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(09-02-2018 01:20 AM)J-Roc Wrote:  

I was a 30 y/o virgin when I went to SEA. Suffice it to say that I'm no longer a virgin LOL. I have Asperger's Syndrome and I'm objectively pretty ugly (albeit 6'2'' and blue eyed) so I had basically zero options back home. Even in SEA I was banging mostly 2s and 3s with the occasional 4 and 5 mixed in (I would rate myself a 2 or 3). So, you can definitely get laid there very easily but you need to be realistic. It's not 2005 anymore and being White doesn't give you nearly as much of an edge as it used to (according to SEA vets).

I used Tinder exclusively. Took a girl to a bar, had a couple of drinks and after a little while she'd say "let's go back to your place" with barely any effort on my part. Maybe I was lucky but I never got flaked on (other than twice in Vietnam) or had a girl hit me up for "taxi money" the next day as many others have experienced. With more effort / game you could probably get better results.

I see most people here recommending the Philippines (Manila specifically) but I actually found that to be one of the worst places for girls. I didn't bang any girls off Tinder in Manilla and found their attitudes to be by far the worst of any country I've been to (Makati seems to be saturated with snarky, bitchy princesses and hordes of thirsty White guys feeding their egos). Besides that, Manila (and the Phils in general) is a total shithole and maybe a bit too jarring for a SEA newbie. I'd say start in Bangkok - moderate culture shock, cheap and tons of easy girls. Then maybe think about Indonesia, Malaysia or the Phils. Good luck!

How are you a '2'? You might not be giving yourself enough credit.

I do have to agree with your assessment of the Philippines. It's got absolutely nothing else going for it other than girls or easy visa. Lot of guys stay in Makati, but once you step outside of it, there are some diamonds in the rough if you are willing to take a look.

I do notice in general Filipinos (the guys too) are very princessy and act like a bunch of prima donna types and divas. Constantly staring at themselves in mirrors, just rude and classless, standoffish, inconsiderate to the extent that I hear the same feedback from other foreigners (Asian foreigners too) staying here. Hypocrites yet they constantly demand respect and nonjudgment. Very difficult to connect with intellectually other than the "What is your nationality?" or "Why are you here?" opener they are always using. Their English skills are waning too and they speak broken English (while hardly understanding you) so staying here might warrant you to learn Tagalog.

There's something magnetic about about this country though that breeds complacency if you stay a while. It draws you in with easy poon and living and destroys your soul. But I guess if you aren't getting laid at home or stagnant, you gotta do what you gotta do and try something different.