Hey guys.
This is my first big, Game-related post on RVF so go easy on me.
I would like to open with a screenshot of a status update from a fairly attractive and popular Facebook friend:
Read it? Typical girly status right?
Of course it was actually a meaningful status then it would have probably read something like 'people do what they want and shit happens'.
As men we all know that things happen often without any reason and the universe is a mad and chaotic place. Women like to deceive themselves into trying to find explanations and purpose behind events when often neither are present.
This is even highlighted in a video about women in the workplace that a fellow RVFer (forgot who posted it) linked to a few days ago:
Skip ahead to 3:00.
Now put aside the fact that this video is from 1944 because, let's face it, are women that much different today? As Stitch highlights in his post in the 'Why I Need Feminism' thread, women need something or someone to blame for the things that happen to them - in that case it was blame gender-based repression for their own insecurities. In the video it's said that women need everything explained to them in full for something that would go unquestioned by men (safely regulations). In the case of my Facebook friend she claims that 'good things fall apart so better things can fall together' in the most general and vague way imaginable.
So women need purpose and an explanation for everything - whether it be common sense safety proceedures or the powers of the cosmos.
How do we use that knowledge to our advantage in Game?
Well I personally think that there is something very simple that everyone can do to build and maintain attraction:
Shut the fuck up and do not give women the satisfaction.
If, like me, you deal with women on a frequent basis who like to feel in control at all times during an interaction, the best thing that you can do is to sweep that out from under them.
Law 4 of the 48 Laws Of Power is Always Say Less Than Necessary which is no where more important than during Game. While there's lots of reasons to follow this law, I'm just highlighting two:
1) It enables you to keep power during the interaction.
I'm not advocating just not saying anything at all. What I will say is that you need to be ambiguous around forty to fifty percent of the time and only after she's started to ask questions. Moreover, if you say something like 'hey want to know something cool? Really? OK I'll tell you later'.
2) It enables her to fill in the blanks in her mind.
If you've built up enough attraction already and she is getting into you, then by not answering her questions directly will make her use her naturally over-active imagination to fill in the rest. Usually, if you've made a decent impression, then she should naturally craft her perception of you to meet that of her ideal man.
I know this may sound like basic Game to many of you here, but I feel it's important to remember this stuff - especially when approaching. I think a lot of us ramble when approaching, but if we continue to do that even after rapport has been established and she's started getting interested, then attraction begins to decline rapidly. Who wants to give all of their cards away at once? No one should; if you start overloading a lizard with information she'll think that you're trying to self-validate too much and be scared away.
Thoughts folks?
This is my first big, Game-related post on RVF so go easy on me.
I would like to open with a screenshot of a status update from a fairly attractive and popular Facebook friend:
Read it? Typical girly status right?
Of course it was actually a meaningful status then it would have probably read something like 'people do what they want and shit happens'.
As men we all know that things happen often without any reason and the universe is a mad and chaotic place. Women like to deceive themselves into trying to find explanations and purpose behind events when often neither are present.
This is even highlighted in a video about women in the workplace that a fellow RVFer (forgot who posted it) linked to a few days ago:
Skip ahead to 3:00.
Now put aside the fact that this video is from 1944 because, let's face it, are women that much different today? As Stitch highlights in his post in the 'Why I Need Feminism' thread, women need something or someone to blame for the things that happen to them - in that case it was blame gender-based repression for their own insecurities. In the video it's said that women need everything explained to them in full for something that would go unquestioned by men (safely regulations). In the case of my Facebook friend she claims that 'good things fall apart so better things can fall together' in the most general and vague way imaginable.
So women need purpose and an explanation for everything - whether it be common sense safety proceedures or the powers of the cosmos.
How do we use that knowledge to our advantage in Game?
Well I personally think that there is something very simple that everyone can do to build and maintain attraction:
Shut the fuck up and do not give women the satisfaction.
If, like me, you deal with women on a frequent basis who like to feel in control at all times during an interaction, the best thing that you can do is to sweep that out from under them.
Law 4 of the 48 Laws Of Power is Always Say Less Than Necessary which is no where more important than during Game. While there's lots of reasons to follow this law, I'm just highlighting two:
1) It enables you to keep power during the interaction.
I'm not advocating just not saying anything at all. What I will say is that you need to be ambiguous around forty to fifty percent of the time and only after she's started to ask questions. Moreover, if you say something like 'hey want to know something cool? Really? OK I'll tell you later'.
2) It enables her to fill in the blanks in her mind.
If you've built up enough attraction already and she is getting into you, then by not answering her questions directly will make her use her naturally over-active imagination to fill in the rest. Usually, if you've made a decent impression, then she should naturally craft her perception of you to meet that of her ideal man.
I know this may sound like basic Game to many of you here, but I feel it's important to remember this stuff - especially when approaching. I think a lot of us ramble when approaching, but if we continue to do that even after rapport has been established and she's started getting interested, then attraction begins to decline rapidly. Who wants to give all of their cards away at once? No one should; if you start overloading a lizard with information she'll think that you're trying to self-validate too much and be scared away.
Thoughts folks?