I've recently visited a club with a friend, one of the places that I usually avoid as I prefer daygame and less stressful surroundings. Now, I don't know if this is a problem of my town and country or general, but all the clubs here are extremely loud venues, playing techno/trance to such volume that it's impossible to say even one word, with a lot of "lightshow" and very packed. Anyways, maybe it's relaxing to sway in the blinding/deafening/crushing crowd for an hour, but I felt that it was a very poor method for meeting girls. And the problem is, it's everyone's idea of "a night out".
Sure, I saw some people making out, but they were definitely couples or knew each other from outside. My impression is that, in those surroundings (impossible to talk or even dance), a girl is forced to judge you just on the first impression of your looks, and if judged just on that basis, I (and 90% of guys) will simply never see any success.
Maybe this is fatalism, but I feel that I would have vastly superior chances if I just went to the club entrance and said "hi" to 10 girls passing by than sweating in there for hours. In fact, that would be my idea of a good time and pickup - go to a club with friends, but not actually inside unless it's "civilized" and possible to talk.
How do you guys feel about this? Any luck in such conditions? Will not going to clubs gut most of my opportunities?
Sure, I saw some people making out, but they were definitely couples or knew each other from outside. My impression is that, in those surroundings (impossible to talk or even dance), a girl is forced to judge you just on the first impression of your looks, and if judged just on that basis, I (and 90% of guys) will simply never see any success.
Maybe this is fatalism, but I feel that I would have vastly superior chances if I just went to the club entrance and said "hi" to 10 girls passing by than sweating in there for hours. In fact, that would be my idea of a good time and pickup - go to a club with friends, but not actually inside unless it's "civilized" and possible to talk.
How do you guys feel about this? Any luck in such conditions? Will not going to clubs gut most of my opportunities?
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