Yeah I realise topic has been beaten to death. Was going to post this on Player's Log, but I'd like to open up a discussion on the topic for my situation as I'm chasing some somewhat specific advice from older members. Not really a newbie question but fuck it.
Primer: this is something I used to do regularly while slow travelling through SEA and Central/ Eastern Europe - where I found the sweet spot to be 25 (ie. 25 wasn't too old for an 18 year old, but still 'mature' enough for a 25+ without being shit-tested for being a baby at only 21-22yo).
Last year the lies (age among many many others) I was telling to girls in my rotation was catching up to me to the point where it was causing me great stress. I actually made a resolution this year (absolute phaggotry I'm aware) to be more honest with myself and others.
Cue to this year and I'm killing it. 6 new notches so far, but been running into the age problem with TOP tier 18 year olds in the 8-9 range. Like it won't make them eject or anything when I approach (clubs/ bars are my thing), but I can see the hamster wheel start spinning when they drop the age bomb usually about 5-10 minutes in, after the usual 'What's your name? and 'Where do you live?'. This has happened about 5 times now, where interest level will take a dive.
To me lying to these 'fly girls' that I vibe with on a crazy good level is a bit counter intuitive. Lie to get the lay by going against the grounded qualities that attracted them to me in the first place.
Funny thing is a girl who is 18 will ask me how old I am, I say 23, and they'll go 'Oh I thought you were 19-20'. But if a 25 year old asks me my age and I say 23 they'll say 'Ah I thought you were 27-28'. I'm guessing this is either to innate attraction as they're placing me within their ideal age range OR I'm calibrating my approaches so well that I'm gauging our interaction on their maturity level. Probably both. So I could get away with +/- 3 years pretty easy. Dat decision.
Thoughts appreciated.
TL;DR - I wanna smash loads of smoking model-tier fresh 18yo waxed puss this year, not sure if should lie about to get lay or just be straight shooter for that LTR/ FB possibility
Primer: this is something I used to do regularly while slow travelling through SEA and Central/ Eastern Europe - where I found the sweet spot to be 25 (ie. 25 wasn't too old for an 18 year old, but still 'mature' enough for a 25+ without being shit-tested for being a baby at only 21-22yo).
Last year the lies (age among many many others) I was telling to girls in my rotation was catching up to me to the point where it was causing me great stress. I actually made a resolution this year (absolute phaggotry I'm aware) to be more honest with myself and others.
Cue to this year and I'm killing it. 6 new notches so far, but been running into the age problem with TOP tier 18 year olds in the 8-9 range. Like it won't make them eject or anything when I approach (clubs/ bars are my thing), but I can see the hamster wheel start spinning when they drop the age bomb usually about 5-10 minutes in, after the usual 'What's your name? and 'Where do you live?'. This has happened about 5 times now, where interest level will take a dive.
To me lying to these 'fly girls' that I vibe with on a crazy good level is a bit counter intuitive. Lie to get the lay by going against the grounded qualities that attracted them to me in the first place.
Funny thing is a girl who is 18 will ask me how old I am, I say 23, and they'll go 'Oh I thought you were 19-20'. But if a 25 year old asks me my age and I say 23 they'll say 'Ah I thought you were 27-28'. I'm guessing this is either to innate attraction as they're placing me within their ideal age range OR I'm calibrating my approaches so well that I'm gauging our interaction on their maturity level. Probably both. So I could get away with +/- 3 years pretty easy. Dat decision.
Thoughts appreciated.
TL;DR - I wanna smash loads of smoking model-tier fresh 18yo waxed puss this year, not sure if should lie about to get lay or just be straight shooter for that LTR/ FB possibility
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