Wrote:  

(09-11-2013 11:31 AM)Skotch Wrote:  

I was hoping for some comments after my last post before I posted again, but I've been planning on doing a big one to celebrate the finish of my 300th approach. Since I ended on Monday, I've been going over everything I've learned and reminiscing about each notch. I calculated a bunch of stats, including some silly ones. I also wanted to summarize what I've learned about game in Japan. I think I've been pretty successful. Not gaudy numbers by any means, but far from chumpish. I'd love some feedback. Some of the info I've covered in other posts in this thread and in the "Bang Osaka" thread in the Travel section, but this little summary is as just as much for me as for others. Anyway...

This whole post is FUCKING GOLD.

You are way modest sir. Bravo.

I can only hope to get anywhere close to your stats here.

Thanks, man. My current goal is to pull higher quality. I think it's hard for foreigners to get the highest quality over here. With a 6 or a 7, you get some bonus points for being exotic, but truly cute girls don't fall for that shit. I would actually argue that it's harder for foreigners to get quality in Japan, but it's easier to get quantity. I guess that's a post for another time. Goodnight.