[Timoteo]

(05-23-2012 06:16 PM)TTG Wrote:  

http://www.aupair.com/en/au-pair-job/las...239390.php

You know that fucker ain't looking for a nanny

So has anyone tried something like this? I've ran into a lot of APs on CS and it seems like a lot of them are DTF. No kids though, maybe they can babysit my dog?

If this guy is serious about not wanting someone to fuck, he'd better hire one that's busted or fat!

[seeker04542]

(05-24-2012 03:27 PM)Jackhammer Wrote:  

Bookstores are a gold mine for meeting these chicks.

They're in a foreign country and are usually bored/lonely. There's no safer place for them to go than a bookstore. I used to work at a Barnes & Noble and they'd come in constantly and read magazines and were usually receptive to any sort of contact.

I have a friend who got his Ph.D. at Princeton, he said the Princeton Public Library was au pair central.

[Sourcecode]

Lol the dilemma.
I decided to search for an au pair group in the city im moving to/
theres only 12 chicks.

Can't join a group that small without making my intentions obvious

[Lothario]

(05-25-2012 06:52 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(05-23-2012 06:16 PM)TTG Wrote:  

http://www.aupair.com/en/au-pair-job/las...239390.php

You know that fucker ain't looking for a nanny

So has anyone tried something like this? I've ran into a lot of APs on CS and it seems like a lot of them are DTF. No kids though, maybe they can babysit my dog?

If this guy is serious about not wanting someone to fuck, he'd better hire one that's busted or fat!

Pagign E-mech...... , you have a kid, why don't you get an Au Pair to take care of the kid and your friends

[chakri]

(05-25-2012 04:32 AM)elabayarde Wrote:  

(05-24-2012 07:32 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

just facebook au pairs and your city.

or if you are out of the country..find a expat forum.

the main expat forum for germany is full of people looking to meet up..

Sorry guys I just got back... yeah basically what source codes says. i even request to join groups that Au-pair are in. THen you get updates about, what the are doing.... clubs, concerts ect...
because they post looking for other au pairs to hang with. THe only girls worth a damn in DC are Au pairs. Also, if you like brazilian girls... go on orkut.com
THen join the au pair groups. simple as 1,2,3.

It doesn't seem to be too hard to find these Au pair groups....Now my question is, if I don't already have a female au pair friend and I'm going out there solo, what story do I tell them as to who I am/what I'm doin there/etc ??

[Sebastian]

you know a guy in other country and he has a sister who wants to come to U.S really bad. He asked you to get the real info from real people instead of collecting on internet and trusting agency's word. Voila?

I think I will have no problem doing this but I don't even know there is such group in my area.

(08-14-2012 02:58 AM)chakri Wrote:  

(05-25-2012 04:32 AM)elabayarde Wrote:  

(05-24-2012 07:32 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

just facebook au pairs and your city.

or if you are out of the country..find a expat forum.

the main expat forum for germany is full of people looking to meet up..

Sorry guys I just got back... yeah basically what source codes says. i even request to join groups that Au-pair are in. THen you get updates about, what the are doing.... clubs, concerts ect...
because they post looking for other au pairs to hang with. THe only girls worth a damn in DC are Au pairs. Also, if you like brazilian girls... go on orkut.com
THen join the au pair groups. simple as 1,2,3.

It doesn't seem to be too hard to find these Au pair groups....Now my question is, if I don't already have a female au pair friend and I'm going out there solo, what story do I tell them as to who I am/what I'm doin there/etc ??

[RaulValdez739]

I need to get at the Au-pairs in NYC. Any good resource?

[chakri]

Sebastian you are a genius

(08-14-2012 05:59 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  

you know a guy in other country and he has a sister who wants to come to U.S really bad. He asked you to get the real info from real people instead of collecting on internet and trusting agency's word. Voila?

I think I will have no problem doing this but I don't even know there is such group in my area.

(08-14-2012 02:58 AM)chakri Wrote:  

(05-25-2012 04:32 AM)elabayarde Wrote:  

(05-24-2012 07:32 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

just facebook au pairs and your city.

or if you are out of the country..find a expat forum.

the main expat forum for germany is full of people looking to meet up..

Sorry guys I just got back... yeah basically what source codes says. i even request to join groups that Au-pair are in. THen you get updates about, what the are doing.... clubs, concerts ect...
because they post looking for other au pairs to hang with. THe only girls worth a damn in DC are Au pairs. Also, if you like brazilian girls... go on orkut.com
THen join the au pair groups. simple as 1,2,3.

It doesn't seem to be too hard to find these Au pair groups....Now my question is, if I don't already have a female au pair friend and I'm going out there solo, what story do I tell them as to who I am/what I'm doin there/etc ??

[Sourcecode]

This thread is old as dirt but I'm gonna brush some dirt off.
A lot of people are asking..How do you find Au Pairs.
Im Gonna make this so easy you'll feel dumb for not thinking about it.

Facebook
Facebook has made it easy as fuck to use their search function
The Graph Search pretty much lays out groups and images.
You can separate by city and group.

I literally typed NYC Au Pair Groups.
Facebook automatically searches for groups with that the NYC Au Pair
NYC Au Pair Facebook Groups


The biggest group is a group for nightlife.
Like we have said time an time again. Au Pairs just wanna get away from the kids...Party,get drunk and fuck too..only they have less time to do it.

Im not gonna link anyones facebooks.. but I looked through the new and active members of these groups
Lots of Spanish,Brazilian,Argentinian. A few european and Russian
There will be more South American broads for the simple fact that its closes.
European city will have more girls from places like, the Baltics and Balkans

You can easily edit the search box and just type whatever city you are from or are closest to.
All over Europe, theirs Au pair groups full of Swedish,Norwegian,Polish,Croatian ect girls.

Honestly..this is the best way to find them.

Join
Join the groups. Theres no shame. You gotta start somewhere.
IF you want..make up an excuse. Say you were interested in being Au pair. or know someone who is.. Anything.
at some point..it wont even matter..Some girls will bite..some girls wont.

Dont join and go straight to trying to send friend request to girls.
Personally..I don't even post...I just lurk..Let them talk.
its mostly girl stuff that you dont want to be part of anyway.

Everynow and then, someone might talk about selling something like furniture.
You can buy..or sell.
Hell..I remember once, a girl posted about needing something fixed.
Guys can chime in an offer services as handymen.
This isnt "beta" You are meeting a girl that cooks,cleans,hasnt been with someone her age in a while....this is a set up for a porn script

Often they will make post towards the weekends saying people should get together for a drink.
You can take a bold route and say that you want to join.
Or
Just stalk and show up in the area.
You have insider information..and may" accidentally" pop up in a bar where the Au pairs are located.

We're all players here...Game like normal..make conversation.


Personally..my strategy was to intentionally just be friendly..not to sexual.
You don't wanna the bomb disposal guy...if he takes off running..everyone will follow.
If a few of the girls are friends. They will eventually introduce you to more and more girls and youll build social proof

For a good to months straight. 3 girls would text me specifically..to go out. I never banged any of them..But my social proof was through the roof having 3 girls come with me to every club I went to.
Other Women would stare me down and sometimes approach me..which is extremely rare in Germany.

Guys would be jealous and try to come into my group.
Pussy should be shared..I wasn't cock blocking any dude..given he wasnt stone cold drunk.


Bang Logistics

I think Bang logistics should be a thing here.
Some of these chicks are pretty shy about taking a person home.
They dont have their own places...they dont wanna lose their jobs and places of residence. And the kids are gonna be their also.

You need to have decent logistics.
They will usually be pretty willing to come to your places..given you take proper measures
*tell them you have drinks. ect

Often..You luck out..because they girl wont stay the night.
She still has full time job..she cant be at some dudes house while the kids are at home starving




Also
MEETUP.com
Example http://www.meetup.com/SanFranciscoThingsToDo/
Just search a city and put Au pairs
Theres groups like this all over.. They will of course have more dudes in them. But its still and option



*Au Pair girls are perfect girlfriends.
They Cook, Clean, Are usually foreign, so you get a taste of different culture and values.
Usually dress well.. They take pride in their appearance because its their job.

**Some of these girls will have hit jackpot families.
Super Rich
Plus points is you can meet the girls host family and build your connections up


Did I miss anything?

[Onto]

I did something like this 10 years ago when I had a convertable 2 bdrm in NYC. Posted an ad on CraigsList in the Apartments Share section saying that I had a free room for a woman that will cook, clean, do laundry and basic file keeping. I don't want a wife, but I need help with these things because it's not in my nature to do them well...etc.

Got A LOT of responses, had them come over, interviewed them, and ended up in an LTR with a girl fresh of the boat from Medellin. That was the first time I tasted what it was like to be in an LTR with a Non-American and I have never looked back.

My apt was in a nice area on the UES so living in a decent neighborhood was helpful in making it to work.

[horn]

You can meet plenty of APs on the UES. Got a lot of practice gaming German, French, Brazilian girls that way in the past.

[HankRearden]

I am 1000% hitting this up when I move to London.

[Deluge]

I just found 3 different au pair groups in my city with 7,000 members between them

[Sourcecode]

Test it out an see

[amity]

About ten years ago, in Dublin, I met a bunch of au pairs through 'Conversation Exchange' that took place in a library in the city centre.
They did tend to stick together, but because you had the commonality of trying to learn a foreign language, you were part of the group, so to speak.
I was too much of a beta bitch to have any clue how to game these girls, so i ended up in the friend zone with everyone of them!
Would be a different story today, but logistically a bit more difficult, as I don't live central anymore.
Still, look out for similar such free language exchange sessions in your city, there's a reasonable chance you'll meet some au pair girls at them.

[TrueSlyr]

Is there a way to make it private on Facebook when you join a certain FB group?

[Armada]

Bump. I have a fake Facebook girl account that I use for.... stuff(trolling). Was joining a whole bunch of groups and joined the Au Pair group for my city. A guy was talking about a whole bunch of us(girls presumably) going to a relatively public cafe in a neighborhood I don't visit often but isn't that far. I don't have any particular thing for Au Pair girls or anything. It's just the local girls here are totally gross and a typical European girl would be about two points hotter, so it's well worth the extra effort.

Plan is to arrive at a similar time, maybe slightly before. Do a real indirect opener and engage the group. Probably try and run some non-sexual game on the target girl and if possible try to isolate. I don't know how good they would necessarily be at English or if I can vibe with them as they're foreigners. I'll pretend to not know who they are and just be curious and fun and jovial.

I'll probably update you on how it goes, but does anyone have any good advice?

[Svoboda]

Armada, If possible go with a decent wing. Since it seems like they'll be big group. With a wing (or even have some bro contact with another dude that's also in the bar targeting them) I've done fine, one on one I've done fine. But if I'm the only guy with a group of au pairs the results aren't as good.
Don't worry about their English.

[Armada]

Thanks for that. Unfortunately all the guys I know have varying levels of anti-game(I don't know many guys), and would most likely fuck me over. I wish I had a decent game aware friend.

Edit: I suppose I'll try and build rapport with some of the dudes there

[kirdiesel]

(09-06-2016 02:57 AM)Armada Wrote:  

Bump. I have a fake Facebook girl account that I use for.... stuff(trolling). Was joining a whole bunch of groups and joined the Au Pair group for my city. A guy was talking about a whole bunch of us(girls presumably) going to a relatively public cafe in a neighborhood I don't visit often but isn't that far. I don't have any particular thing for Au Pair girls or anything. It's just the local girls here are totally gross and a typical European girl would be about two points hotter, so it's well worth the extra effort.

Plan is to arrive at a similar time, maybe slightly before. Do a real indirect opener and engage the group. Probably try and run some non-sexual game on the target girl and if possible try to isolate. I don't know how good they would necessarily be at English or if I can vibe with them as they're foreigners. I'll pretend to not know who they are and just be curious and fun and jovial.

I'll probably update you on how it goes, but does anyone have any good advice?

Yeah go with a wing if you can.... They also aren't the hardest girls in the world either.. As long as you are entertaining and cool they will like you.

Make it seem like you are an expert on everything in the area and you have access and knowledge that can enhance their new life in America. Alot of them miss having that from home.

[Svoboda]

(09-06-2016 03:19 PM)Armada Wrote:  

Thanks for that. Unfortunately all the guys I know have varying levels of anti-game(I don't know many guys), and would most likely fuck me over. I wish I had a decent game aware friend.

Edit: I suppose I'll try and build rapport with some of the dudes there

That sounds bad. Do you have an idea where the au pairs in your area are from?
If they're Latin you don't need a wing that's a player, as long as he's not hurting your game.
Also try to figure out the backgrounds of the girls, many see it as a way to leave their country forever. But a good percentage of the girls you'll meet came to your country to party, travel and fuck around.

[Armada]

Mostly from France/Germany/EE type countries.

Honestly, I went last night to the cafe but chickened out. I arrived slightly early but decided to walk the street and visit a bookstore instead. Then about 10 minutes later, the areas are more closed off than I imagined, it was a restaurant layout and they were in a balcony type room with two tables. One was full and the other had a girl on it. An acquaintance was having dinner with some of his friends in the rooms 2 over(still have a line of sight) and invited me over to his table to talk and stuff. By the time I talked a bit, I saw that both tables had filled up and there wouldn't have been an easy indirect way to open.

Then my group left, to do something else. I moved over to the room 1 over and was looking at them. Girls I saw were decent, hotter than local girls, but not sure if as hot as I thought. There were a couple of middle aged men there, so it seemed really hard to break in. I ended up chickening out. I did see a few really hot 8/9s walk into/around the venue and I think they were in the group, but I didn't have line of sight. The cafe/restaurant was big and closed off enough that I didn't have a line of sight of the entire place without walking around squeezing through the tables, so I'm only 90% confident the group I saw was the au pairs.

They do meet every week though. Perhaps I could arrive early and secure my spot next time... The things I do to even talk to a not-gross girl.

[Svoboda]

Next time "bump" in to one/some of those chicks when they are walking around in the place. Just a short convo, and then "I gotta, go back to my friends". Later when she's with her group, go to her and continue gaming her or her friends.

Especially if most of the men there are in couples or low value they'll be glad you're talking with them.

[iamkaisersoze]

A few months ago, I matched with some Brazilian au pair on Tinder and we end up meeting. Sure enough, her best friend here (in USA) is another Brazilian au pair whom she met through their au pair/exchange program weekly "events". Banged her on second date in her car with no alcohol involved.

After reading this thread, I went on Facebook and simply messaged several girls from an au pair group in my city. Got some responses from Colombians and Brazilians.

Colombian - Trojan Horse?
I finally went out with a Colombian 23yo (a 7 maybe but skinny for my taste) recently for some drinks, but I kept things neutral (didn't call it a "date") because I wanted to assess her Colombian crew and see if she has any friends who are hotter or more my type for me to infiltrate later -- Trojan Horse type shit.

We get drinks, the girl is cool as shit, and she confirms that she has other Colombian chica friends whom (you guessed it) she met through their au pair program. So I didn't go for the make out on the first date, I kept it "sweet/nice guy" (I never get friend-zoned, so I can afford to do this and escalate later if need be). I was out with the boys last night for Halloween, and met up with her for a minute to assess her friends. Sure enough, her Colombian friend is even hotter than her. Their other friend is taken but I didn't see her.

Challenges
- Getting connected to au pair GROUP
- Meeting hotter chica THROUGH first chica without pissing off first chica
- Getting connected to local Colombian group

It might be better to stay friends with this first chica for long term Colombian/Latin networking in my city to meet hot girls, keep practicing my Spanish, go dancing, etc. It does feel weird though to pass up on young, Colombian ass so I can slow cook other stuff

[Sewage2016]

I met a German au pair when I started hosting on couch surfing. I hadn't even thought the two worlds of gamecraft (au pair and CS) would collide but they do.

She was a 21yo looking to get her friend a place to stay while visiting. I went out with both and highly recommend au pairs from that experience. Significant game isnt needed- just let them know they can release their pent up desires with you and you will neither judge nor gossip.

They seem very comfortable with dating guys 20 years older. And you guys know we are fine with girls who are 20-25.