Quote: (09-16-2015 11:46 AM)Gmac Wrote:
Sex on the first date doesn't always have to be your goal. I know a lot of guys push for that here but sometimes the logistics will never be in your favor and/or you will learn to gauge how the date is progressing enough to know when not to push too far.
I agree but one of my many problems is the ingrained default mindset of "she doesn't want to bang right away, she wants to get to know me and build attraction, then she'll initiate sexual escalation when she's comfortable..." So rather than expecting sex most of the time and occasionally not, I'm starting backward and working on fixing that. It's proving to be a formidable task.