So before you offer me help, I want to answer some potential questions you may have. I have lurked this forum for the past month and see that there might be some useful info here. Yet I have also seen that some of you are alienated by Indians for whatever reason.
Are you an FOB?
No, I was born and raised here in the west. My current state of residence, as it has been for the past 8 years is South Carolina (border between South Carolina and North Carolina really). I am a 20 year old community college student (transferring to 4 year colleges soon) who had to see some unfortunate circumstances. Parents did to an extent shelter me and I was homeschooled which really made it worse. As a result my parents decided to send me out to community college first and now I will be transferring to a 4 year school (I have a decent GPA).
Why do you hate Black women?
I actually don't. My life I have mainly grown up around Black and White people. Some women I like who are Black are Kerry Washington and Emanuelle Diniz (pornstar and name might be misspelled). Issue is most of the Black women in my area are "ghetto" as a lot of my friends like to say so I cannot see myself dating them. Yet Black women are not at the bottom of my preference list.
Why the obsession with blondes?
I have met a lot of pretty blondes but the ones down here are really really really stuck up. Honestly, I prefer brunettes over blondes.
If we were to ask you what kind of women you like, how would the ranking run?
1. Hispanic/Latino women (Colombian and Brazilian)
2. Southern and Eastern European aka White women with darker features and darker skin
3. Mixed race women (Black/White mix or Asian/White mix)
4. White Brunettes
5. Black women of a lighter skin complexion
6. Asian women
7. Black women of a darker skin complex
8. Indian and Middle Eastern women
9. Redheads
Why should you help me?
You don't have to, it is just that on here people talk about race so openly and informatively that I may gain some useful information. I grew up in an area where I am pretty much the only Indian kid so I don't know what it is about being Indian that is so bad.
What if you don't help me?
I go away.
What do I want to know?
1. What is it about being an Indian guy that is so bad? Nearly every forum I have visited, it is like Indian men are the jokes of this dating world.
2. Are there bad stereotypes going to limit me when I move to NYC or a bigger area?
What are you bringing to the table?
Good work ethic and I will apply myself rather than sit on here and post all day. If I get a general idea, then I will work with that.
In terms of women, what are my plans?
I want to date women from the following countries in my lifetime: Brazil, Hungary, Italy, Spain, France, Colombia, Argentina, and Japan. Any idea how it is like there for an Indian guy.
My dream scenario would be to move out to Southern California and live the player kind of lifestyle there.
So there it is, I am open for suggestions but mostly I want to read your replies since you guys know so much
for your time
Are you an FOB?
No, I was born and raised here in the west. My current state of residence, as it has been for the past 8 years is South Carolina (border between South Carolina and North Carolina really). I am a 20 year old community college student (transferring to 4 year colleges soon) who had to see some unfortunate circumstances. Parents did to an extent shelter me and I was homeschooled which really made it worse. As a result my parents decided to send me out to community college first and now I will be transferring to a 4 year school (I have a decent GPA).
Why do you hate Black women?
I actually don't. My life I have mainly grown up around Black and White people. Some women I like who are Black are Kerry Washington and Emanuelle Diniz (pornstar and name might be misspelled). Issue is most of the Black women in my area are "ghetto" as a lot of my friends like to say so I cannot see myself dating them. Yet Black women are not at the bottom of my preference list.
Why the obsession with blondes?
I have met a lot of pretty blondes but the ones down here are really really really stuck up. Honestly, I prefer brunettes over blondes.
If we were to ask you what kind of women you like, how would the ranking run?
1. Hispanic/Latino women (Colombian and Brazilian)
2. Southern and Eastern European aka White women with darker features and darker skin
3. Mixed race women (Black/White mix or Asian/White mix)
4. White Brunettes
5. Black women of a lighter skin complexion
6. Asian women
7. Black women of a darker skin complex
8. Indian and Middle Eastern women
9. Redheads
Why should you help me?
You don't have to, it is just that on here people talk about race so openly and informatively that I may gain some useful information. I grew up in an area where I am pretty much the only Indian kid so I don't know what it is about being Indian that is so bad.
What if you don't help me?
I go away.
What do I want to know?
1. What is it about being an Indian guy that is so bad? Nearly every forum I have visited, it is like Indian men are the jokes of this dating world.
2. Are there bad stereotypes going to limit me when I move to NYC or a bigger area?
What are you bringing to the table?
Good work ethic and I will apply myself rather than sit on here and post all day. If I get a general idea, then I will work with that.
In terms of women, what are my plans?
I want to date women from the following countries in my lifetime: Brazil, Hungary, Italy, Spain, France, Colombia, Argentina, and Japan. Any idea how it is like there for an Indian guy.
My dream scenario would be to move out to Southern California and live the player kind of lifestyle there.
So there it is, I am open for suggestions but mostly I want to read your replies since you guys know so much
for your time