Okay this isn't some ground breaking epiphany or anything, and may apply less to guys in big cities or states where smoking inside bars and clubs is still legal, but I have found recently that I have better approaches when I talk to girls hanging out in front of a bar as opposed to inside it.
So I live in a town that has a small bar row, where the 4 bars in town are located next to each other. Since smoking in bars has been banned in CA anyone who wants to smoke has to go outside. Also, a lot of times girls will step outside of the bar or hang out in front to get fresh air, wait for a friend, or bounce to go to the next bar.
I have found that I have much more successful approaches when a girl is just chilling out in front of the bar, usually they are by themselves or just hanging out with one other friend. Since there is no loud music, and it's not the typically chaotic scene inside the bar where there are many distractions, I find it much easer to open girls with conversation, and hook them into conversation.
I've never been blown out or even mildly rejected when I open a girl hanging out outside the bar, whereas for whatever reason I've had chicks ignore me or act like bitches when I've approached at times inside the bar.
As long as you step to them in a confident manner and speak clearly and slowly, the approach always seems to go well and can get good conversation going. I make sure to give them a little distance at first, angle my body position off a little bit, so they don't see boxed in, lean back when I speak, maintain good posture and masculine body language. Once the conversation hooks, I drop "bait" and wait for them to show some interest by asking me my name or questions. Once I sense interest with them, I move in close, become more flirtatious, and start using kino by touching them on the arm, shoulder, back, or place my hand on their lower back.
This is all pretty textbook game, and like I said nothing new to most players. It's very simple, but the fact that I get much better responses from girls when I talk to them outside the bar as opposed to inside, almost makes me want to chill out in front of the bar more and do more approaches there.
I hate smoking cigarettes, but cigarette game is the easiest way to open and get hooked into conversation. Ask a girl if you can bum a cigarette and then effortless move into conversation. My other go to opener is also basic, I think I got it mostly from Krauser, but I use the old, "Hey what's up, you caught my eye, I wanted to come over and introduce myself", or just a simple "hey how's it going, I like your outfit... blah, blah, blah..."
When I approach girls outside the bar, I get into conversation easily, and have been closing numbers with an extremely high percentage rate. The only issue is really bouncing them from talking outside the bar to going inside the bar to get a drink and continue the interaction. Often times they are waiting for a friend who's about to show up or leave the bar, or they are with a big group of girls and just stepped out for a cigarette and want to get back to their group. Obviously if your game is good enough or if they are attracted to you enough, they will ditch their friends or invite you to join along. For whatever reason, I tend to just get the number and exit on a high note when the convo winds down and they want to get back to their group.
So I live in a town that has a small bar row, where the 4 bars in town are located next to each other. Since smoking in bars has been banned in CA anyone who wants to smoke has to go outside. Also, a lot of times girls will step outside of the bar or hang out in front to get fresh air, wait for a friend, or bounce to go to the next bar.
I have found that I have much more successful approaches when a girl is just chilling out in front of the bar, usually they are by themselves or just hanging out with one other friend. Since there is no loud music, and it's not the typically chaotic scene inside the bar where there are many distractions, I find it much easer to open girls with conversation, and hook them into conversation.
I've never been blown out or even mildly rejected when I open a girl hanging out outside the bar, whereas for whatever reason I've had chicks ignore me or act like bitches when I've approached at times inside the bar.
As long as you step to them in a confident manner and speak clearly and slowly, the approach always seems to go well and can get good conversation going. I make sure to give them a little distance at first, angle my body position off a little bit, so they don't see boxed in, lean back when I speak, maintain good posture and masculine body language. Once the conversation hooks, I drop "bait" and wait for them to show some interest by asking me my name or questions. Once I sense interest with them, I move in close, become more flirtatious, and start using kino by touching them on the arm, shoulder, back, or place my hand on their lower back.
This is all pretty textbook game, and like I said nothing new to most players. It's very simple, but the fact that I get much better responses from girls when I talk to them outside the bar as opposed to inside, almost makes me want to chill out in front of the bar more and do more approaches there.
I hate smoking cigarettes, but cigarette game is the easiest way to open and get hooked into conversation. Ask a girl if you can bum a cigarette and then effortless move into conversation. My other go to opener is also basic, I think I got it mostly from Krauser, but I use the old, "Hey what's up, you caught my eye, I wanted to come over and introduce myself", or just a simple "hey how's it going, I like your outfit... blah, blah, blah..."
When I approach girls outside the bar, I get into conversation easily, and have been closing numbers with an extremely high percentage rate. The only issue is really bouncing them from talking outside the bar to going inside the bar to get a drink and continue the interaction. Often times they are waiting for a friend who's about to show up or leave the bar, or they are with a big group of girls and just stepped out for a cigarette and want to get back to their group. Obviously if your game is good enough or if they are attracted to you enough, they will ditch their friends or invite you to join along. For whatever reason, I tend to just get the number and exit on a high note when the convo winds down and they want to get back to their group.