Quote: (03-20-2015 08:42 AM)bacan Wrote:
I disagree with this thread when it comes to a particular scenario. If you want an LTR with a true good girl -- one that never gives it up easy -- you have to wait.
However, for 95% of girls you meet, this advice won't apply. If a girl has ever had sex on a first date or a first night, I'll expect her to do the same for me if she wants me to be her boyfriend. Then again, why would I want to have a girlfriend who has had sex with a guy the same night she met him? That disgusts me -- I'd never be able to trust her to not get drunk and do something slutty and cheat on me some night.
In my experience isn't likely the case. Here are my American virgin stats:
20yo - Got in bed naked hand job, fingering on 3rd date, church girl. No smoking barely ever drank. Was pre-game, didn't even really go for the bang with logistics until the 3rd date. Bet I could have gotten her naked and in bed date 1 if I knew what I was doing back then.
20yo - Super good girl, old soul, never partied barely drank, date 1 took her to a bar and snuck in vodka bottles to get her buzzed, made out hard on the street 1 block from my place - she refused to go back. I went for sex on the second date as well, banged her on the 3rd. She told me she was a virgin after sex.
23yo - Went for sex on date one, she confessed virginity on date 2 right before bang. We drank heavily both dates.
20yo - Date one I didn't have logistics, and had plans later in the night - if I had logistics and was free she was down to go drink whiskey at my place. Made out hard in a parking lot at end of date. Got her to underwear on date 2, blowjob date 3. She confessed virginity in a text after date 1.
These girls all for the most part barely knew me. 3 of the 4 had never met one of my friends, I never met theirs, didn't have any social media, never met one of my family members.
On the other end the hottest girl I have ever fucked, a party girl, I had sex within 2 hours of meeting her in a club. Context doesn't matter. They are all wired the same.
I went for drinking and sex as quick as I would with a hot a slut. No difference. 3 of the 4 wanted a relationship with me immediately. I bet if I was interested enough in any of the 3 enough I could have married them easily.
2 of the 3 that wanted me had pretty cool personalities, biggest flaw was they were mid 6's and I can't see myself being faithful and happy banging anything less than a 7 for decades.
So the answer is go for it no matter what. Never slow play. It doesn't matter.
Attraction is
almost completely front-loaded. They know within about 30 minutes or so of using your mouthpiece whether they want to fuck you or not no matter how innocent they are.
Doesn't matter what kind of woman. There is no slow cooker. One of those virgins was from a church group social circle so the context doesn't even matter. Could there be a more cliche innocent girl environment to pick up from? I asked her out inside a church owned community building.
I think Maybe Girls are much less prevalent than guys think. I think the vast majority guys think they converted are just Yes Girls that were very good at hiding their attraction. I bet 80% of Maybe Girls if you could read their mind had mostly made it up in the first 30 minutes whether they were going to fuck you. It wasn't won over on hour number 4 of interaction or on date 3.
All the real action happens right after tip-off.
Body language, voice, hygiene, dress style, facial expressions, and quick humor are the main game that gets them in those first 30 minutes. It isn't your experiences or stories. It may be how you tell them, but the subject matter means little.
If the same guy with the same game and dress met a chick and had 30 minute to talk to her I bet if he told stories about rummaging through a garbage dump for refridgerator parts in one scenario, then in a different scenario told a story about how he sailed around the the world and went through a hurricane I bet his chances of getting laid would almost be identical. It is how you present it.
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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems