restarting again. Aiming for the 24 July. I will pick up another activity/read. I have noticed a pattern in my behaviour that needs to be broken.

I get to about the two week mark and then start losing my mind. Standards drop and desperation sets in I start seeing disgusting women as viable options.

Its no wonder ugly/average women flock to navy/army bases hoping to trade up on desperate and horny chads returning from duty.

Just deleted all the porn off my computer and all three of my accounts on porn sites (Pornhub, Xhamster, Motherless)
Saw this on Xhamster when I went to delete it "3345 days on xHamster" I'm assuming thats days I have had a account not days I've watched videos

Day 1

^9 years? Duuuudee! But nevermind, good luck on your path.

Quote: (04-28-2019 02:39 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

Just deleted all the porn off my computer and all three of my accounts on porn sites (Pornhub, Xhamster, Motherless)
Saw this on Xhamster when I went to delete it "3345 days on xHamster" I'm assuming thats days I have had a account not days I've watched videos

Day 1

Welcome aboard Cr33pin. Wish you success.

Welcome aboard, bearded bro.

I'm been clean for about a month. Really noticing the difference.

I'm back, I managed to about 4 month before and my energy levels and focus increased dramatically.

I had a binge porn session last week (first one in about 8 months) and felt like shit afterwards.

Here's to holding my weak ass responsible!

Restart yesterday. Today's day one.

I'm at 63 days now and the sad thing is. Although I feel all the positive effects of Nofap, The urges are still there. Recently It used to be about bust busting a nut now it seems I just want to search porn. The difference is I stopped strolling through Instagram and mainly spent my free time learning.

It hasn't been hard to stop my self from relapsing but the thought is always there. I think times like this make porn blockers their most effective.

Restart today made it to day 37. Will go two weeks maybe. Instead of focusing so much on nofap, I'm going to focus on other productive things I can do to improve my life.

From Roosh's talk with Michael E Jones on pornography and "playing with yourself because you're bored":

https://youtu.be/uYOcyDRcG1E?t=1225

Quote: (08-21-2012 02:52 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  

Quote: (08-19-2012 03:05 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

Here's a toughie that I face:

Let's say I go for a week or so without nutting/jerking (I do like the psychological effects). Then I pull a SNL and I nut within 2 minutes of penetration from the lack of sexual stimulation during the preceding week. It's embarrassing.

Any solutions?

Solution to the early nut? No, impossible. Unless you want to rub a quick one off in the bathroom once she gets to your place.

For me, if its been 5+ days, I can nut and just keep going like nothing ever happened. If you can stay hard, or hard-ish, and bridge the refractory period gap, the girl won't be mad at all and you don't have to be embarrassed.

This crazy biological phenomenon is only possible when i practice no-fap.

Sorry if the problem has been covered already. I am facing the same problem, I normally last a long time but since I’m practicing no fap and get laid sporadically, I nut in 2 minuts and yeah, it’s embarrassing. I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I’ll get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don’t, in Brazil they can get me hard again with their warmth and hornyness).
I am using natural complements like horny goat weed but I feel it makes me nut even quicker.
How do you guys who are 38+ deal with this?

Edit: btw I stopped counting the days, I am at around 2,5 months with no fap, not hard at all, something must be wrong with my libido. I’ve been through hard time a year ago and stopped working out, I gained around 7 kilos with the junk food and lack of exercise, that must be fucking up my desire for pussy.

Quote: (05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote:  

I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I’ll get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don’t

I'm 40. Do you have advice about decreasing the refractory period? It sucks putting in all that effort for one nut and then the girl leaves (frequently I never see them again). I'm still horny as ever, but my body just won't cooperate. It's frustrating having a woman naked next to me and having to wait 30-60 minutes.

Quote: (05-01-2019 09:15 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  

Quote: (05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote:  

I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I’ll get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don’t

I'm 40. Do you have advice about decreasing the refractory period? It sucks putting in all that effort for one nut and then the girl leaves (frequently I never see them again). I'm still horny as ever, but my body just won't cooperate. It's frustrating having a woman naked next to me and having to wait 30-60 minutes.

That’s just nature, 30-60 minutes is not bad. Less than that at our age is difficult.

I've been doing NoFap for about a month. I am much quicker to lose my temper now. I'll blow up at a girl for flaking, or just annoying me in some way, which I never used to do. I've had words with guys over little stuff I would usually just ignore. I wonder if this is what steroids feel like. It's a pretty noticeable change in only a few weeks.

Restarting NoFap + NoPorn and now on Day 6.

I was on No Porn for ~ 35 days (a record for me) but I still fap every few days and am now on day 6.

I was almost gonna fap today but stopped after writing this post

Quote: (05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote:  

Sorry if the problem has been covered already. I am facing the same problem, I normally last a long time but since I’m practicing no fap and get laid sporadically [...]

If this is truly a problem for you (I don't think it's an issue) there is a drug you can take:

Priligy (dapoxetine)

Quote: (05-02-2019 06:28 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  

Restarting NoFap + NoPorn and now on Day 6.

I was on No Porn for ~ 35 days (a record for me) but I still fap every few days and am now on day 6.

I was almost gonna fap today but stopped after writing this post

Well done mate. I hope you still haven't?

Quote: (05-01-2019 07:53 AM)Lino Wrote:  

Quote: (08-21-2012 02:52 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  

Quote: (08-19-2012 03:05 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

Here's a toughie that I face:

Let's say I go for a week or so without nutting/jerking (I do like the psychological effects). Then I pull a SNL and I nut within 2 minutes of penetration from the lack of sexual stimulation during the preceding week. It's embarrassing.

Any solutions?

Solution to the early nut? No, impossible. Unless you want to rub a quick one off in the bathroom once she gets to your place.

For me, if its been 5+ days, I can nut and just keep going like nothing ever happened. If you can stay hard, or hard-ish, and bridge the refractory period gap, the girl won't be mad at all and you don't have to be embarrassed.

This crazy biological phenomenon is only possible when i practice no-fap.

Sorry if the problem has been covered already. I am facing the same problem, I normally last a long time but since I’m practicing no fap and get laid sporadically, I nut in 2 minuts and yeah, it’s embarrassing. I am getting old so the refractory period gets longer...not even sure I’ll get hard a second time (depends if the girl turns me on or not, in France they usually don’t, in Brazil they can get me hard again with their warmth and hornyness).
I am using natural complements like horny goat weed but I feel it makes me nut even quicker.
How do you guys who are 38+ deal with this?

I think the main issue with nofap is actually not masturbation itself, but watching porn. So you can still masturbate, just don't watch porn, use your imagination.

I've done it for a couple weeks and yes you do get horny. The downside to this is that you tend to lower your standards just to get your release. Be aware of this and try to avoid women who are beneath you

Roosh's interview with Michael E Jones was a huge wake-up call for me and has made me re-evaluate my current lifestyle on a few different levels.

What if there's a higher purpose for me, and I can't see it because I'm being blinded by lust?

The most immediate step of action I plan on taking is giving up pornography and masturbation.

Today is Day 1.

God dam..
Keep slipping away...

Pretty hard. Day 2 in 30minutes.

Guys, do you not realize that the problem is not masturbation, but ejaculating? The whole point is to avoid ejaculation, porn is just leading you to it in an unnatural way. Porn is evil, but the point of no fap is not to ejaculate, which means, if you are cumming a lot with a girlfriend or some other woman, you will not fuck your brain up as much, but you will lose the vital energy anyway.

Those turbo-pua in this forum that only talk about how many hundreds of women they pull, now that they are in their 30s... or how they fuck 3 times a day with their girlfriends... well, if we assume that they cum at least everytime they have sex, they are just dying thru their penis. It is a slow, leaking suicide.

The most I have been without ejaculating are some months. I mean, the whole problem for a man is realizing that the sexuality for a man is not the same as the sexuality for a woman. A woman can have sex everyday without hurting herself. A man that after puberty keeps Cumming like more than a handfull times a year is just killing himself. I wish I stopped earlier, and I reduced the frequency a long time ago because I knew it instinctively.

I know this is a forum for inserting penis into vagina. But the reality is that ejaculating destroys the health of a man, his intelligence, his strength. No one is talking about this. Little seem to care.

I’m not sure about that. Are you speaking from actual experience or just rambling?

Everyone on the internet loves to talk about how cumming drains your sexual energy. Personally, I feel that when I masturbate to porn. It’s a significant energy drain.

However, that does not happen when I am having actual sex. There is nothing more energizing than fresh young pussy. It’s better than a strong cup of coffee, especially when with a woman I love.

Quote: (05-05-2019 02:16 PM)Spaniard in Germany Wrote:  

Guys, do you not realize that the problem is not masturbation, but ejaculating? The whole point is to avoid ejaculation, porn is just leading you to it in an unnatural way. Porn is evil, but the point of no fap is not to ejaculate, which means, if you are cumming a lot with a girlfriend or some other woman, you will not fuck your brain up as much, but you will lose the vital energy anyway.

Those turbo-pua in this forum that only talk about how many hundreds of women they pull, now that they are in their 30s... or how they fuck 3 times a day with their girlfriends... well, if we assume that they cum at least everytime they have sex, they are just dying thru their penis. It is a slow, leaking suicide.

The most I have been without ejaculating are some months. I mean, the whole problem for a man is realizing that the sexuality for a man is not the same as the sexuality for a woman. A woman can have sex everyday without hurting herself. A man that after puberty keeps Cumming like more than a handfull times a year is just killing himself. I wish I stopped earlier, and I reduced the frequency a long time ago because I knew it instinctively.

I know this is a forum for inserting penis into vagina. But the reality is that ejaculating destroys the health of a man, his intelligence, his strength. No one is talking about this. Little seem to care.

So what’s your suggestion? Joining you in the church?