Quote: (06-30-2013 10:27 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

Quote: (06-30-2013 10:17 PM)beltoforion Wrote:  

MattC's #2 theory makes more sense to me, that pms thing sounded bullshit though. If she doesn't contact me i will send a restart text in a couple of weeks because i still want the bang, radio silence until then. Working on other girls in the meanwhile.

She is Brazilian, not American.

That's the way to play this one. Sometimes when a chick thinks you're sweating her, she'll act flaky, thinking you'll keep trying to see her. If you disengage and go silent, sometimes the hamster goes nuts and they'll contact you. It almost hurts their pride that you stopped chasing. I find this happens with online chicks too. If you're writing all the time, or sending comments regularly, they don't bother to reply. All of a sudden, when they stop, they'll send you something because they think you've lost interest and they want the attention from you. If they don't react, I delete them. If she fails to re-engage, then it's safe to say you can drop her.

Actually, my experience with online dating is that you shouldn't be playing 2/3 games with girls online. Instead, do what ever you can to get them offline as soon as possible.

she texted me today.

girl: hi how are you? it was bc i don't know you well, and i like to have my privacy. Kisses, have a good week.
me: but did you like it ?
girl: yes, yes
me: then let's get to know each other
girl: ok

radio silence

She doesn't seem to be too much enthusiastic. Maybe i should call her but not sure how to proceed and how to get her comfortable for the bang. Suggestions?

I'm getting radio silence from mine as well.

They both found this thread

I called her last night, it seems she is just shit testing. She said that she is not used to bringing guys to her place, only boyfriends blah blah blah that she isnt comfortable with that and tha shes disappointed with men and all that bs.

I didnt react just said ok im not gonna insist if thats what you want. We talked for more 10min.

Then in 10 min she texts

Girl i was just kidding.
Me about what?
Girl come over at 7 for some chocolate the we ll talk more
Me fine

How should i play comfort game at her place to get the notch on the next date?

Quote: (07-02-2013 07:45 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  

I called her last night, it seems she is just shit testing. She said that she is not used to bringing guys to her place, only boyfriends blah blah blah that she isnt comfortable with that and tha shes disappointed with men and all that bs.

I didnt react just said ok im not gonna insist if thats what you want. We talked for more 10min.

Then in 10 min she texts

Girl i was just kidding.
Me about what?
Girl come over at 7 for some chocolate the we ll talk more
Me fine

How should i play comfort game at her place to get the notch on the next date?

I bet that's BS and that she's bringing guys back there all the time. Just keep plowing through all this like a rock.

Last night at her place we talked, tried to do a comfort date, drank wine and made out, tried to escalate again but LMR'd... she wad turned on i can tell, she wrapped her legs around me. Then she says she feels tired needs shower blah blah and asks me to leave. I'm starting to lose interest in this chic i dont care getting on another date with her unless its a sure bang which i think its not the case. I'll radio silence her.

Quote: (07-03-2013 07:41 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  

Last night at her place we talked, tried to do a comfort date, drank wine and made out, tried to escalate again but LMR'd... she wad turned on i can tell, she wrapped her legs around me. Then she says she feels tired needs shower blah blah and asks me to leave. I'm starting to lose interest in this chic i dont care getting on another date with her unless its a sure bang which i think its not the case. I'll radio silence her.

My girl is hard to pin down right now too. I think they probably have so much crazy shit going on in their heads.

Maybe it's a good strategy to just have a lot of drinks and a good time.

EDIT: she just texted me back that she's at the beach.

Might I suggest the STONE and the NAKED MAN? Pull it out and take her hand and grab it. See if it works!

Last night at her place we talked, tried to do a comfort date, drank wine and made out, tried to escalate again but LMR'd... she wad turned on i can tell, she wrapped her legs around me. Then she says she feels tired needs shower blah blah and asks me to leave. I'm starting to lose interest in this chic i dont care getting on another date with her unless its a sure bang which i think its not the case. I'll radio silence her.

Quote: (07-05-2013 06:34 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  

Last night at her place we talked, tried to do a comfort date, drank wine and made out, tried to escalate again but LMR'd... she wad turned on i can tell, she wrapped her legs around me. Then she says she feels tired needs shower blah blah and asks me to leave. I'm starting to lose interest in this chic i dont care getting on another date with her unless its a sure bang which i think its not the case. I'll radio silence her.

Maybe it's best just to plow through.

I'm getting crazy resistance like yours as well.

They want to do it, but I think it is so complicated for them because they are testing to see if you are a fetishist or whatever.

Last night at her place we talked, tried to do a comfort date, drank wine and made out, tried to escalate again but LMR'd... she wad turned on i can tell, she wrapped her legs around me. Then she says she feels tired needs shower blah blah and asks me to leave. I'm starting to lose interest in this chic i dont care getting on another date with her unless its a sure bang which i think its not the case. I'll radio silence her.

ok after radio silencing her, she started to chase me.

she texted me last night but I was fucking another chic (7) at my apartment (first notch in this new city) and didn't answer.

girl: hi Belt, how are you doing?
girl: why don't you answer?
girl: are you upset at me?

Today in the morning I texted her

me: hey, busy last night with some friends
girl: umm i thought you were mad at me.
me: why?
girl: i don't know.
me: no, i'm not, i just couldn't check my phone
girl: ok i was going to invite you to come over last night.
me: oh why didn't you call me then? i would come over (lie, i wouldn't bc last night's chic was hot)
me: i'm free tonight i can come over.
girl: fine then... i will have lunch with a girl friend then go to the mall with her, i'll be at home around 7pm
me: ok
girl: i'll text you by that. see ya
me: see ya

I think I am gonna get the notch tonight

I should get one rep if I do.

where are you? Brazil?

Yes

We are arm-brothers.

at 7 i text, no reply... .at 7:50 I called her ...

me: hey, how are you
girl: i am good how about you?
me: good , why haven't you texted me?
girl: oh i am not at home, i am at my friend's house.
me: oh ok ... bye.
girl: bye

This flake is unaceptable. She's been nexted.

I found a girl with one arm, only 2 fingers, and she's 4'2", on OKC.

Besides all that she'd be pretty cute. My instinct is to pass, however.

Quote: (07-03-2013 10:41 AM)soup Wrote:  

EDIT: she just texted me back that she's at the beach.

Next time she's at the beach, tell her to run out the water waving her stump and screaming "SHAAAAARRKKK!!!"

Quote: (07-18-2013 09:45 PM)delicioustacos Wrote:  

Quote: (07-03-2013 10:41 AM)soup Wrote:  

EDIT: she just texted me back that she's at the beach.

Next time she's at the beach, tell her to run out the water waving her stump and screaming "SHAAAAARRKKK!!!"

This is actually fucking genius! This is the best way to make a connection with her through humor. +1

Quote: (07-13-2013 07:09 PM)Plutoman Wrote:  

I found a girl with one arm, only 2 fingers... My instinct is to pass, however.

So-- 2/10, WNB?

Quote: (07-18-2013 09:47 PM)delicioustacos Wrote:  

Quote: (07-13-2013 07:09 PM)Plutoman Wrote:  

I found a girl with one arm, only 2 fingers... My instinct is to pass, however.

So-- 2/10, WNB?

Man you are on a roll- maybe you should be out talking to girls right now.

Quote: (06-03-2013 10:25 PM)soup Wrote:  

I'm kind of torn because, on the one hand, I don't want it. On the other, I feel really bad for her, and I also bet that she'd put out really easily. I don't want to be cruel to her, but I'm a man on a mission.

Well since you put it like that....

Stop trolling. Fuck it already.

I approached a one armed girl last night!

Was at a nightclub, saw a cute blonde and her friend, went over and opened the blonde.Talked to her for five minutes before I noticed her right arm was missing three inches below the elbow. She had a tattoo that was obviously cut off at that point so she lost it as an adult. She offered to buy me a drink, I declined, and she bought me one anyway. Her friend was making her leave and she threw her arm and a half around my neck and kissed me and said "Game on!" and walked off. I don't ask for numbers in nightclubs these days, so I let her go. I'll see her around.