Quote: (03-19-2013 06:09 PM)King Solomon Wrote:
I'm going to try this, but I want to throw a few things out there-
wouldn't it make sense to ask her to come home with you, allowing the obvious implication, but not clarifying it? This way, you could use humor to either deflect hostility or add humor: "yeah, I need a new housekeeper" you could also add in something about a french maid outfit
or you could deflect after the AO and say "well, then, let's get coffee" because in light of what you just asked, coffee isn't asking much, and if she hasn't blown you out after an AO this would offer a segue into an instadate. If she resists:
"Come on, I'll be the sickest guy you ever had coffee with and you can post that shit on facebook. It will be funnier if I weasel you into a cup of coffee and we get a picture together. Makes for a great story"
oh, how those girls love to have a story to tell.
The coffee and facebook story countermeasures are brilliant.