Quote: (03-08-2013 10:57 PM)Irishman Wrote:
How much intent do you show the first time you meet?
It depends. Sometimes, I go direct. Other times, I go indirect. It just depends on my vibe, the situation, and the girl.
If we are sitting together on public transportation, I know I will have 10-20 minutes to chat, so, I will not be in a hurry, I will just go indirect and try to have a lively, entertaining, engaging, funny chat with her.
After 10 or so minutes of that, I might say..
"hey, wanna exchange numbers sometime, we should get coffee or a beer or something"
Thats indirect. Not much intent shown at the start. I chatted first, them showed intention at the end.
Here is another example:
I am walking through the mall. I see a cute girl walking into a store that I am walking out of..
"excuse me miss, can I ask you something, i know this is totally random but I noticed you walking out and i wanted to come say hi and flirt with you for a minute, my name is gio, whats yours?"
Thats direct and I showed my intention from the beginning.
It really depends on the circumstances and the situation.
If I am dressed up and feeling sexy and I see a girl who is dressed up and looking sexy, I might just walk right up and say..
"hello, you look nice today"
Direct and intention shown. I don't have to play games. She looks good, I look good. I can get right to the point.
If I was dressed in jeans and a t-shirt and shopping at the grocery store I might not be so direct. If I see a girl at the grocery store, I might just say..
"hey, are these tomotoes good, im making salsa but i don't know which ones to use"
Thats indirect with no intention shown. I will try to get a chat going and build a connection using humor and things that we have in common.
I can also go direct in the grocery store..
"oh my god, you eat that stuff, how do you keep your body in such great shape if you eat that?"
Direct and intention shown .
I can also use mixed or "hybrid" method, which is indirect language but direct body language..
For example,
"Damn, its so hot today"
As I say
"Damn",
I'm looking at her waist. Then I slowly move my eyes up her body and slowly say --
"its so hot today",
then look her in the eyes without any fear or embarrassment and say --
"I need to get some ice cream". I want her to feel the sexual charge I have for her.
Tonality is very important with this type of approach. The way you talk and your body/eye language is almost more important then what you say.
Direct and indirect are not our only options, there are other variations and mixtures of both. For example, your opener can be..indirect..
"Excuse me, how do I get downtown from here" -- But then your next sentence can be
direct -- "Actually, I don't mind being lost, who are you little lady?
There is also the Krauser type approach which I really like..
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-14130-...#pid267823
Sometimes, I just tell them they have a
nice ass..
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-4382-p...#pid259511
Every situation is different. Sometimes I show intention right away, sometimes I don't. There is a time for everything. Experiment with all styles to find the methods that
YOU ARE MOST COMFORTABLE WITH.
When you see a girl you like --
Don't hesitate.
Go talk to her in whatever style you can!
Quote: (03-08-2013 10:57 PM)Irishman Wrote:
Are you going direct, more of a friendly vibe or do you switch it up.
I switch it up. I think I already answered this ablove ^^
Quote: (03-08-2013 10:57 PM)Irishman Wrote:
Could you break down one or two of your successes.
Sure.
Here are a few of my favorites..
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-14257-...#pid316026
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-14130-...#pid391063
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-1623-p...l#pid13274
100% Day Game.