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03-23-2012, 06:17 PM
Fellas....
I have to say that I don't have that problem and have not had any issues in YEARS.
1) I don't date broke/low-income chicks UNLESS she doesn't have that entitlement attitude (which she must display quick before I pass judgement on her for being broke) OR I meet her in another country because I won't be there long anyway.
2) I will pay for the first...and possibly 2nd date BUT I have a 2-week/3-visit (whichever comes first) deadline on banging so paying past a 2nd date probably won't happen.
3) Money is used for activities that BOTH of us will partake in. I don't pay bills, or hair-salon expenses or shoe expenses.
It is probably one of the reasons why my USA bangs are with women over 27 and my international bangs are with younger chicks.
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03-23-2012, 06:31 PM
El Mech is the best.
I have a few stories.
1. In my LTR the girl saw a tv commercial for these "fire and ice" condoms, she figures she should just buy them because I'm always bringing some over to her house. She buys a box along with some weird ass toy. We bang, the condoms were weird as hell and I said I don't like them. She starts bitching at me and tells me to pay the $30 or whatever she had to pay for the condoms/toys. I tell her shes acting stupid and the only way I would have paid her if I had asked her to pick some up for me implying I'd pay.
2. Girl owed me like 20 bucks. She invites me to dinner with some of her friends, I say only if she pays for my dinner (I remind her that she owes me $20) she agrees. We get there, I hand her the bill, she looks at me and starts yelling at me saying I should be paying for her. I remind her she owes me money, even her friends were looking at her funny.
3. I was at a bar with a girl and some of her friends, we were 'kind of' dating. Girls friends demand I buy the girl a drink because thats what a good guy will do. I bought a couple of shots, brang them over smiled and did both myself.
I did however have a girl refuse to let me pay for a date (weirdest thing I've ever encountered) she had said earlier that a guy always has to pay. She said it was too much like a date if I paid. I banged her a week later.
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Girls Who Don't Like Spending Their Own Money (Greedy, Stingy, and Tacky Bitches)
03-23-2012, 07:08 PM
Everyone in this thread needs to MAN UP. A real man would pay!
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03-23-2012, 07:09 PM
Quote: (03-23-2012 06:09 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:
I have an old credit card in my wallet that is on a closed account. I used it by accident once and it was declined. Not a problem. I always carry a few bills and other cards. I may have to use this next time a girl is being a bitch when she's out with me.
Pusscrook? That's a great idea. Simple yet effective. Damn haha I want to try this
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03-23-2012, 09:35 PM
I've got into a pattern of eating dominos or subway after a night out. I take cash but no cards so I don't overspend in clubs, but always end up not having enough for pizza/taxi home.
Never had a girl not pay in that situation, although I've only tried it on girls I've already fucked.
21 y/o brit.
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03-23-2012, 10:59 PM
WHAT? WHAT? I don't know about you guys but in Cyprus, girls feel ASHAMED if they don't buy something for the guy they are dating or going out with. I've had times when i was out with some friends and girls in a bar and when the bill came to the table, the girls rushed out their wallets furiously to pay for it because we guys paid for their drinks last time.
I don't believe what Tuthmosis says. It's just so outside my reality.....
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03-24-2012, 01:10 AM
Wow. I love the university game now. Some of the shit women pull is crazy. '10-'11 I was living off about a 1000 dollars a month. I was a full time student living off the GI Bill, drill pay, and work study. I stayed my my battle buddy's couch for two semesters. I was smashing students mostly so they knew but I went out 4 times a week so that shit really didnt fly at the bar/club scene. So I really couldn't do the dating thing. If you weren't smashin after the club then I didn't have time for you. The only "dates" I paid for were the tacos after the bar. The women down here are cool. Never had to check any of them and some wanted to pay. I love south Texas ha.
The cycle of disrespect can start with just an appetizer.
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03-24-2012, 07:46 AM
I pay for girls 99% of the time in E Europe. I know how much they make... it would be weird if I made them pay, but sometimes they insist to get me a drink or something.
The kicker is they NEVER suggest where to go. Not once has a girl said "I want to go to X restaurant" or "I want to go to dinner" or "I want to go to the club." For every time I take them to dinner, I can do a few "come over" dates. They really don't expect much.
What I noticed is that EE girls don't mind coming over to watch a movie. If anything, *I* have to drag them out. Most of them don't even like going to the bar or club. They're content snuggling next to their hairy American man. American girls seem to always want to go out somewhere.
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03-24-2012, 07:38 PM
The best girl I've ever been with would on occasion split the check or (*gasp!*) even pay (she was an LTR), but sometimes I can't help but laugh that girls will so indiscriminately throw their money away on things designed to impress men like makeup, manicures, clothes and lingerie, but when the bill arrives and a chance emerges to impress a man beyond a superficial level (the type of thing that makes you think 'Wow, this girl is actually pretty cool!' instead of just 'She's attractive...good for her.'), the wallet goes into retirement for 95% of them.
It amazes me that girls haven't noticed that just because we'd happily fuck them, doesn't mean that we would commit to them, and the crucial factor in determining that we will commit to them is just as much about who she is as it is what she looks like.
I'm not saying, to a point, that a little grease is a bad thing; if I ask a girl out on a drink date, and she doesn't flake, and by the end of the night I think I can fuck her either right then or TBA near-future, I will pay, I have no problem throwing down $35 on a drink tab (since I'm not one of these suckers who takes girls on dinner dates before I bang them).
I have heard many stories, straight from the whore's mouth, of girls going out for dinner dates with guys that they had zero intention of fucking because she didn't want to turn down a free meal, and I concur with Mechanico; when I was 23 and in school and banging 19, 20 and 21 year olds, this was never an issue; as long as we went to the bar and on pub crawls (and I grabbed a few rounds), or she could come over to chill out and have a few drinks or tokes and get fucked, everything was hunky-dory, but now that I'm 28 and banging 19-24 year olds, nearly every girl expects me to fund the fun, and the fun better be some type of funded fun.
The biggest problem, though; is when a girl says 'Oh we should go here!' and then expects me to pay, or when she has her hand out for gifts; honey, unless you plan to pay, the only girls that are allowed to make plans [and only occasionally] are girlfriends. Unless you plan to get me a gift as well, the only girls who get gifts [and again, only occasionally] are girlfriends.
I once got into a huge tiff with a girl when I didn't want to take her for Dim Sum the next day because I had to take my grandmother grocery shopping. This girl was a 22 year old student who had her rent paid by her parents, her education comped by the government and in the eight weeks we were banging paid for nothing, thank god I only ever paid for the drinks.
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03-24-2012, 09:47 PM
singing dancing theme parks traveling fine dining shopping
About Me
Hi there my one true prince! My name is Rachel I am a 37 year old true princess looking for her prince! I am so tired of game players and users! I am looking for a sincere financally secure man! That will spoil and pamper me!! And will take me traveling!
First Date
I have always wanted to travel extensivly! My idea of a perfect first date would be to go out to a nice dinner olive garden prefered! Singing karoke dancing and packing our bags and going to a nice romantic beach somewhere romantic and beautiful! I also want a man that is genourous In every way!
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03-24-2012, 10:41 PM
Quote: (03-24-2012 09:47 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
singing dancing theme parks traveling fine dining shopping
About Me
Hi there my one true prince! My name is Rachel I am a 37 year old true princess looking for her prince! I am so tired of game players and users! I am looking for a sincere financally secure man! That will spoil and pamper me!! And will take me traveling!
First Date
I have always wanted to travel extensivly! My idea of a perfect first date would be to go out to a nice dinner olive garden prefered! Singing karoke dancing and packing our bags and going to a nice romantic beach somewhere romantic and beautiful! I also want a man that is genourous In every way!
Wow...we're talking height of delusion with this one! First, she's FAT. She considers a nice dinner to be Olive Garden. She wants to be whisked away (the way she talks, I'm guessing she wants it to be on a private jet, because she's too fat to fit in a commercial airline seat) to an exotic locale. She wants a life of continuous wining and dining at age 37, nearing 200 lbs. All I can say about this chick is...I guess you have no chance of getting a guy or life like this if you don't ask. Good luck with that sweetie!
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