Quote: (11-12-2013 07:28 PM)CJ Wrote:
I'm so torn on asking when is good for the girl anymore, because if they don't give you a time you're fucked. Such a tough play here, she's a bar chick, so she should be DTF. I'd try these two methods and if neither works, back-off and restart in a week or so, but don't expect much:
Method 1: Pick another day (no more than 2 days in advance), start with the "What's up?" Then quick transition to "We should meet up for drinks Thursday at xxx"
Method 2: See what she's up to as above, and just come back with, "We should get drunk." She's a bar chick so she may be down.
If all else fails, after a restart I'd amp up the aggression so she knows what she's in for, take it into the sexual realm in your texts, if she doesn't like it, who cares, what are you risking at that point?
Thanks for the advice CJ. It is much appreciated.