Quote: (10-12-2012 04:12 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
Quote: (10-12-2012 03:35 PM)Vorkuta Wrote:
Quote: (10-11-2012 05:39 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
I definitely feel that women are more hypergamous than ever and going to continue in the future, they feel every right to date as many guys as they want, or "upgrade" to someone new if they are dating a guy seriously. They all want to date the guy who is 6 ft. 4 in, athletic, handsome, successful, etc., some how they all feel entitled to this, due to having a pussy.
There seems to be some consternation on here about the fact that women want to get the best guys they can. I don't understand why. We all, as men,want the hottest women out there and learn game in order to overcome certain inadequacies such as lack of fame or wealth or looks etc. If a man who is a 6 bangs a 9 we say "awesome work!" but when a woman has the same desire to bang a man who is an athlete or handsome or more successful to her some people act outraged. What do you expect,women to get wet at the idea of banging ugly dudes or unsuccessful failures?!
I feel sorry for the Americans on here because judging by a lot of the embittered posts on here your women must be fucking awful. I mean, really fucking awful.
Sure you have a point, women have every right to hook up with anyone they want and understandably can be picky, I wasn't trying to come off as some whiny loser who complains about women. My point is that we're at a point in a lot of places in the U.S. right now where there aren't an abundance of hot women, which makes less attractive women more desirable than they should be (6-7), and makes competition that much more stiff. It becomes a situation where a lot of guys I feel are dating down, or at least having to put a shit ton of effort into getting girls that aren't even that great (6-7s).
Yes, like OGNorcal points out, it is not the hypergamy per se which is causing the consternation. It is, among other things, their total lack of awareness an understanding of who creates society's wealth and why it is that 5s and 6s can afford to act like 9s nowadays (white knights, feminism, obesity - which takes out more women than men from the market etc).
During 99% of human history a man's looks was not the most important factor in getting girls, physical strenght and ability to protect and provide was.
Whoever on here wrote that today's men are victims of their own success was so right (forgot who it was).
I have a good example of the carousel-riding girl who refuses to settle down. She is a model, 31 years old and looks are beginning to fade and she knows it subconciously but wont admit it. I'm sure she was at least an 8 in her prime and still is in many countries. I took her number over a year ago but then went abroad so we have only really been on one date, but even that date took months of flakiness and shit test to set up. For the last several weeks we have been texting each weekend about having a second date.
I send her a text (she never answers if I call) one night to set up a date the next day, but she always flakes out and gives a total hilariously bullshit reason. I mean, this girl is 31 years old and it is impossible for her to make a commitment even 12 hours ahead of time, or sometimes even 4 hours.
And I bet she thinks she is the only girl I'm working on. She is not even in my top 10 and I couldn't care less if I banged her, in fact I never was that much into her and it's always her that texts me first, it's just that the quantity of decent girls is not so good where I live. She gets a kick of the attention.
She is going to milk every minute of her looks on the carousel and actually expects a guy to commit to her after her best years are LONG gone. The thing is, I'm sure she WILL find a guy but it won't be an alpha and I'm not sure she will be happy about it.