I am in my 30's too and currently in Cebu City since two months.
I will only quote the parts where my experiences and opinions differ from yours.
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Now, it took me 4 days to figure it out but here's a golden nugget for you boys : they prefer to come to meet you in your room! Not in the mall for a coffee date! They don't want to be seen with a foreigner and judged. One girl said to this to me too to confirm this.
I usually give the choice to girls between meeting in malls or at my place.
I would say 2/3 of girls prefer to meet in malls.
But I dont have a swimming pool at my place, which I consider a logistic mistake on my part.
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In my experience All the girls you will meet in Phil with fall into the following category, you just have to recognize it and proceed accordingly.
1.Pay my fare girl/ load me girl
This type of girl you usually encounter on a dating website. Her profile can state any location ( it doesn’t matter at the end). When you message her she will express interest in meeting you fast. She will be receptive to anything you suggest. The catch is : she will come to meet you if you pay her taxi fare! They usually ask for 200-250 Ph ( 6 USD). I’ve encountered this con in Cuba many times. This is usually bad news – she will show up and collect the money then will excuse herself ( to buy medicine for her headache) to never be seen again.
The 3 times I paid taxi fares for girls I met online to come to my place, I got laid.
I dont pay for taxi fares to meet in malls.
My advice is not to pay the taxi fare if the girl lives far, like 45 min-1 hour from cebu city center (Lapu Lapu city, Talisay city, ...). You risk to get scammed.
Anyway, when you pay the taxi fare, I think some girls will simply come with a jeepney and keep most of your money.
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4.Party girl
You can meet them in dance clubs/bars. They like to dance and drink. They like sex. If they think you are cute and fun they will take you home! They are not typically online, you have to go out to meet them! Availability of them is pretty good.
Where did you meet these girls who took you home? Clubs like J Ave, Alcohology?
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Cebu.
What a wonderful city. Modern infrastructure. Good economy. Taxi drivers don’t argue with you ever and use the meter. Beaches nearby. Cheap hotels. Great girl availability!
Many call centers are in Cebu and that provides for local economy. Many quality girls with decent salaries and no man.
Beaches are not nearby if you stay in Cebu city center. it is 1 hour by car.
Half of the girls I meet are unemployed.
Call centers salaries are really low, same for the sale ladies working in Ayala or SM. They dont get decent salaries.
If you walk around the city, you will see small slums (example:in Escario Street, 1km from Ayala mall), kids begging near Robinson Mall and sleeping in the streets.
Cebu City is a shit hole for me if you exlude the malls.