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Girlfriend considering stripping for financial reasons
11-17-2017, 09:09 PM
Or another way of putting it. A prostitute is shooting heroin, stripping is snorting heroin and selling used panties is poppin Vicodin.
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Girlfriend considering stripping for financial reasons
11-22-2017, 07:51 PM
Different view:
I am of the opinion that it's a plus. That said I am very open to 'open relationships' and know I'd be happiest with a 'slut'. You could leverage it. Sometimes I think given my own views marrying a 'pro', as someone earlier stated they did, wouldn't be so bad.
In my experience, very few women are open to such lifestyles (swinging etc) so leverage the situation.
Just an alternative POV.
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11-22-2017, 08:06 PM
Whether you're sucking dick for cash or selling panties anonymously you are officially "a sex worker".
Sex workers are sex workers because they have inherently decided "this is the only thing of value I have to offer". In choosing this path they set a used-by date on their usefulness and a very small framework around which anyone can value them.
They relegate themselves to the realm of the blow-up doll and the fleshlight, and at that point their so-called "personality" is merely annoyance, much less any expression of their needs.
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Girlfriend considering stripping for financial reasons
11-22-2017, 08:59 PM
After she starts making "easy" money she'll NEVER go back to a regular job. And imagine the manager and the other friends from job (prostitutes) start pushing her to make even more money fucking dudes.
OP could become a pimp and look for a serious girl while his bottom bitch makes real money.
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Girlfriend considering stripping for financial reasons
11-22-2017, 11:33 PM
When I was 14, me and the other lads mused over how good it would be to have a slut for a girlfriend. It made sense, given that we were all gameless simps stuck with girls who made us do all the boring stuff without putting out.
"Whores do the sex but not the boring stuff. Wouldn't that be ideal?"
Yeah, then we (some of us) started fucking
real actual women and quickly realised that hos were for
fucking, not for LTRs.
Honestly, I've never heard the opinion of "whores for LTRs" expressed by anyone other than a gameless virgin.
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Girlfriend considering stripping for financial reasons
11-23-2017, 06:01 PM
Quote: (11-22-2017 07:51 PM)juicebox Wrote:
Different view:
I am of the opinion that it's a plus. That said I am very open to 'open relationships' and know I'd be happiest with a 'slut'. You could leverage it. Sometimes I think given my own views marrying a 'pro', as someone earlier stated they did, wouldn't be so bad.
In my experience, very few women are open to such lifestyles (swinging etc) so leverage the situation.
Just an alternative POV.
So you lack self respect. Your 'alternative POV' belongs on an 'alternative lifestyle' forum, then.
As far as 'leveraging the situation' that's the most myopic naive shit I've read on here in awhile. Sounds like the viewpoint from some idealistic guy getting talking into "polyamory" or an open relationship where he thinks "gee whiz I can still have my schnoockms to cuddle with and have sex on the side? Sign me up!"
Of course what ends up happening is the girl getting dicked down left right and center while the stupid cuck is left with his dick locked in a cock cage.
Polyamourous / open relationship people are always fucking hideous, too.
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Girlfriend considering stripping for financial reasons
11-23-2017, 09:34 PM
Basically, she wants to do sex work, and also wants you both to rationalize it.
If you want a more detailed answer...
It takes a ton of game to date a stripper. Normal girls always have other options, like Jake the guy at the water cooler. However, strippers are literally being hit on 24/7/365, and often by relatively high value men. Now you're not competing with Jake who hangs out at the water cooler, but some pretty high rolling dudes who smash smuts on the regular. Think club owners who enjoy snorting coke off the ass of young girls, politicians, lawyers who don't have time for real relationships, doctors who married a hambeast early in life but don't want to pay alimony, etc. Why would she want to stay with you, when she's inundated with more financially viable options every single day? They'll rationalize it as a "one time thing" or "I was drunk" or "it was so confusing and new." Or she can just have a few boyfriends, because "I don't believe in monogamy."
Moreover, women who want to flash their hooha for cash all have daddy issues. No exceptions. What she's saying is akin to "I don't make enough money, so I need to sell drugs." Why isn't she more interested in restructuring her lifestyle? Taking less classes? Graduating in 6 years instead of 4? The truth of the matter is she simply wants to do sex work. A lot of women get off on the attention from both men and their social circle from doing something taboo. No judgment, but I would think very hard before wifing her up.
What's funny is that this thread is apropos, because one of my stripper plates is texting me about some drama she's having with her roommates. Sure, she has a boyfriend, but is still wondering if she can crash here for a few days... (her and the "BF" are both in their 20s. Despite her best intentions, sometimes Hank's big house and lavish bed is better than sleeping in a studio apartment where the heater barely works...)
It's not really your place to tell her how to make money. I would just avoid wifing up a woman who wants to flash her hooha for cash, no matter what the justification is. Unless you're okay with being cheated on, hit for alimony, and not much concerned about getting an STD.
There are decent girls out there if you look hard enough. Plus, in ten years she won't be all that hot anymore, either..