Maybe kind of relevant to this thread here but I feel like this is on a different progression already...
Was seeing a girl during a 4 week stay in her city. We hit it off really well, SNL that developed into a kind of mini relationship. She's 20, I'd say an 8.5. She really liked me, told parents about me after first night (who apparently told her to be careful with me lol) and so on.
3 weeks in, she flakes on me last minute for "being sick" and I don't make a big deal out of it even though we had planned for a week to spend friday until sat afternoon together doing stuff in the city and hanging out. That saturday night she's supposed to be super sick, I run into her at a club. She's uber apologetic, tells me how her friends dragged her out of the house, blah blah blah. I make no big deal out of it and bang her again that night, and again, we have a great time.
I leave the city, constantly travelling to other cities. We text each other at least once a day with high investment from her side.
2 weeks later I'm in her city again for 2 nights. She, first when she hears about this is super excited to see me again.. tells me how much she would love to sleep over and then ends up flaking on me with "I'm busy preparing for a 3 month stay in Berlin" (that is still 1 month away lol. ya right). I make no big deal out of it, bang other girl I have in that city instead.
Once I leave her city, she texts me how she would've loved to see me and how she misses me and I call her out on that by saying "well, I didn't hear this when I was still in your town". She then goes along with a huge text about how she was "physicall and mentally" busy (lol) and how I should come visit her while she'll be in Berlin while she's there for 3 months. I decline that (anyway very vague) offer and I make no big deal out of it. I stop texting her on daily basis, she drunk texted me the other day asking why I don't text her anymore.
What would you guys do. She's definitely hot and I actually really enjoy the time I spend with her when she actually doesnt flake. We've banged a couple times and I can tell she liked the sex we had together too.. so yeah, her investment is there too so I guess I can call her out (especially since keeping her as an option for whenever I'm back in her town is awesome).. but I wanna do it smoothly.
Was seeing a girl during a 4 week stay in her city. We hit it off really well, SNL that developed into a kind of mini relationship. She's 20, I'd say an 8.5. She really liked me, told parents about me after first night (who apparently told her to be careful with me lol) and so on.
3 weeks in, she flakes on me last minute for "being sick" and I don't make a big deal out of it even though we had planned for a week to spend friday until sat afternoon together doing stuff in the city and hanging out. That saturday night she's supposed to be super sick, I run into her at a club. She's uber apologetic, tells me how her friends dragged her out of the house, blah blah blah. I make no big deal out of it and bang her again that night, and again, we have a great time.
I leave the city, constantly travelling to other cities. We text each other at least once a day with high investment from her side.
2 weeks later I'm in her city again for 2 nights. She, first when she hears about this is super excited to see me again.. tells me how much she would love to sleep over and then ends up flaking on me with "I'm busy preparing for a 3 month stay in Berlin" (that is still 1 month away lol. ya right). I make no big deal out of it, bang other girl I have in that city instead.
Once I leave her city, she texts me how she would've loved to see me and how she misses me and I call her out on that by saying "well, I didn't hear this when I was still in your town". She then goes along with a huge text about how she was "physicall and mentally" busy (lol) and how I should come visit her while she'll be in Berlin while she's there for 3 months. I decline that (anyway very vague) offer and I make no big deal out of it. I stop texting her on daily basis, she drunk texted me the other day asking why I don't text her anymore.
What would you guys do. She's definitely hot and I actually really enjoy the time I spend with her when she actually doesnt flake. We've banged a couple times and I can tell she liked the sex we had together too.. so yeah, her investment is there too so I guess I can call her out (especially since keeping her as an option for whenever I'm back in her town is awesome).. but I wanna do it smoothly.