This is a theory I've been working on for a while. It will hopefully attempt to answer two big nightlife questions I've had for a while.
1. Why do many groups of girls, drink, dance, talk to a bunch of guys, reject them all and leave? Is no guy good enough for them? Don't they want to hook up with someone?
2. Why is it so easy to hook up on vacation, but quite challenging back home?
Keep in mind, this is a generalization. There are no 100 percent rules in this game. (There will always be some hookups going on.)
First, it is no secret that generally, guys go out to get laid, while women go out for drinks, attention, and an ego boost. The attention whore type girl is famous for that. But what always puzzled me is the huge quantity of guys that they would reject. Some were some really good looking tall buff young dudes. Other groups of girls just seem uninterested in meeting men period. Are they lesbian? Do they not have needs too?
I believe it's due to texting and the "booty text." That girl that flirted with, took drinks from, and rejected several guys doesn't need any of them. She also doesn't need to look like a slut by going home with one of them. Like any decent looking girl, she has at least one FB or ex-BF's number stored in her phone.
So she can get into the venue free (usually), have guys buy her drinks, dance lesbian with her GFs, and get a huge ego boost by rejecting a bunch of guys. Then, when she gets home with her buzz still on (that the bar/club dudes paid for), she'll booty text her FB and have him come over to bang.
It's a win-win for her. She has a fun evening out and can still have hot sex in the end if she desires. Why go home with some strange dude that could be dangerous, a creeper, or bad in the sack? Why not stick with a guy she knows is good in the sack and she's comfortable with? And she can text him after her GFs drop her off for the evening, so nobody is the wiser. This eliminates the "looking like a slut" concern.
So back to my other question, why is it easier to score on vacation than back home? Certainly people feel less inhibited on vacation. But more importantly, when she is away from home, she doesn't have access to her FBs at home. If she wants to get laid on vacation, she has to find a guy there to hook up with.
So while all the rejected guys at the end of the night are scratching their heads asking themselves the following questions:
1. Where did I go wrong? That chick was so into me.
2. Did I forget to neg or not stack enough routines?
3. Do I need to hit the gym?
You have to realize that to some extent, the game may be rigged. A lot of girls may have no intention of hooking up at the bar or club. They just want to party. When they want sex at the end of the night, they can order it faster than a pizza by sending a booty text to a guy they're already fucking.
Thoughts?
1. Why do many groups of girls, drink, dance, talk to a bunch of guys, reject them all and leave? Is no guy good enough for them? Don't they want to hook up with someone?
2. Why is it so easy to hook up on vacation, but quite challenging back home?
Keep in mind, this is a generalization. There are no 100 percent rules in this game. (There will always be some hookups going on.)
First, it is no secret that generally, guys go out to get laid, while women go out for drinks, attention, and an ego boost. The attention whore type girl is famous for that. But what always puzzled me is the huge quantity of guys that they would reject. Some were some really good looking tall buff young dudes. Other groups of girls just seem uninterested in meeting men period. Are they lesbian? Do they not have needs too?
I believe it's due to texting and the "booty text." That girl that flirted with, took drinks from, and rejected several guys doesn't need any of them. She also doesn't need to look like a slut by going home with one of them. Like any decent looking girl, she has at least one FB or ex-BF's number stored in her phone.
So she can get into the venue free (usually), have guys buy her drinks, dance lesbian with her GFs, and get a huge ego boost by rejecting a bunch of guys. Then, when she gets home with her buzz still on (that the bar/club dudes paid for), she'll booty text her FB and have him come over to bang.
It's a win-win for her. She has a fun evening out and can still have hot sex in the end if she desires. Why go home with some strange dude that could be dangerous, a creeper, or bad in the sack? Why not stick with a guy she knows is good in the sack and she's comfortable with? And she can text him after her GFs drop her off for the evening, so nobody is the wiser. This eliminates the "looking like a slut" concern.
So back to my other question, why is it easier to score on vacation than back home? Certainly people feel less inhibited on vacation. But more importantly, when she is away from home, she doesn't have access to her FBs at home. If she wants to get laid on vacation, she has to find a guy there to hook up with.
So while all the rejected guys at the end of the night are scratching their heads asking themselves the following questions:
1. Where did I go wrong? That chick was so into me.
2. Did I forget to neg or not stack enough routines?
3. Do I need to hit the gym?
You have to realize that to some extent, the game may be rigged. A lot of girls may have no intention of hooking up at the bar or club. They just want to party. When they want sex at the end of the night, they can order it faster than a pizza by sending a booty text to a guy they're already fucking.
Thoughts?