Anyone remember when I mentioned several months ago that I was in a relationship with a really nice girl who even knew about my writing and was completely fine with those?
Well, things have been going sour of late. Now not a week passes that I don't hear whining about how I'm horrible, cruel, harsh (disclaimer: my writing is mild compared to Roosh and Roissy), arrogant, hateful, disturbed and chauvinist (this last point is particularly ironic because I also give advice to women as well as men and have as many thankful female fans as haters). I believe that this sudden whining is more due to influence of her slutty girl / beta guy friends, but it's all the same.
Anyways, I have been unable to reason with her. I'm cool with her not liking what I write but, of late, she's been talking about how she hates my online persona and that I'm not similar to it in real life at all (I disagree with this - as I said the writing is mild and sometimes harsh, but always full of understanding, just like I am in RL) and that it makes her love me less. She completely denies everything I say, even tons of scientific studies that I have posted, and is completely hamster-ish in her arguments. I can't talk her into not hating it, let alone not vehemently denying everything that I write.
Finally, last week she gave me an ultimatum that I shut down all my writing immediately or in the next few days or we're breaking up. I refused and explained that the blog was a part of my identity and that, even if I somehow decided to do it as a huge favor to her, doing it in this fashion would be completely unacceptable. As a compromise, I offered her to shut it down if/when we get married (I've considered marrying her in late 2014 if things keep going great like they have and she is aware of that - was this Beta?), as a personal and very special favor, but she said that this solution was too late for her, so currently we're in a tug-of-war where she says she'll give me "a little more time", whatever the fuck that means.
I'm adamant that I won't do it. It sounds like pure blackmail to me. Moreover, it sounds like an incredibly retarded thing to fight about, let alone break up. Even if I were really writing chauvinist, nazi or similar disagreeable stuff, it shouldn't be her business. I don't complain to her about her posting retarded stuff on Facebook either. Anyways, now I don't know what to do. This shit has really soured the relationship for me. I still appreciate what we have in other fields (she likes cooking for me, worships my cock and isn't high maintenance), but this has really started gnawing on me.
Anyways, I can't imagine staying with or ever marrying someone who is giving me ultimatums like that. I can understand that she doesn't like it - maybe being very sensitive naturally comes in package with being sweet and feminine - but the ultimatum "must be today" aspect upsets me and is making me more and more apathetic about her.
On the other hand, it seems like the stupidest possible issue to break up over and it would really be a pity, so I'm considering less drastic options first. Has anyone ever changed a girl's mind on manosphere issues? Any similar situations? Advice on how to convince her?
Well, things have been going sour of late. Now not a week passes that I don't hear whining about how I'm horrible, cruel, harsh (disclaimer: my writing is mild compared to Roosh and Roissy), arrogant, hateful, disturbed and chauvinist (this last point is particularly ironic because I also give advice to women as well as men and have as many thankful female fans as haters). I believe that this sudden whining is more due to influence of her slutty girl / beta guy friends, but it's all the same.
Anyways, I have been unable to reason with her. I'm cool with her not liking what I write but, of late, she's been talking about how she hates my online persona and that I'm not similar to it in real life at all (I disagree with this - as I said the writing is mild and sometimes harsh, but always full of understanding, just like I am in RL) and that it makes her love me less. She completely denies everything I say, even tons of scientific studies that I have posted, and is completely hamster-ish in her arguments. I can't talk her into not hating it, let alone not vehemently denying everything that I write.
Finally, last week she gave me an ultimatum that I shut down all my writing immediately or in the next few days or we're breaking up. I refused and explained that the blog was a part of my identity and that, even if I somehow decided to do it as a huge favor to her, doing it in this fashion would be completely unacceptable. As a compromise, I offered her to shut it down if/when we get married (I've considered marrying her in late 2014 if things keep going great like they have and she is aware of that - was this Beta?), as a personal and very special favor, but she said that this solution was too late for her, so currently we're in a tug-of-war where she says she'll give me "a little more time", whatever the fuck that means.
I'm adamant that I won't do it. It sounds like pure blackmail to me. Moreover, it sounds like an incredibly retarded thing to fight about, let alone break up. Even if I were really writing chauvinist, nazi or similar disagreeable stuff, it shouldn't be her business. I don't complain to her about her posting retarded stuff on Facebook either. Anyways, now I don't know what to do. This shit has really soured the relationship for me. I still appreciate what we have in other fields (she likes cooking for me, worships my cock and isn't high maintenance), but this has really started gnawing on me.
Anyways, I can't imagine staying with or ever marrying someone who is giving me ultimatums like that. I can understand that she doesn't like it - maybe being very sensitive naturally comes in package with being sweet and feminine - but the ultimatum "must be today" aspect upsets me and is making me more and more apathetic about her.
On the other hand, it seems like the stupidest possible issue to break up over and it would really be a pity, so I'm considering less drastic options first. Has anyone ever changed a girl's mind on manosphere issues? Any similar situations? Advice on how to convince her?
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