How long have you been seeing her? Is it possible you can say it was from before you knew her?
How deep are you in the LTR? Can you just say you got drunk, banged a random bitch and got the clap while encouraging her to get antibiotics?
I think your integrity matters more than some girl you're probably not going to spend your life with. You'd be surprised what women will forgive you for; and your inclination to deceive her sounds a lot like you being afraid to lose her.
However I understand things can become complicated and if there is too much risk for fallout in your personal life that may not be a viable option but remember to take care of those possibilities in the future by setting up your social structure and the girls role in it properly so you can have your integrity and a favorable situation.
For now
How long have you been with her?
Do her friends know you?
Do your friends know her?
Parents?
Business/work (hope not)?
How embedded is she in your life ?
Are you ready to walk away or have her walk after this situation is resolved?
How deep are you in the LTR? Can you just say you got drunk, banged a random bitch and got the clap while encouraging her to get antibiotics?
I think your integrity matters more than some girl you're probably not going to spend your life with. You'd be surprised what women will forgive you for; and your inclination to deceive her sounds a lot like you being afraid to lose her.
However I understand things can become complicated and if there is too much risk for fallout in your personal life that may not be a viable option but remember to take care of those possibilities in the future by setting up your social structure and the girls role in it properly so you can have your integrity and a favorable situation.
For now
How long have you been with her?
Do her friends know you?
Do your friends know her?
Parents?
Business/work (hope not)?
How embedded is she in your life ?
Are you ready to walk away or have her walk after this situation is resolved?