Quote: (10-31-2014 10:09 AM)reco2100 Wrote:
So little update on the previous challenges I had with the chick from Texas. Met at a convention and was cockblocked by my really good looking “friend”. Almost got the bang but no cigar. So like I was saying she went back to her hometown but she visits here frequently. And we left it open agreeing to stay in touch when she comes to town.
Well I have waited a couple of weeks and want to reengage to maintain a little contact. Nothing too heavy just keep in touch so we can make plans. So far not so good though. I texted her couple of days ago and this is what has happened so far.
Me: Hey there this is that sexy man from ____. (trying to open with something flirty.)
(almost exactly 24 hours later)
Her: Hey there! HRU?
(I waited about 12 hours)
Me: Young kid with a dream…just got off the driving range…what are you up to? (trying to get her to engage)
Its been two days and no response. I know the goal is to get her to chase me. But I am not getting there. What would you guys recommend? I know that my texts aren’t the best but that’s all I have. I cannot just create witty banter out of nothing. Especially when she is giving me nothing. Is this a case of just cut my losses and move on? Or should I just tell her to contact me when she comes out? Or my natural friend said he is a big fan of confrontation. And said to just send a humorous text like “you are breaking up with me already?” I didn’t like that one. Or maybe just ask to set up a meeting date and time. What would you guys do? I want to be aloof but if we are both aloof there is nothing to go on. lol
Waste of time. Girls are on their text game like flies on shit - if she is waiting days to respond to you then she is not interested. Next her and keep looking.
Now I have an interesting one. This is a girl I had a mini-relationship with that I would have liked to continue banging but she ultimately called things off. The whole "I don't see this in the long run" bit so she decided to end things with me (was about a month ago now). We dated for about 7 months and things ended on her terms with her gradually going dark on me then finally having a phone conversation or two about her not seeing us going any further whatever. Anyway she got word about a knee injury of mine and sent me a text today:
her(12:49pm): Sorry too hear about your knee! Wtf! How is this just coming forward?!
me(1:33pm): 6 weeks of pt wasnt making it better so I saw a specialist
her(1:35pm): I can't believe it didn't figure it out
her(1:36pm): *Pt
her(1:41pm): You must have been in so much pain early on
I recognize trying to parlay this casual reconnect into a bang may be a touchy event so I'd like a little advice.