Quote: (07-04-2012 04:35 PM)Roosh Wrote:
Joehoya: The question is... what are some things you can do to get access if you do have the money? How does your friend get the invite? What kind of circles does he try to roll in?
Some of my answers are based on what I KNOW he does and some are based on what I suspect he does. I haven't asked him to break down everything he does because 1) I am not at his level financially, so much of it would be of little value and 2) because of point 1, digging too deep would feel like our relationship would be shifting from me being his friend to me being his fanboy.
First what I know he does:
The biggest factor I see is that this guy has a wide international circle of friends who also have a similar level of financial success, either earned or inherited. He has met a bunch of them through school (undergrad and grad school) when he was younger, and through various business dealings. He has also told me that if he sees the same guy at three different types of events (e.g. a business deal, a party with other friends, and a social club) he takes it as "a sign from God" that he should get to know this guy.
A lot of the party invites (like the one in Iceland) are based on these friendships with other people of this caliber. When these guys have parties, they aren't sausage fests like the average American club. The quality of women is high and ratios are good because all of these girls are fighting for the same limited number of high value dudes. He told me about one party where the host (not him) told a fairly attractive girl that she could only come if she brought 2 attractive friends, and she did. The women deal with it because they know that while the quantity of guys at these events isn't as good as a club, the quality is through the roof.
Second, he leverages his relationship with one person to establish new relationships with others. This is the case with both men and women. So in the case of men, a friend of his in Miami might introduce him to a guy from Brazil and another guy from Mexico. That guy from Brazil might introduce him to 3 other guys from Brazil, and/or a guy from Argentina, and so on. He does the same with women, I know for a fact that he has boned the hot friends of most of the women he has dated. These girls show off their rich boyfriend to all of their friends and the moment they breakup the friends are trying to contact him.
So this guy is a master at creating new social circles.
Now for something that I have observed:
I don't know about other cities, but it seems like there is this circuit for beautiful women in NYC who want to meet well off men. Another buddy of mine, who works in finance mentioned the same thing. I am pretty sure that he is somehow hooked into this circuit (if it exists).
I do know that there are several beautiful women in NYC that have dated (i.e. fucked) a bunch of wealthy guys. I actually met one while I was hanging with my friend. The moment she ascertained that I wasn't a baller at the level my friend was I might as well have been the janitor. My buddy blew her off (said she was a lousy lay) because we were having lunch together.
When she left, he said "The bitch has probably had a
quarter of a billion dollars worth of cock inside her AT LEAST, and she is still living the same shitty life she had 3 years ago." Apparently, she has fucked a bunch of hedge fund guys and other big money finance guys, but none of them have been willing to marry her. He just couldn't stop laughing at the idea that she was just going to be a millionaire cum depository until her looks finally gave out.
Now for something I SUSPECT he does, but have not confirmed:
One of the powerful things about having money is that you have something that almost everyone else needs. I know that he has mentioned considering investing in bars/restaurants/nightclubs before. I personally think that he is bullshitting about actually doing it. Instead, I think he uses it as a carrot to get favors/special treatment from club owners and other guys who have access to the hottest women.
I am sure that there is a bunch of other shit he does that I don't know about, but I am going to save digging further until I am closer to his level (or at least at the mid 7 figure mark).